Do you ever wish you had a smaller cock?

[Barebackpiggy]

I'd be interested to hear about the experience of the very well endowed, do you ever wish you had a smaller cock?

Is it so big that most bottoms refuse to be bred? I have had experiences in the past where I've had to stop as it was too painful.

What's it like being a total bottom with a huge cock? Does everyone presume you are top and you get pestered by fellow bottoms all the time?

[Guest CuriousDallas]

I’m not super hung (8 inches hard, average thickness, uncut) but a little bigger than average but I’ve had quite a few guys intimidated about taking me or say no on account of my size. That’s cool as I like to bottom and will take their cocks but it pisses me off they won’t take my cock. Worse are guys who get me worked up and I start fucking them and they ask me to stop because it hurts. I’ve gotten good at jacking and then skidding just the tip in to cum and usually wind up doing that with those guys but it just isn’t the same as I love being in balls deep when I cum. When I started fucking I usually bottoms as so many of my buds hadn’t taken a very big dick and I was pretty much the biggest cock amongst the buds I played with. Life might be easier if I was 7” but I can’t complain.

[GeorgiaBoy]

I would gladly accept any of the inches from your cock that would would care to lose. That written, I can take all of your eight inches--balls deep.

[tighthole64]

Its frustrating finding a total bottom with a big cock. If I was endowed sure Id be more vers.  If you got it, flaunt it!

[shaved_thong_lover]

I am a bottom and already have a small cock. 2.5 inches soft, 5 inches hard.  Other than at the beach when I am wearing a gstring and cock ring to bulge to attract guys. I wish my cock and balls were even smaller.  As a total cum slut bottom I feel like my cock is insignificant.  I have thought about castration or even removing my cock completely but then thought guys wouldn't want to fuck me because I would lose muscle mass and look wierd on the beach and in the bath houses.  But I do wish it was smaller at times.  

[freshxtop5]

23 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

I’m not super hung (8 inches hard, average thickness, uncut) but a little bigger than average but I’ve had quite a few guys intimidated about taking me or say no on account of my size. That’s cool as I like to bottom and will take their cocks but it pisses me off they won’t take my cock. Worse are guys who get me worked up and I start fucking them and they ask me to stop because it hurts. I’ve gotten good at jacking and then skidding just the tip in to cum and usually wind up doing that with those guys but it just isn’t the same as I love being in balls deep when I cum. When I started fucking I usually bottoms as so many of my buds hadn’t taken a very big dick and I was pretty much the biggest cock amongst the buds I played with. Life might be easier if I was 7” but I can’t complain.

I would have no problem with you going in balls deep 

[hungry_hole]

On 2/20/2020 at 8:19 PM, Barebackpiggy said:

I have had experiences in the past where I've had to stop as it was too painful.

I try to stay away from huge cocks especially at the bathhouse because I don't want one fuck to ruin my hole for the night.

I enjoy the feeling of a cock in my hole but I like to have control over the friction by squeezing and opening up my hole as I get fucked. If the cock is too thick I'm forced to open up and I no longer have control because squeezing is no longer a possibility. Yes, a thick cock in my hole is an different experience but the risk keeps me away.

When it comes to size of cocks apart form the width, is the length. Getting fucked by a long thin cock is sometimes a bit uncomfortable when the cock hits the back wall. It's weird. I really don't mind the size of a cock as long as it's not too large, best under 8 inches and not too thick. I sort of enjoy getting fucked by a small cock, as long it it's hard and will eventually spew some cum. When I get fucked by a guy with a small cock, I just squeeze my hole a bit more. The exception to the rule are gloryholes where it becomes difficult to suck a small cock.

[bivergent]

As someone who if I wasn't in a relationship with a girl would consider myself to be a bottom I would want a smaller cock. I don't consider myself big at between 7 and 8 inch long and about 5 around but when I was actively looking the guys I would find would want me to top them.

[billy]

I'm a bottom. I'd say 85% of the responses I get online are from bottoms wanting me to fuck them, even though in my ads/profiles I make it clear that I'm a bottom looking for a top or vers.  And the thing is, my dick isn't that big!!

[Guest BreedingCameraman]

Short answer: no.

Long answer: I don’t feel like typing up a massive wall of text when I’ve already answered the question. A summarized version, however, would be that I’ve had others tell me, more often than not, that my cock is the perfect size and thickness for them to comfortably take.

[cman54]

4 minutes ago, BreedingCameraman said:

Short answer: no.

Long answer: I don’t feel like typing up a massive wall of text when I’ve already answered the question. A summarized version, however, would be that I’ve had others tell me, more often than not, that my cock is the perfect size and thickness for them to comfortably take.

Totally agree with you. I could not have said it better. 

[bocini]

I am a total bottom.  My cock is just over 4 inches hard and less then 2 Sòft. So its a none issue really for me. I only use it to wank and piss with.

I like it to be smaller still as i enjoy the ridicule i get from it.

But the wierd thing for me is small cocks hurt when they fuck me. Where the 8 inch thick cocks feel amazing.  I am sore the next day but i love that feeling. .

[travelingbi]

While I'm 100% total bottom, my cocksize isn't an issue for me at all. But, I have played with a lot of really hung tops that have complained that they wished their cocks were smaller, because both men and women have turned them down or stopped them from fucking them, because the couldn't take his huge cock.
One in particular was a "regular" of mine, who fucked me for many, many years. This guy was basically str8. An older guy, that had been married for 40+ years to the same woman. Had 3 grown, married kids and grandkids. Had always lived a heterosexual life. He said he'd never even given the thought to having sex with men. But that as his wife had aged, she'd gotten to the point where sex for her was painful. He said they'd never had the most exciting sex life. But it had worked all those years. He said he had had sex a few times with some anonymous women when he was on business trips. But that for the most part, he had tried to remain faithful to his wife.  But, he said on a business trip, he got drunk and let a guy he met at the hotel bar blow him. He said this guy gave him the best blowjob he'd ever had in his life. 
My buddy is extremely hung and very thick. So, when he told me this guy was able to nearly deepthroat him, I was impressed. My buddy told me that after that hotel experience, he opened his mind and began to answer m2m ads on Craigslist. That's how I found him. He answered my CL ad. 
He came to my apartment and I nearly fell over when he dropped his boxers and I saw the huge slab of meat hanging between his legs. It took a little time and effort to make him hard, but once he was fully hard, his cock was one of the funnest cocks I'd ever had in my mouth and hands. Just holding it was exciting. Because I'd never seen nor felt such a giant cock in my life. He's as close to John Holmes in size and girth as I've ever experienced. 
Anyway, I blew him that afternoon and rimmed him, too. He told me he had never been rimmed before. He was hooked. Our "fuck buddy" relationship developed over the next few weeks and each time he was more relaxed and went further and further until he finally asked to fuck me. I have to admit that I was very nervous about that. I truly didn't think I would be able to take his cock in my ass. I was honest with him and said, can I have a cocktail before we tried this? I knew I was going to need to be super relaxed.
So, I made us both a cocktail. I made mine extra strong. We laid on the bed, watching some str8 porn as we finished our drinks. Then I went back to sucking and rimming him to get him hard again. Finally, he told me to get on my hands and knees. He was going to fuck my ass. I asked him to lube me up extra good. And to lube his cock extra good. He thankfully did. He told me that he had fucked a few women in the ass. Prostitutes, mostly. And that he had attempted to fuck one other guy, but the guy couldn't take him anally. I told him I would give it my best shot. Thankfully, I had a brand new, fresh bottle of poppers. I broke the seal and took some deep drags on the poppers as he fingered my ass to open me up. He was experienced enough to know that he needed to loosen my ass up before attempting it. The more he fingered my ass, the horniner I got, until I finally told him to put his cock in me. I wanted it.
He slowly pushed up inside me as I inhaled deeply on the fresh poppers. My head was spinning, but soon he had slowly slid balls deep into me. I aksed him to hold still like that, so that I could fully adjust to his cock inside me.  I couldn't believe that I had actually taken such a giant dick all the way inside me. When he began to pump, it was like a plunger. He'd of course gone way up past the second sphincter. It was a completely new sensation to me. Thank God for the vodka and the poppers. Somehow I could accommodate that monster and thoroughly enjoyed the feeling. He fucked me for well over 10 minutes before he came. When he finally began to orgasm inside me, his orgasm seemed to go on and on. He'd orgasm, then stop, then start again. He came for close to a full minute. When he pulled out, it felt like a river of cum slid down my inner thigh.
We both collapsed on the bed. Instinctively, I cuddled up to  him and stroked his hairy chest as I neasted my head on his shoulder, in the crook of his neck. We were both breathing heavily. And to my surprise, he didn't push me away. But pulled me tightly to him. We finally pulled apart. And the "Str8 guy" part of him was back. As if finally realizing what he'd done, he jumped up and said. "Well......... I've got to get going. Can I shower?"
As he showered, I dressed and put my bed back in shape. It looked like a bomb had gone off. 
He dressed, said a simple "thanks" and left. 
He texted me the next day and said, "I'm really conflicted about what happened yesterday. But, I have to tell you that I have to try this again with you. I can't get it out of my mind. I'm so amazed you could let me fuck you like that. I've always regretted having such a giant cock. But, you took it like it was nothing. When can I come back?"
I was super pleased he had enjoyed it and wanted to come back. But I do have to admit I was sore the next day. But I told him to come back at the end of the week. 
We became regular fuck buddies for several years until he retired and moved out of state. During that time, he continued to not only play with me, but had met and played with many, many other gay and bi men. He even told me that he now considered himself to be bi. And that he looked mainly for male sex partners, versus female as he'd always done in the past. 
There have been many other extremely hung men that have told me have had similar issues with men and women not being able to handle their size. From their accounts, it seems men seem to accommodate a giant cock in our asses more than most women. 
I do know that I'm always happy to help out a giant dick, gay, str8, bi or otherwise. I'll at least do my best. 

 

[Guest]

I have a big cock, and guys do sometimes want me to fuck them because of that.  I don't really look like a top though, and I ONLY bottom. Even with my cock size, my ass gets a lot of attention, so it's never really a problem.  Guys almost always want to fuck me instead of me fucking them.

[drscorpio]

I have largely made peace with my slightly below average piece. 

I met a guy at Southern Decadence last year who was complaining about having a big one. "No one ever wants to let me top." I showed him different. 😉