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Bareback: the new routine way of having sex?


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I host or attend parties just about every week and bareback is definitely the norm. There are still some guys who want to wear a condom. I used to pass them up but now I don’t mind. Two guys I know love to ram the shit out of my hole—not literally—and they always wear a condom. I would miss some really good hole destruction if I didn’t let them fuck me because of a condom. So while I would rather have their cum in my guts, I am just as happy to suck it out of the condom and swallow it. 

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I think bareback is the  new norm.  Porn sites reflect that as well as what my husband and I have found in bath houses and group parties the past few years.  With a condom two gay men totally miss out on that super moment when one takes the jizz of the other.   I have not seen or been around a condom for several years.

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I grew up when bare sex was shunned and was honestly quite dangerous.

That said my first time my first time having sex ever was on bottom (shocking) with this sexy Latino.  He was no thicker than me but that cock had some serious reach.  I wasn’t planning on hooking up(never had before and honestly definitely not confident on that front), but met him out and well it happened.

He was super disappointed when he found I didn’t have condoms. I mean who didn’t at that time.  But I think the allure of raw and a virgin hole was enough.  Plus we both were lightly drunk so any inhibitions on that front faded away.   I knew better but was lustful for this fella.  

For a big boy he was pretty good top.  And I know he wanted to unleash but I think he confirmed my story that I was a virgin as he started fucking.  Ya I struggled a bit but was also crazy rock hard.  

He was a sweetie asked if he could cum in me (as he was getting close). and I couldn’t imagine saying no.  I nodded. The look on his face when he knew he could breed me was so so so amazing.  I’ll never forget that look of, “omg I can’t believe I can do this”. 

After that he fucked me like he wanted to, wrecking me good.  Clearly the lust took hold. 

All this still shapes my world on bareback.  That automatic animal reaction he had was just such a beautiful unfiltered moment that I’ll never forget.  It’s clear that bare is the thing we all lust for, and depending on our situations have to sometimes (selectively) refrain from. 
I later discovered I’m a way better top than bottom, and still bare was hard to shake.  (Oh ya the latino and I met up again and played safe and it wasn’t at all good. Sadly). Some year later the inevitable happened (this was pre prep) and topping even, and well decided to never fuck covered.  But in all reality, I rarely did even by that point.

So now that it’s easier to do in some countries, it’s beautiful that men can engage in such moments more often. 

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On 2/21/2020 at 5:01 PM, concerned1 said:

Are gay men the world over in a post-condom age?

What I hear from heterosexual and bisexual guys, there's not a lot of condom use there either.

Including MF couples that enjoy 'swinging'.

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Yeah definitely. I haven't met any guy that's asked for a condom in at least 4 years. Guys don't even ask, they just eat my ass and slide in raw, and when they do ask, they normally ask if I'm on prep, which I tell them "no" I don't really care much for it and they're still down to go bare anyways. Raw is the new way of life it seems. I'm not complaining lol

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