Voyeurism

[evilalex]

Heya, anyone else really into voyeurism? 

I've always gotten off on the thought of watching guys fuck, especially orgies. But I've never really explored it beyond watching porn and webcams. I think what I'd like is to watch and give encouragement/cheer on the fucking. With the occasional bj. Do any of you have advice for getting more into this scene, if it is one?

[tallslenderguy]

There is a whole niche of bottoms who want and love the idea of being pimped out, i think this is an opportunity for a voyeur.

i love the energy and lust of a voyeur.

With my own particular wiring as a bottom with sub is attracted to a Top who is voyeur.  For me, it's not just the loads or cocks i need/want, it's the intense connection with a Top and HIs need/want to breed. i see a Top voyeur as a variation on that. If a Top whored me out, my focus would be on Him the whole time, for me He'd be the one fucking and breeding me, vicariously. The guys He is whoring me out to are like 'toys'  He is using on me, so i see and relate to Him as the breeder and am locked onto Him the whole time He is watching.

Edited July 8, 2020 by tallslenderguy

[ErosWired]

Just about every time I host, I’ll get at least one guy who asks if he can come and just watch. On the face of it, I’ve got no problem at all with a voyeur watching me being fucked by other men - an audience brings out the best in my sexual submission.

The trouble is, I find that the majority of the Tops who will come out to enjoy some anon cunt at a hotel do not like being watched while they do it. The married guys, the shy and uncertain guys, the older gentleman with quaint and pleasant notions of decorum - they all need the privacy, discretion, and personal, individual one-on-one treatment I provide. I guess it’s why some of them keep coming back to me (maybe also the ass 😉 ). A voyeur lurking around would drive half of them off in an eyeblink.

Those Tops that don’t mind usually end up expecting everyone present to get involved with the action in one way or another, in my experience, and if it doesn’t happen, they often become disgruntled or offended and take it personally. It can be a mood-killer.

So my hard-and-fast rule now is, any man can come watch me get fucked, but he has to bring the Top with him, and they have to depart together unless he has made arrangements for additional Tops to follow soon after. He may not linger, and he may not watch someone with whom he has no prior agreement. But hey, if he brings his own Top, I don’t care what he does - he can come sit a foot in front  of my face so he can stare deep into my eyes when I cum, for all I care.

 There are droves of bottoms who would like to take advantage of my courage to throw myself out there and attract Men for sex (and take free advantage of the hotel room I’m paying for) and ask me to “find some Tops for them”. The voyeur requests are exactly the same, and my advice to both is pretty much equally: Find uncommitted curious kinksters, or fondle friends.

[Collar4chemboys]

On 7/8/2020 at 2:20 PM, tallslenderguy said:

There is a whole niche of bottoms who want and love the idea of being pimped out, i think this is an opportunity for a voyeur.

i love the energy and lust of a voyeur.

With my own particular wiring as a bottom with sub is attracted to a Top who is voyeur.  For me, it's not just the loads or cocks i need/want, it's the intense connection with a Top and HIs need/want to breed. i see a Top voyeur as a variation on that. If a Top whored me out, my focus would be on Him the whole time, for me He'd be the one fucking and breeding me, vicariously. The guys He is whoring me out to are like 'toys'  He is using on me, so i see and relate to Him as the breeder and am locked onto Him the whole time He is watching.

In regards to voyeur or what we called in the dungeon or during dungeon parties as gawkerd...   Unless you are high as a kite on T or Coke or G, or you are an exhitbitonist most people actually dislike voyeurism. As it's very annoying. I used to work at the local leather bar,  there is a back room where e anything goes.. The biggest problem we had are trolling voyeur will thinks with two others are playing they are there playing for their entertainment.... U be surprise how many times  the bar has to kick some of these gawkers out because  I out 10 times they are high on T and they will go interrupt the two going and it and tell them. How they should and should do something.. Voyage is one.. Starting is different.   

You have to be so out of it that u don't realized someone is starring at u. 

The niche of being pimped out a what some consider as TPE in BDSM, aka total power exchange. It is about domination and submissions it is about degrading and owning a boy/sub it is about control.. At least that's is what it started... U add enough Crystal Meth and G into the equation and u go sprial into that T influence su missive piggy slutty raunchy slut that wasn't to take more and all....  ... Yes T or. Meth or. Clouds or slam it blocks the neutrotransmitter in yiur brain so u have a proper risk assessment...    Anyway u get the idea we all all adults here those of us knows knows better... Some of you are [banned word] and I hope it's mostly poz talk. 🙄

[Bottomb1ichbo1]

I love being watched by a 3rd or more. Kinda makes it like im performing or being shown.  I love getting cheers or talked to,  being called names.  Is a huge turn on

[1000GUYS]

i like to watch, whenever i go to saunas, i prefer to watch, since im not on prep and i hate condoms, its a safe way to have pleasure... once im on prep ill hope to be watched

[justsexnowatl]

I'm into voyeurism and exhibitionism - part of the reason I love sex clubs.  I haven't had a lot of "private" sessions like you're talking about but the hottest was my young latin bottom buddy (knows I'm vers) arranging his huge hung black top buddy to fuck me while he watched.  Bottom bud rode in the car with me to the top's house and warned me he was NOT cleaned out and it was all up to me.  I've written about this before because it was by far the biggest cock I've ever taken.  We both sucked the top hard and then my buddy just sat back several feet away and jacked his cock and edged while I got impaled for 45 mins.  When it was getting obvious the top was gonna breed me (missionary) my voyeur buddy moved into position over my face and came all over my face and open mouth as the top bred me and I jacked my own load out.  It was incredible taking that massive dick, but icing on the cake was having my regular buddy watching me get used like that.  He's one of my two lockdown hookups who just came over and sucked me off 3 weeks ago after telling me not to cum all week.  Then I edged for about 4 hours before he came over, so I had a MASSIVE load by the time he got here.  He watched me stroke for a few before he stripped and dropped to his knees to suck my cock and load.  Love showing off AND watching!!

[FelchingPisser]

I have had quite a bit of good luck with inviting voyeurs to watch me fuck.  Not counting the countless times I play in public, I have only let the voyeur come over if I am playing with a bottom I know--and a bottom who I know will get turned on by having the guest stroke to my using his hole.  I do tell the voyeur up front he doesn't have to be naked, but we'd prefer it.  And he doesn't have to stroke his dick, but usually they can't help it.  They are allowed to touch either of us if they want.  I have never had a voyeur try to take over a scene.  More often than not, I can convince the voyeur to shoot on the bottom.  The best is getting the voyeur to shoot on my cock and I will fuck the extra load into my bottom of the day.  The look on the voyeur's face as I breed the bottom with his load is amazing:  hunger, yearning, disbelief, a little repulsion and lust all rolled up in one.

[MuscledHorse]

Huge exhibitionist here. I love  being watched, whether it's guys in a locker room  stealing glances at  my fat penis while I take my time changing or guys gathered around watching me the way families do a circus side show freak while my giant asshole is being punch fisted by a guy's large paw, or anything in between I love being looked at like a piece of meat and seeing guys getting off on my body and the use it is getting. I find it a huge compliment.

[rawsatyr]

Some call it DOGGING!!! ( as in: shameless fornicating, like dogs in the street, indifferent to who is watching)

Just yesterday I came across a clip on U-Tube that was actually a skid from an (unknown) British comedy show. In it a somewhat crass lady (with her dog) tries to tell her friend about 'DOGGING' which she understands as 'taking your dog to the park'...

With her friend trying to tell her she is mistaken, 'dogging meaning something more seedy', she rolls down the car window to ask a random dog-walking 'pensioner' to 'settle the issue'. With a fiendish smirk and a wink the tame-looking stranger reveals his 'seedier' side and brags about DOGGING his old lady in front of a crowd at an abandoned factory ruin...

Oddly, as crass as the imagery is (British straight people banging in knickers with a crowd of soccer-fan perverts ogling and cat-calling) the thought of public-bravado-fucking did kinda turn me on... in A BIG WAY!

Something about the whole 'voyeurism', 'exhibitionism' and fucking FOR SPORT to a bunch of anonymous strangers has become a huge thrill for me (in recent years). Really quite a CONVERSION for me; after being hung up on 'privacy', monogamy and being a semi-bashful prude (in comparison to guys on here) with DEFINITE LIMITS I refused to cross... Yes I did a nude photo-shoot for Advocate once, but then so did my BF and virtually all the guys I knew in West Hollywood. Some were strippers and others somehow 'dabbled' in selling their bodies and looks for fame and glory. One of them, Dirk Schaefer even made it to PLAYGIRL 'Man of The Year' (yes I know he died a couple years ago, overdose possibly).

As to LIMITS: I discovered my LIMITS in the 1990s when I froze up in the photo-shoot when Dean (the photographer) asked me to 'SHOW OFF YOUR HOLE'. What? Showing my hole would imply I am a bottom, take cock up the ass... how humiliating... and for EVERYBODY to see me in a trashy magazine, total strangers and people I know as A BOTTOM... INCONCEIVABLE!

Fast forward a decade or so to a summer party weekend in Memphis TN. I agree to meet a hottie at a well-known address on Central Avenue. Following his lead, we were naked, no questions asked, no formalities... lip-locking, bumping hard-ons into each others shaved crotches... Yeah that's the ticket!!! A few minutes into it,  I realize that the hot trick has an ulterior motive. I suspected he was among the dancers and 'trophy boys' the owners and their other wealthy friends had flown in for the weekend from Fort Lauderdale I think it was.... compared to the locals he was just too 'urban', uninhibited, tan and smooth. And he went straight to bareback sex with me; in the early 2000's when I was still on 'the fence' about raw sex with strangers. A bit nerve-wrecking but too irresistible. I was ALMOST AT EASE! A 'forbidden, possibly TOXIC fruit' too hard to resist! Deep-sixing my cock in him and then feeling his fat pony-cock slip in me... back and forth! Yeah I'm cool with this, at this point! But then I saw commotion in the huge semi-dark room, not caused by the ceiling fan going at full speed. There were human reflections in mirrors and curtains moving... all still too new for me. VOYEURS! Not one but possibly a whole group. He said something about "just my BF who likes to watch", as though that would ease my mind! Yeah and NO! Strangers and possibly people who knew me, seeing me engage in flip-flop bareback sex with a stranger... possibly a hustler/sex-worker... and I'm EXPOSED!!!

Fast forward to a couple years ago when my man and I decided to GO ALL OUT! Promiscuous bareback sex and no more shame and fears! There is this guy whom I consider among THE WILDEST and sluttiest in the local bareback underground. A looker and a hooker who dabbles in all with few limits. Travels with bags of toys and potions and will always be the one IN THE SLING getting fisted and bred by the bulls at the sex-party. Him and I teamed up (before Covid) and put on 'a show', in promptu, unrehearsed, him in the sling and me fisting him. Only the second time in my life I have ever fisted a dude then. Fisting and fucking him. Oddly, it was NOT the sex that turned me on the most but the knowledge that strangers were milling about, watching us, up close and personal. He for one does NOT LIKE strangers TOUCHING HIM but craves the exhibitionist attention. He is brusque to the point of rude when strangers cross the lines... I on the other hand realize I don't mind strangers touching me at all. Even guys who I would never think of having sex with. Them being SO CLOSE to two guys DOGGING, they are breathing down my neck, I can feel their body heat and feel them groping my balls and my ass... my hole even as I'm inside the other dude... if I felt splatters of anon cum on me I think it would be a rush!

In hindsight I WISHED I had shown my hole during that photo-shoot with Dean> Show my hole with a boner and my face showing, tongue out no less like a lascivious fuck! Have guys jerk off to the fantasy of doing me... IN PUBLIC! I think I like that side of me: I deserve the T-shirt that says: PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS

Edited July 10, 2020 by rawsatyr
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[SFSloppyAznBottom]

Went to Eros for the first time when I was 19, brought a huge group of guys to watch my Swedish Bear date pounding my then-tight hole.

Unfortunately I was a shy timid guy , or else I could've taken a lots of loads that day.

What's your favorite locations to be watched/to watch?

[blkboibtm]

Didn't think I would be into voyuer shit, until college and a top let his roommate watch us.  Was a turn on, especially when i locked eyes with his roomate as he smoked and jerked off watching me getting slutted out🤤 .  Opened me up to crusing with guys watching, purblic, group, etc. 

[LittleCumSewer]

I love it when guys watch me sucking cocks, getting fucked and taking loads anywhere and have always been the kinda whore guys watch getting used in public restrooms, porntheatres, bathhouses, parks, alleys, online, in clubs and guys house/apts. that's one of the reasons I have always enjoyed being a public cumdump, willing to take a load or ten anywhere. specially love putting on a show for a group of guys whether they are waiting for their turn to fuck me or just watching. love hearing guys talk about my body, my fuckhole or what a dirty slut I am. I literally don't care who sees me being a faggotwhore and a cumdumpster.it shows that I'm not just a whore,'m a trashy whore.i have gotten down on my knees and sucked cock right on a street corner and been fucked up the ass in the middle of a club

[leaker30]

My old roommate was a big voyeur. He always stopped in my room if he walked by and saw me jacking off and watch me pleasure myself. and rub/pitch my nipples since he knows how sensitive they are.

Occasionally he'd bring a guy back from the bar and watch the guy fuck me or me fuck the guy. He liked to get up close and personal by watching the cock go in the hole. He also liked to grab the dick and place it in the hole once we started. Then when we were almost done he'd get under us to as the top shot some would leak out as it does and drip onto his chest which he'd rub in.

Still friends with him but I don't get to see/chat with him often anymore. We were both nudist and would host naked movie/game night. Still miss being his roommate sometimes and he's said that I was the best one he ever had.

[ErosWired]

Sometimes if I’m at a place like a bathhouse or a camp or occasionally an Adult theater, I’ll get so involved in responding sexually to the Top using me that I’m not aware of other men - until suddenly there’ll be a murmur between a couple of them, unexpected and close: Mmm, take that fat cock, yeah... Or I’ll just notice a hint of movement out of the corner of my eye and see four faces clustered at the door of my bathhouse room, the moment after I just arched my back and came, loudly, as the Top astride me deep-fucked my cunt. Or the time at camp as I was being railed mercilessly in the dark on a picnic table when a man suddenly stepped up and put his glow-in-the-dark party necklet on the table so he and the dozen or so other men who had quietly gathered there could see the expressions on my face as I took that Alpha’s cock - I remember feeling helpless, knowing that all those eyes would see me in the daylight the next day and know that I was the one they had watched being cunted - and then the Top’s ability overwhelmed me and I realized they were about to watch me have a powerful, full-body orgasm under his control and there was nothing I could do about it. So I just let go and let my sex happen as though nobody were watching at all. It was one of the most fulfilling moments ever. I would take cock in front of an audience every time if I could.