Racism and gay community

[Cutedelicategay]

Off late there is a lot of discussion, protest, rallies across the world regarding systemic racial discrimination. However gay community too is not immune to racism. I have been rejected so many times for being a non white guy. Gay community is full of racism, ageism body shaming cock size shaming etc. Any thoughts on this please?

[Read1]

In my past posts, I'm written about ageism in bathhouses. I don't like 55, but my birth certificate states I'm 55 yrs old. When I get passed by at bathhouses I've hooked up with younger men, for the most part, who like playing with daddies. And I do have a bit of dad bod! So there!

[SFSloppyAznBottom]

I'm fine with not being someone's preference. It's always how they said it that bugs me. Like some guys who go out of their way to say "no fat no fem no Asian", they could've just said" I'm not interested thank you".

[Ranger Rick]

My thought is people are attracted to what attracts them and no one owes sex to someone he isn't attracted to. 

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

16 minutes ago, Cutedelicategay said:

Off late there is a lot of discussion, protest, rallies across the world regarding systemic racial discrimination. However gay community too is not immune to racism. I have been rejected so many times for being a non white guy. Gay community is full of racism, ageism body shaming cock size shaming etc. Any thoughts on this please?

Gay community is most toxic community then other one. First, this “community” is full of lies and hypocrisy that pretend being a “most peaceful, open minded, respectful, friendly, diverse, inclusive, loving etc” in the other people’s eyes. The life of this “community” based on double standards and double morality’s rules. That’s meant that in one hand this “community” wants to be socialized, want to get respect from str8 and religious people, want to be protected by Law. But in the other hand this “community” are prefer to put down, boycott, bully, harass, mentally abuse, reject anyone who doesn’t looks and behave a certain thing (patriarchal heteronormative sexual gender role standards, beauty standards of porn and standards of gay sex which porn industry are trying to dictated to everyone). And finally, having these 2 thoughts in its hands the gay community continuously trying to “teach “ or “treat” its “members” who might looks a bit different most of the gay guys, or might behave in their own, or might not being supportive to the “community rules and standards” and too loud with an open mouth about rudeness and issues inside of this “community” with an abusive tactics and methods, like Gaslighting for example. Gay “community” is full of a really pathetic fags without balls, characters, personality, education, good manners that pretend to be a victim in the eyes of the str8 community and in the same time all these fags and cocksuckers are a sexual offenders and some of them are a pedophiles

[wood]

A couple weekends ago I had a hot AF threesome with two men. One 5’8” one 6” both with 8.5x6 dicks. Im slightly smaller at a real 7.5”x6” but still 6’ tall. All of us are about 165lbs with decent bodies, but the 5’8” guy is kinda stacked.. anyway We all Fucked and nut in each other 4-5x. I haven’t felt that drained and filled at the same time in a while. It was such a hot time. I also date the taller guy and the shorter guy is an old Fuck bud who was visiting but The whole situation was sooo much amazing organic fun. We fucked, passed out, fucked, smoked some weed. Napped, ate, etc etc. such a good time. 

Anyway I Only bring this up because they are both black. I’m white. 
 

In a typical story here, or in a porn, or in so many places it would all be about “bbc and fetishized shit” and honestly it’s a terrible part of the gay community.

I bring that story up because it’s not uncommon for me, but as anyone who searches my posts I also never talk about it because I have no need to. I respect any person of any race as my equal, and frankly I always get the same respect in return. 

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

29 minutes ago, Ranger Rick said:

My thought is people are attracted to what attracts them and no one owes sex to someone he isn't attracted to. 

Right! Exactly! Definitely! As no one should behave like everyone in the community or have a sexual behavior like community’s standards have to (Means there’s the only one way to be fuckable if you accept a Dom Top and Sub Bttm rules cuz we’re really hate any other bottom’s sexuality like Dom Bttm or Power Bttm or Bossy Bttm or Picky Bttm etc). Isn’t it? Or am I wrong? 

[SFSloppyAznBottom]

8 minutes ago, POZitiveBoyZ said:

Right! Exactly! Definitely! As no one should behave like everyone in the community or have a sexual behavior like community’s standards have to (Means there’s the only one way to be fuckable if you accept a Dom Top and Sub Bttm rules cuz we’re really hate any other bottom’s sexuality like Dom Bttm or Power Bttm or Bossy Bttm or Picky Bttm etc). Isn’t it? Or am I wrong? 

People definitely should be only fucking who they like. But rude behaviors like elbowing someone in a sex club is not cool- that happened quite often to POC.

Imo it's more about the how. Just say no or walk away.

[evilqueerpig]

We're entitled to our preferences, but we need to be respectful.

[Cutedelicategay]

31 minutes ago, evilqueerpig said:

We're entitled to our preferences, but we need to be respectful.

Agreed with the preference part. Agreed that noone owes me sex. However That's not the case almost 100%. Dating and hookup apps should make their policies clear that words reflecting racism, ageism, body shaming etc should not be allowed. For example I see lot of people writing "noone over xx years" or "no fat guys" or " no asians" or " only whites" etc. There is really no need for certain filters in search option. These things can be discussed very well in private conversations between interested parties. Another observation I have often made in bathhouse type setting is that if an "unwanted"  person enters a group play in public area the entire group slowly disperses. It's so hilarious to watch that. Anyways gay community does work on double standards. 

Edited August 6, 2020 by Cutedelicategay

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

1 minute ago, evilqueerpig said:

We're entitled to our preferences, but we need to be respectful.

Preferences that based on race, body type, cock size, level of Masculinity or Femininity aren’t a sexual preferences in the meaning of how that term is worked or had a way by the start. Sexual preferences is it preferences based on some sort of sexual fetish’s like BDSM practice or role playing or piss playing or FFist FFuck or etc. Especially all these matter if we’re talking about “size’s doesn’t matter to me”, or “I’ve never asked about face pic cuz that’s hookup culture based on anon fuck”, or “every man are welcome to breed my hole, no load refused” or etc. So, I guess someone or everyone in this “very strong and united community” must decide what they are saying and promoting.  I mean, let's be honest and straightforward to each other in the community and beyond that “yes, size is critical for gay people;  yes, gays do not like and have no sexual attraction to feminine guys;  yes, the gay community has sex porn standards according to which the only way for us to fuck is to exploit the prison culture and the culture of rape;  yes, the gay community attracts heteronormativity, patriarchy, objectification and heteronormative gender sexual behavioral roles where Top always dominates Bottom, etc.  Why and for what reason this "community" tells everyone that this "community" wants to be equal, diverse, inclusive, friendly, respectful, tolerant  with not having a place for bullying or shame with no matter the reasons while in the real time  this is a huge hypocrisy and lies?

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

6 minutes ago, Cutedelicategay said:

Another observation I have often made in bathhouse type setting is that if an "unwanted"  person enters a group play in public area the entire group slowly disperses. It's so hilarious to watch that. Anyways gay community does work on double standards. 

Oh yeah babe LoL It’s not hilarious. It’s a sort of bullying and mental abuse. Cuz it’s shows that how much are cruel, hateful, jealous, disrespectful and unfriendly this “community”. It’s shows who these people are in reality. And honestly it’s shows that most gays are a pathetic fags with a huge bunch of mental illness which came to them from a childhood because of sexual abuse by their family members. Isn’t it? Or am I wrong? Do you like this very sensitive and uncomfortable truth? Does everyone is around will accept this fact? 

[Chubpussy]

99% of the time preferences are used to sidestep racism 

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

1 hour ago, Dirrtyboi said:

99% of the time preferences are used to sidestep racism 

Because why? Right! Because of fucking “political correctness” which some people are prefer to use in the way of censorship and totalitarian dictatorship. Because every one human being are too scared of getting a reputation as racist, for example, or reputation as sexist etc. Because some people or groups of people want to make their own political ambitions and get an absolute power on society. Isn’t it? So, when someone are not agree with them or he is trying to tell people’s around him his truth/his version of the situation then this group of people are started to talk about “hate speech” and trying to abuse him and blame him for his racism/sexism/my significant etc. Isn’t? Because why? Because if some person will be blamed for racism, for example, then his prosecutors will get a control of him and his life, his career will be broke immediately, his life will be broken too. Am I wrong? If I’m wrong you can correct me, not a problem. So, what are we talking about? About the fact that American society was got that deserve. I’m not rude or something like that. But that is unfortunate truth. Because society has to tendency for “group thinking” and lack of a part of healthy criticism, including critical thinking. Because of lack of education or very bad education in the most of the situations. Lack of education is making people are too mad, too jealous, too hateful. And some of politicians are in the way to use lack of people’s education. These politicians are playing on the very basest feelings of people based on hatred for migrants, or hatred for looking / thinking differently, or hatred based on political views (Republicans hate Democrats and liberalism, for example).  Thus, some politicians divide society into 2 halves, sow enmity and hatred between people, and people just start a civil war.  And when society is busy with disputes, conflicts between people, when people in society hate each other, that's when politicians can do what they want.  Because no one will disturb them.  Because society simply does not have any strength left for politics and their country.  Because politicians hate it when people and society start asking questions, demanding answers, etc.  Or am I wrong again? Well ... Can I give a little simple advice? You, people, are doing wrong and doing not what you should do! Open your fucking eyes! Look around! Look what you did! And then think about does your hateful work and your war against some “Alien”/“Gray” will give you a better life and better country to the future? Future based on hate not a future. This is exactly that called utopia. Think about that 

[Ranger Rick]

6 hours ago, Dirrtyboi said:

99% of the time preferences are used to sidestep racism 

Disagree. Preferences are a way to keep people from wasting their time (and limited messages) on people who aren't interested. If a guy has a profile with picky preferences, I move on; probably too uptight to be a good lay anyway. And guys who screech "Don't even look at me if you're..." are like a giant red flag for psychological issues. (I don't want to get with guys who come across as psychological dumpster fires. Does that make me a bigot?)