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Im a bottom 5"6 and love men who are bigger and taller then me. I think a bottom should be smaller and the top can do, grab him as he wants and my feelings are very feminine when im with a man. I love when he treats me like a girl, and I love his dominant power and control over me.

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On 10/27/2020 at 11:12 PM, drscorpio said:

Nothing is hotter to me that a top who is smaller than me. I was getting fucked by a young black top earlier this year who was about 5'6", lean and muscular with about a 9" dick that is super thick. He is one of the hottest men who ever bred me. 

I have a fuck bud exactly like that, but is top vers... we have some hot sessions 😈

Anyway I don’t believe that body type has to say what position you prefer, but I would say it makes some things less or more likely. 
 

For example if something is 5’8” and 300lbs, it’s gonna be difficult for many guys to even get their dick inside the person, given a standard penis size. 
 

Or if you have a guys whose 6’8” 230lbs, big dick, muscular who wants to bottom many guys are gonna want him to top. 
 

on the flip side most guys can get into a 5’6” 130lbs guy easily and can fuck him, or if he’s got a nice dick they can get that too 
 

twink type guys are usually just easier in general to fuck or get fucked by because there less body mass near the hole or dick.
 

At least for me I really like guys my size, and I’m 6’ 160lbs. But have been all over the size map with partners. Guys of all sizes have been amazing or bad.   

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2 hours ago, bbzh said:

We may have our own views on what a bottom, top or a twink looks like...but... let's not pretend that porn is not driving how the majority of gay men define these terms. 

This is honestly very true, and in many cases they will film the scenes in a way that minimizes the perceived body size differences, but maximizes the tops penis size.

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I'm a skinny queenie cumdumpster powerbottom so I'm down with getting fucked by shorter guys but even with my height most guys never think I am a top just because everything about me screams bareback bottom. plus I'm a t-girl cumdump who is pretty passable for my height. guys still tend to mistake me for a bio-girl. I enjoy taking loads from skinny little girly bottoms but but I do love being tossed around by men who are bigger and taller than me

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I’m 173cm (5’ 8”) and 65kg (sorry, I don’t speak lbs. Google it. Slim side of average for my height). Average height in my country is about 178cm. I never get mistaken for a top, but I think that’s more about mannerisms tbh. I want to be dominated by a more aggressive man, and I’m pretty sure I give off that vibe.

I’ve had great sex as both the bottom/sub with both bigger and smaller guys. Admittedly at first glance it “fits” better if the top is physically bigger. If you’re not into dominance/submissiveness, I don’t think it matters as much though.

“Twink” is an age/amount of body hair thing. I used to be a twink, and submitted to bigger, more dominant twinks. There’s loads of tall twinks. It’s not really a height thing. It probably is a weight thing, though. Twinks are slim.

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Even when I was twink age I never considered myself a twink, 5'6 127 lbs from 18-21 , I consider a twink as more of a thin smooth younger guy, more of a cutie, hairy butts and beards remove you from my twink list with obvious exceptions,  

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Always pegged (hah) as a bottom at 5’7 130# which is always a little annoying since I lean very heavily top.  Like to think my cock tends to win them over eventually but ya it’s rare a notably larger/taller fella wants to bottom for me.  Not that I mind fucking smaller bottoms 😉.  The exceptions are lovely and fun and often quite special.  But definitely A Thing(tm). 

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I’m a total bottom. Always have been. It’s just the way things are wired. I’m also 6’2” and solidly built. I used to play a lot of amateur rugby and I’ve always kept fit. The bottom (hah) line is that I rarely meet tops bigger than me, similar sometimes but not bigger.  Does that mean they can’t manhandle me, fuck no. But if sex is good both the bottom and the top have to be actively engaged. If I have to be responsive and “let” myself be thrown around so be it.

But I have also never at any point in my life considered myself to be a twink. Even when I was in my twenties.

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6 hours ago, hexfet said:

Always pegged (hah) as a bottom at 5’7 130# which is always a little annoying since I lean very heavily top.  Like to think my cock tends to win them over eventually but ya it’s rare a notably larger/taller fella wants to bottom for me.  Not that I mind fucking smaller bottoms 😉.  The exceptions are lovely and fun and often quite special.  But definitely A Thing(tm). 

Love (prefer) being fucked by smaller tops. It's all about being put in my place; and I get off even more when it goes against convention. 

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I'm only 5'7" myself, but I'm 56 and covered in gray hair. So people see me and think "FUCK ME DADDY!" I don't usually say no to those kinds of offers. 🙂 But honestly once in a while Daddy needs fucked.

I really, really dig guys who are shorter than myself (if you're 5'4" and hairy I'm INTO IT) so I often like trans guys because they tend to be pretty short. But on the other hand I think really tall men are super sexy too. Guys who are 6'5" really catch my eye, as well. 

I guess I'm just a hoe.

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There's definitely a preconceived notion that tops are bigger and taller than most bottoms..I'm 6'0 and pretty muscular so I get confused with being a top all the time... I try to come off a little more fem and twinkish and accentuate my ass so guys know I like getting fucked. Normally I attract tops taller than me which I'm not mad at because that's normally what I like 

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I’m a 5ft8in hairy, rugby type build with a few tattoos. When I was in my teens and early 20’s all I had was guys wanting to breed me, I had no facial hair, a mop of hair and so even with some body hair the older guys considered me a twink and wanted to breed me.

Fast forward to my mid 20’s and early 30’s, I had filled out, gotten stubble and it was 50/50 whether I would fuck or get fucked, older guys wanted my arse and younger guys wanted my cock.

Fast forward again to late 30’s/now, I am bearded, cropped hair and a pierced cock, almost exclusively I get asked to do the fucking, not sure if it is age, looks or build but it seems a combination of the 3 affects the guys that go for you.

As a consequence I haven’t had a cock up my arse for near enough a decade and I do miss it.

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I don't think there's any strong correlation between height and build and top or bottom preference. I'm a bottom and at 5'10" I'm average height which means there are plenty of men both taller and shorter than me. I've put on some muscle in the last couple of years and I get read as a top and dom more often than I'd like. Is getting strong to take harder fucks so unusual in a bottom? I'm on the submissive/primal side and a difference in height and size, bigger or smaller, engages my natures in specific ways. While being overwhelmed by a taller and bigger top than me is great, I've found shorter and smaller tops can be more aggressive and lodge their dick in your ass and mind deeper that other tops do. When I think about the more aggressive and dominant breeders and those that manhandle me, more of them are shorter than me than taller. That much power in a tight package does something in my head, so finding these breeders is a pleasure.  I've got 40lbs and 3 inches @hexfet and I'm pretty sure he could have me bent and bred in no time.

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