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I've done some pretty debauched stuff without ever catching some STDs. But I learned recently that I need to establish some limits. I caught a bad case of gastroenteritis in September that required antibiotics to treat. I suspect it was caused by a rimjob I gave. Licking a guy's ass wasn't worth the agony that followed. So I decided to stop engaging in unprotected rimming. Yesterday I bred my fuckbuddy twice. I rimmed him with a makeshift dental dam made from an unlubricated condom.

This section is mainly focused on bareback fucking for obvious reasons. I'm writing this as a reminder that rimming does have risks as well.

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Yes - I had a phase of enjoying rimming guys in Laboratory - but I eventually got a gastrointestinal bacterial infection that was particularly nasty and no amount of immodium would touch. The NHS being what it is, it took nearly two weeks to see a doctor who ordered a test which was abandoned because the paperwork was filled out wrong. They wouldn't give out any antibiotics until the test showed what was in the sample. Anyhow, faced with another week's wait for an appointment, then the test and follow up,  I paid to go private and saw a specialist, got tested and got some meds all on the same day. I forget the cost - but it was enough that I decided that giving rim jobs to random guys was and expensive and painful risk... 

Having said that I do appreciate that having my hole rimmed makes it exceptionally hungry...  

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59 minutes ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Yes - I had a phase of enjoying rimming guys in Laboratory - but I eventually got a gastrointestinal bacterial infection that was particularly nasty and no amount of immodium would touch. The NHS being what it is, it took nearly two weeks to see a doctor who ordered a test which was abandoned because the paperwork was filled out wrong. They wouldn't give out any antibiotics until the test showed what was in the sample. Anyhow, faced with another week's wait for an appointment, then the test and follow up,  I paid to go private and saw a specialist, got tested and got some meds all on the same day. I forget the cost - but it was enough that I decided that giving rim jobs to random guys was and expensive and painful risk... 

Having said that I do appreciate that having my hole rimmed makes it exceptionally hungry...  

All that you say is true. But there’s still nothing like rimming a hole and it’s something I pride myself on...

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On 11/4/2020 at 11:32 AM, verslut said:

I've done some pretty debauched stuff without ever catching some STDs. But I learned recently that I need to establish some limits. I caught a bad case of gastroenteritis in September that required antibiotics to treat. I suspect it was caused by a rimjob I gave. Licking a guy's ass wasn't worth the agony that followed. So I decided to stop engaging in unprotected rimming. Yesterday I bred my fuckbuddy twice. I rimmed him with a makeshift dental dam made from an unlubricated condom.

This section is mainly focused on bareback fucking for obvious reasons. I'm writing this as a reminder that rimming does have risks as well.

Hey man— thanks for sharing. It’s these candid discussions that we have on this site that I really appreciate. That’s the thing about bareback sex—there’s some good, some bad and some ugly. Sorry about your stomach issues—I’ve heard other horror stories (like parasites) from rimming.  Another cautionary tale to remind us all to be careful where we put our mouths 😉

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Yes, you can certainly get infections from rimming. I’m pretty sure I got gastroenteritis from sucking a guy’s dick after he fucked another bottom. The same bacteria can also travel from the bottom’s bowel up into your bladder or kidneys through your dick, and cause urinary tract infections. The best way to prevent infections of this kind is to use some sort of physical barrier, like a condom or a dental dam. Or don’t have sex.

Am I personally going to do any of those things? Hell no. I’m a bareback slut and the small risk of getting an infection is worth it, for me personally. But I guess I’m in a privileged position where I know I won’t be waiting weeks to see a doctor. Everyone needs to make their own decisions about these things. The important thing is to have all the information you need to make those decisions.

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I got hep A from rimming someone 😞 Hit me pretty bad. Felt really sick for a while then became jaundiced. Ended up in the hospital for 4 days cuz they couldn’t figure out what was wrong with me at first. It was pretty scary having a team of 10 doctors not know what’s wrong with you. Once they did figure it out, I was on short term disability for a few weeks recovering. I slept so much over that time period. It turned out ok and I got a vacation of sorts when I badly wanted one so it worked out lol. That said, it’s something to be avoided if you can help it. Hep A is rare, but it is out there and you can get it from rimming. 
 

I honestly don’t normally rim anyone other than my partner, but this top was taking so long to cum. I was doing all I could to help him get there. Didn’t work, ultimately a bad fuck, and I got Hep A for my troubles lol. 

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I never liked rimming when I first started having gay sex. The idea of licking someone’s asshole just turned me right off.  However, being a horny sub bottom slut, it was inevitable that I would eventually meet some tops who wanted me to rim them. About 20 years ago, I met this hot top who loved being rimmed and he even had a rimming chair. He made me lying underneath the chair and then stick my tongue deep inside his anus. To my surprise, I actually enjoyed doing it as the idea of serving and pleasing him really got me off. Unfortunately, several days later, I learnt that I got a nasty gastroenteritis infection which required couple rounds of antibiotic medication before I recovered. Once bitten twice shy. I have always been wary of rimming since then except when I am spun, I could rim for hours. 

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On 1/10/2021 at 6:28 PM, subBottomKink said:

Yes, you can certainly get infections from rimming. I’m pretty sure I got gastroenteritis from sucking a guy’s dick after he fucked another bottom. The same bacteria can also travel from the bottom’s bowel up into your bladder or kidneys through your dick, and cause urinary tract infections. The best way to prevent infections of this kind is to use some sort of physical barrier, like a condom or a dental dam. Or don’t have sex.

Am I personally going to do any of those things? Hell no. I’m a bareback slut and the small risk of getting an infection is worth it, for me personally. But I guess I’m in a privileged position where I know I won’t be waiting weeks to see a doctor. Everyone needs to make their own decisions about these things. The important thing is to have all the information you need to make those decisions.

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I got E Coli from rimming. I didn’t know that was what it was at the time. I was sick and had stomach problems for a month.  There is only one guy I rim now and that’s because he does everything he can to clean himself before I put my mouth down there. I love to rim smooth asses but what I went through wasn’t worth it. 

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I used to love rimming in Anon scenarios, but then I got Hep A from it. I figured it was a rarity to get sick from rimming so I got back to it once I was better and about a year after that I got giardia. I only rim guys I know now. It sucks because I love planting my tongue on a hole in random group situations but I really don't want to go through either if those things again.

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I love to rim and then slide in, but it definitely poses risks, even if you have current Hep A and B vaccinations.  I met a trick a few years ago in London while I was on a business trip and we went over to his place.  I rimmed him and bred him all night.  Several day after I returned back to the US, I was pretty violently sick with nausea and diarrhea.  I went to my doc and told him I thought I picked up something from rimming the trick and it turned out to be shigella.  I had to take a few weeks of antibiotics, and even then I had a relapse.  I never want to go through that again.  

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On 1/10/2021 at 6:28 PM, subBottomKink said:

Yes, you can certainly get infections from rimming. I’m pretty sure I got gastroenteritis from sucking a guy’s dick after he fucked another bottom. The same bacteria can also travel from the bottom’s bowel up into your bladder or kidneys through your dick, and cause urinary tract infections. The best way to prevent infections of this kind is to use some sort of physical barrier, like a condom or a dental dam. Or don’t have sex.

Am I personally going to do any of those things? Hell no. I’m a bareback slut and the small risk of getting an infection is worth it, for me personally. But I guess I’m in a privileged position where I know I won’t be waiting weeks to see a doctor. Everyone needs to make their own decisions about these things. The important thing is to have all the information you need to make those decisions.

yep. both gastro infection and UTI  so fucking painful.

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