someone I know irl found me on this site...

[Waddstan]

I was walking by our local loch with Kat, not far from the local cruising ground and a passing guy smiled and said hi to me. I didn't know him and just brushed it off. A couple of days later he messaged me on Grindr and apologised in case it had caused a problem. I still don't know him, but I guess he must be local too.

[gingerdaddyG]

11 minutes ago, Waddstan said:

I was walking by our local loch with Kat, not far from the local cruising ground and a passing guy smiled and said hi to me. I didn't know him and just brushed it off. A couple of days later he messaged me on Grindr and apologised in case it had caused a problem. I still don't know him, but I guess he must be local too.

I live in a rural location and it’s quite common for random strangers to say ‘hi’ when out walking - I suppose it’s different in larger towns and cities, but now that you’ve brought that up, perhaps I should be checking out friendly strangers more closely 😜

[FunCheerSlut]

3 hours ago, hntnhole said:

All I can add is be careful in deciding how much information you disclose on these sites.  I'm sure I've fucked guys on BZ at some point - given the numbers involved.  I've always been careful in dishing out really personal information unless and until I know I like Breeding his Hole.  There's really no reason for any of us to know each other's birthday, is there?  It's not like we're gonna send flowers .....

Well said!! Do some of these guys get confused between societal norms and a random fuck? It makes no sense. 

[Justaholeff]

Never had anyone I know contact me on any sites. However I have ran into several acquaintances, co workers, and friends at the bathhouse! I never understood why some would get freaked out. I'd tell them I'm a firm believer in a man's right to play and to be a man. That what happened at the bathhouse stays at the bathhouse. I never forget when I ran into a girlfriend's boyfriend at the porn video arcade. We chatted outside in the lobby area and told him his secret was safe if she didn't know. He said that she knew he stopped here for toys, porn, and etc but, she didn't know he watched porn here...long story short I blew him through the gloryhole. He said it was "first time" and he would only did it with me cause I was "safe!" It stayed among us for years and only happened once. They married and have four kids.

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, Justaholeff said:

He said it was "first time"

Yeah ..... riiiiiiiiiight .... I believe him ..... of course it was ..... I really, really, reallyreallyreally do ......   There seem to be so many guys around that can't seem to count past "first" ... Who cares if it was his first or his thousandth and first anyway?

[Justaholeff]

I "believed" him too hence the qoutes".I didn't care and whatever got him through the day in his mind was not my business. Lol

If I had a fist every time I heard it's " my first time"... I'd have the buttcunt of my dreams! Lol

Edited January 11, 2022 by Justaholeff

[Justaholeff]

7 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

Yeah ..... riiiiiiiiiight .... I believe him ..... of course it was ..... I really, really, reallyreallyreally do ......   There seem to be so many guys around that can't seem to count past "first" ... Who cares if it was his first or his thousandth and first anyway?

I "believed" him too hence the qoutes".I didn't care and whatever got him through the day in his mind was not my business. Lol

If I had a fist every time I heard it's " my first time"... I'd have the buttcunt of my dreams! Lol

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[crawford912]

One time, I was out at the bar with a fuckbuddy and his friends (some of them were also fbs, but kind of secondary ones... the main guy had a MASSIVE cock and loved to degrade a good sub slut)... He asked me how much I made doing porn. I was like porn? I don't make anything... And he thought he was going to embarrass me by letting me know they had all seen me get gangbanged on a cam site (I honestly didn't realize that EVERYONE used cam4 to jerk off).... But I was actually turned on (I was also high and horny), and got a bit bold and asked them all if they liked watching strangers breed my ass... Of course they did. Then I told them I'd be happy to take a load from any one of them, any time... My buddy was kind of at a loss for words, but before long, took me back to his place and we fucked until we passed out and I woke up naked with cum just oozing out of my cunt.

[BugchaserJosh]

Oh wow is he still on here? Definitely shouldn't be

[Rillion]

So I have a 19 year old neighbor that is just a couple hundred feet away that is on Grindr. I'm out and he isn't. He says the neighbors all talk about me as part of the gay couple in the neighborhood. The kid is a bit of a drama queen trying to stir shit up imo.

 

Other interesting local thing like this is that my boyfriend had one of doordashers hot him up on Grindr after dropping off our food.

[hntnhole]

There are a lot of gay guys in my 'hood too - more moving in all the time.  That's fairly recent though, maybe the last 3,4 years. It's getting damn close to an outdoor bazaar around here ... some pale little kid (I mean, sheet-white) has a great golden retriever, and that kid just talks up a storm.  I doubt he's out of high school, and about the last thing I'd be interested in.  He'll get gobbled up soon by some of the neighborhood crocodiles, and the rest of us will have to hear all about it.  yawwwnn ....

If he ever turns up at the fuckjoints, well ..... maaaaybe ...... 

[Guest]

I logged on Grindr and found a friend of my son while they were in college. My face isn't on my profile there, so I just kept away. It would not be the way I'd want my son to find out. But I've been invited to groups in the past, and walked in to men I know from the community. If they're there, and I'm there, then there was nothing to be worried about. They were very surprised that I was such a submissive cocksucker and hungry bottom. It's funny to see them in public now, knowing what we all do behind closed doors.

[jamobile]

Years ago I used to frequent an ABS. One Saturday AM I turned the corner and looked right at the face of my boss!  We said hello and both left quickly. Over time we lost touch but I know that he’s now divorced. I’m thinking I know why we were both there!

[zingly]

I'm both mortified and horrendously turned on by being caught by people IRL. Definitely found a bunch of people I know and neighbors I see regularly on the street on apps, but I don't show my face so they don't know about me (I assume!). However I have two cruising stories where I ran into someone I knew:

I went cruising at a popular university bathroom I like. Two guys were in the cruising stalls, I'd obviously interrupted something or they were finishing up. I went to a urinal, and another guy came in soon after and joined me at the next urinal. We started flashing our dicks at each other while one of the guys in the stalls zipped up, flushed, and left. Me and the guy at the urinal (young white guy, definitely a student, book bag and all), was hard and turned to me. I looked at the other store, and the guy in there was leaning into the crack of the door obviously looking for a show. I got on my knees and started sucking the kid off. At some point the guy in the stall opened his door and I could tell he was jacking off watching us, but I wasn't really paying attention. After a few minutes the student came, zipped up, and left. The guy in the stall started wagging his dick at me to come suck it, and I started to crawl in his direction... and I made eye contact with my neighbor. We lived in the same building. We rode the elevator together at least once a week. He was an older latino guy, pretty big bear. I almost freaked out but then he put his hand on my head and started whispering to me. "Good boy, you live in my building, don't you? You like sucking my cock, baby? Can we do this again? We can do it anytime, I can come over whenever you want..." He came pretty quick and I swallowed it. He winked and said he'd see me soon. I headed home from there, but in hindsight... we could have carpooled! We would always make eye contact/cruise when we ran into each other, but he lived with his family so it was hard to get alone. I saw him at the cruising spot a few more times.

I was at my closest cruising park, hooked up with this super hot black guy. Tall, lean, one of the biggest dicks I've ever taken. One of my hottest fucks. He told me he wanted to get his black cum deep up my white ass. We say goodbye, I figure I'll be lucky to see him again. Shit you not, three days later, I walk out off my building (same building, what luck) and there he is at the front door. He's my fucking mailman! We both laugh, say have a good one, part ways (I'm headed to work, he's in a rush on his route), and I see him almost every morning for years until I move. I always wanted to tell him that we should both skip work and head back to my apartment to fuck, but I was too chicken. Good news is I saw him a bunch more times at the park, and he knew I'd also drop to my knees to suck him or stuck my butt out to let him finger me until I was ready for that big dick. I no longer live on his route, but he must live in my area bc he'll go out of his way to say hi when we pass.