Jump to content

Totally into very ugly old men.


LarsBlonde19

Recommended Posts

2 hours ago, drscorpio said:

Having lots of incredible sex is not a problem. 

Worry what other hot guys might think might be one though. 

Dr. Scorpio, I'll disagree with you here. Back when I was in graduate school, ( yes before the earth was completely cool). There was this incredibly handsome tall blonde, chiseled, porn star hot colleague of ours , ( he like 50% of us was gay),  and he dated only men over 70. And maybe the rest of us weren't 'hot guys" , but we were in our 20's. When you are in your 20's  you  are a defacto hot guy.

My point:  We were in awe  of him, and even met one of his 70 y/o fuckbuds ( who held a dinner in our honor in his home), and we never thought less of him, because of his preference in  much older men.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Moderators
31 minutes ago, GoingEasy said:

Dr. Scorpio, I'll disagree with you here. Back when I was in graduate school, ( yes before the earth was completely cool). There was this incredibly handsome tall blonde, chiseled, porn star hot colleague of ours , ( he like 50% of us was gay),  and he dated only men over 70. And maybe the rest of us weren't 'hot guys" , but we were in our 20's. When you are in your 20's  you  are a defacto hot guy.

My point:  We were in awe  of him, and even met one of his 70 y/o fuckbuds ( who held a dinner in our honor in his home), and we never thought less of him, because of his preference in  much older men.

I wasn't speaking for myself. I liked older tops when I was young. I was wondering if that was what the original poster felt. 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The way I look at it, these men who have reached older years are going to display the physical signs of their age, and the physical traits that make a young man in his sexual prime so alluring cannot be expected - that’s the reality. But the appearance doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with what’s inside the man, his desires, his needs, his appetites, even his libido. The inner fires don’t just suddenly go out, yet these men often find that it becomes more difficult fore some of them - and practically impossible for others - to tend those fires.

I consider it an important part of my service that I surrender my body to men who might otherwise be unable to experience a moment of physical intimacy with another person. That they may not be what most would consider attractive is of no matter - I am simply the warmth and the flesh and the skin and the wetness that meets their basic human need in that moment. They are people, and they have a right to have that basic need met, yet most would deny them that simply because they don’t please the eye. So I make it a point to make myself available to them and never turn any of them away.

So many times I have felt an older man’s hands touch my body for the first time, and often they seem hesitant, or reverent, pausing and stroking gently as though they can hardly believe they have a body there for their very own to enjoy, and are just so grateful for a chance to touch skin that they almost don’t know how to start. Being able to bring fulfillment to someone like that who clearly needs it is strong evidence to me that I was intended to be used by men this way.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I'm speechless.

No, I'm not. This thread is terrible.

It's one thing to think something good about yourself.

This thread is Narcissism that crosses the line and should not.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I think that it’s a complex problem. There is the problem the original poster has brought to the table. As I understand well he doesn’t have problems with older and ugly people but with the fact that others don’t rise up his interest. The other problem what the commenters mentioned that hot guy’s mostly aren’t interested in older ugly men. 
However, it is strange to me that someone is involved in sex only with a small group of people (because I don’t care about age and appearance), it’s his own desire. Who has the right judge it. Sexual preferences  are  based on the instincts and other deep psychological causes. The real question is that why the poster feels that something  is wrong with him. Because there’s a general expectation that only young hot guys can be attractive. The most of the non pornographic films, the most of the porns, the clips, etc. create and strengthen these feelings. I know many of us here in this site think differently but I think that we belong to the minority within the gay community. Therefore feel ugly older people that they mustn’t touch hot young twinks’ bodies and that they don’t have chance to have sex with them. 
Furthermore, I’m also always surprised when a hot young guy wants sex with me, especially if he is a top. (In bottom guy’s that daddy issue is a common thing, so their enthusiasm is less surprising.) Although maybe I’m not old and according to many feedback I’m handsome and very attractive, the stereotypes are so strong that I feel that surprise .

On the other hand, some older people can’t understand that desires can be different and can’t accept if they are rejected. So, they become violent and are not able to accept that not is not. I have such an experience. Yes, sometimes I refuse people but not because of their ugliness or old. Unfortunately, most of the older people in Hungary (typically above 65-70 but unfortunately even above 50) are slovenly. If I feel that my mood is gone. 
 

Edited by bareback-flipflop
  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

6 hours ago, GoingEasy said:

Dr. Scorpio, I'll disagree with you here. Back when I was in graduate school, ( yes before the earth was completely cool). There was this incredibly handsome tall blonde, chiseled, porn star hot colleague of ours , ( he like 50% of us was gay),  and he dated only men over 70. And maybe the rest of us weren't 'hot guys" , but we were in our 20's. When you are in your 20's  you  are a defacto hot guy.

My point:  We were in awe  of him, and even met one of his 70 y/o fuckbuds ( who held a dinner in our honor in his home), and we never thought less of him, because of his preference in  much older men.

Sadly this view is not common in the LGBTQX community. They are extremely shallow. 

Glad you were not judgmental

  • Like 2
  • Upvote 3
Link to comment
Share on other sites

If not sure or confident then you could try darkroom or blindfold? I had some great fucks both ways not knowing who they were.
Only to have massive thanks and compliments from older guys in locker room getting back into shirt n suit on their office breaks!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

For a long time I was too prissy and judgemental about who I had sex with. I don’t mind admitting that sex with men I wouldn’t have considered having sex with a few years ago had blown my mind.   

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

When I was younger an older and not particularly attractive man tried to hook up with me. After him pressing me for a while I gave in, what did I have to lose, and had the best sex I had at that point.  Then he invited some of his friends on the second hookup... I haven't really turned down anyone on looks anymore since then. 

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

11 hours ago, drscorpio said:

I wasn't speaking for myself. I liked older tops when I was young. I was wondering if that was what the original poster felt. 

I understand,☺️ I'd give your post a like, but the system won't let me.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I want to explain that I do not have any problem  giving myself to sex with "ugly" old men and enjoying it in an incredible way. My problem is how people react to this. Young people my age have insulted me and called me things like a whore, and old people who think I'm going for the money and not for the incredible sex they give me.

  • Like 5
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use, Privacy Policy, and Guidelines. We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.