To what extent has the Covid-19 pandemic and lockdowns, social distancing, etc, impacted your sexual activities?

[MusclePig]

To what extent has the Covid-19 pandemic impacted your sexual activities over 2020 and now into 2021? Did you abstain from hookups for a time? Or reduce your numbers?

For those who are into group sex/gangbangs/orgies, how much was your sex life affected by the shutdown of organized events and parties? Did you just stop that sort of activity or did you manage to find unofficial “underground” groups that were still going?

[NoFucksGiven]

I could have actually ticked two. I have mostly played with one wonderful fuckbud, but we have played either together or separately with another guy who we know well. It’s been a kind of bbubble...

[Guest]

I've not met anyone since last March and I now really need recharging or breeding with any STI's on offer

[sluttony]

My parents are both elderly and have been shielding. Since I do their shopping etc for them I was in their support bubble but to minimise any risks to them (especially as my mother has leukemia) I have abstained completely. Except for one hookup between the first and second lockdowns last summer. (If you hadn't guessed, I am in the UK).

Haven't had a cock near me in months and months. Not a single load yet in 2021!

[Loveitraw]

I know what we should all have answered, but there have been too many occasions where the urge has overcome caution. So I have still met with a fuckbuddy more than a few times and I've hit cruising spots a couple of times with mixed results. Whilst I haven't been seeking group scenes for the last year I will confess to venturing out more often since I've had the vaccine.

[Kimberley]

I never have stopped taking raw loads during Covid-19 but it's more difficult to find that many guys i was used to before Covid-19. we do have now a evening clock for 2 months and that's really a cock blocker. nobody can be out after 9PM so sex can only during the day now. sexcinema's/cruising bars/darkrooms etc are closed for months so only sex at home

Edited March 11, 2021 by Kimberley

[leatherpunk16]

I actually got an incredible amount of sex last year. It sounds weird to say, but between the start of March and mid-July, I got nothing. I was a good boy, but I was also pumped full of synthetics. One can imagine how horny I was at the end of it, and I lived in an area where we weren't hit too hard by the disease. Local hookups, however, just weren't easy - in fact, I think I had to go elsewhere for them. My partners were similarly prepared, and none of us got sick. When I reached Seattle, I was just off my steroid cycle, and climbing the damn walls. I actively pursued a detectable poz guy for a couple weeks until it was apparent that nothing would happen between us. If my housemate had a guest over, I fucked him. Then I started focusing on higher quality guys, and had some really amazing sex with them in the autumn. 

So far in 2021, I haven't had a drop of cum anywhere near my hole, nor have I shared mine with anyone. People around me are at a point where they are waiting until they get vaccinated before they'll commit to anything, even just meeting. It's kind of annoying, but I get it. Makes sense and is much safer that way. By summer, I expect I'll get more porn stuff to do, and all this nonsense will be over. 

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

Unfortunately I wasn't in a relationship when the pandemic started, so I didn't have anyone to establish a "quarantine bubble" with. Since I do the shopping for older relatives and take food to their houses, I've abstained from hooking up for casual sex. It hasn't been all bad, this past year has been a good period of self-improvement, and I'll be coming out of this in better shape than when I went in.

It's been a loooong year of no sex... one I plan on making up for soon!

[NoFucksGiven]

1 hour ago, leatherpunk16 said:

I actually got an incredible amount of sex last year. It sounds weird to say, but between the start of March and mid-July, I got nothing. I was a good boy, but I was also pumped full of synthetics. One can imagine how horny I was at the end of it, and I lived in an area where we weren't hit too hard by the disease. Local hookups, however, just weren't easy - in fact, I think I had to go elsewhere for them. My partners were similarly prepared, and none of us got sick. When I reached Seattle, I was just off my steroid cycle, and climbing the damn walls. I actively pursued a detectable poz guy for a couple weeks until it was apparent that nothing would happen between us. If my housemate had a guest over, I fucked him. Then I started focusing on higher quality guys, and had some really amazing sex with them in the autumn. 

So far in 2021, I haven't had a drop of cum anywhere near my hole, nor have I shared mine with anyone. People around me are at a point where they are waiting until they get vaccinated before they'll commit to anything, even just meeting. It's kind of annoying, but I get it. Makes sense and is much safer that way. By summer, I expect I'll get more porn stuff to do, and all this nonsense will be over. 

Here in the UK, guys are now adding “vaccinated” on their online profiles. It was quite a surprise when I first saw it.

[Guest]

7 hours ago, sluttony said:

My parents are both elderly and have been shielding. Since I do their shopping etc for them I was in their support bubble but to minimise any risks to them (especially as my mother has leukemia) I have abstained completely. Except for one hookup between the first and second lockdowns last summer. (If you hadn't guessed, I am in the UK).

Haven't had a cock near me in months and months. Not a single load yet in 2021!

 

Same here. I'm in charge of getting their groceries and I simply don't feel comfortable putting cock and ass before my parents' lives. It's how it is, 2 loads in 2020 (both after the summer when the lockdown went off and it seemed for a moment it was going to be over) and still dry as of 2021. At this point I'll consider myself lucky to have sex just once the entire year. 

Of course my friends living abroad are acting like nothing has changed, one even mentioned having more sex than ever. This was from friends living in Germany, so much for national stereotypes.

[sluttony]

I do have to say though once I can I am going to be the biggest slut I can possibly be. More than I've ever been before (and that's saying something!) I am already planning trips to every available Cumunion within about an hour or two's drive, plus I am keeping my eyes on sauna's local to me, as well as Birmingham and London for when they open and I plan on spreading my legs for absolutely every load I can get dumped into me.

It's always been one of the advantages of the kind of work I've done - it's involved a lot of travelling and staying in hotels which has usually meant I can collect at least a different load a night. I've always figured that barebacking tops probably get a bit bored of the usual suspects, so when someone new turns up they are more than willing to blast their spunk in me, if for no other reason than they want someone different for a change.

That is, of course, assuming that my arse hasn't fully healed over by then! 🙂

[Bbtom2008]

7 hours ago, RawPlug said:

Here in the UK, guys are now adding “vaccinated” on their online profiles. It was quite a surprise when I first saw it.

Vaccinated doesn't mean you can't get Covid or even be contagious....u still can get both

[Guest]

48 minutes ago, Bbtom2008 said:

Vaccinated doesn't mean you can't get Covid or even be contagious....u still can get both

Not to mention claiming to be vaccinated and actually being vaccinated aren't the same thing. Hell, we're not even talking about someone claiming to be 10 years younger/20kg slimmer, I've had people lying to my face claiming to be on prep and not knowing anything about it, or someone whose grindr status changed from undetectable to neg to prep within a year. Everything needs to be taken with a grain of salt on the internet.

[Guest]

For casual sex when it was warmer and numbers were low I stuck to fucking outside (lower risk than indoors), and exchanged cell numbers in case either of us tested positive. Then I cut out hookups as the second wave picked up steam.

[versasslover]

Since covid it's been sporadic hookups, hook up with fuck buddies a couple of times a month for a few months and move on. With the expectation they do the same, naive, most likely.  But it served its purpose. Just really miss hookups that are more anon and random with multiple guys. An old fuck buddy from LA was in town two weekends ago and slutting around bars on the strip here in LV, he suggested I come over to his hotel and get guys to fuck us, like we did before, but that was too risky for me right now. Sure was tempting.

But on the other hand I've made some real good connections for future hookups around the country on a certain fetish site!