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On 4/3/2021 at 12:05 PM, Karl8181 said:

If you could travel back in time and give your younger self some advice, what would you say?

Look forward to hearing your thoughts guys

Have a great Easter ! 

Karl 😀

Be a slut, take poz loads and be piggy

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So much to tell my younger self....embrace your sub/bottom desires, feel no shame and live a sex positive life. Begin your journey serving Alpha men earlier. Lighten up and not take yourself so seriously.  Let all the top Alpha men enjoy your hole, so enjoy giving them what they want and begin your sub bdsm training sooner!  Sex positive, no shame, AND enjoy every step of your sexuality journey; it keeps turning in new fun directions — don’t be frightened by it! 

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After one of my first bare fucks from a hot daddy who put me in his sling and opened my cunt slowly with a blow up butt plug, his asshole room mate who I didn’t let fuck me messaged me on Squirt a few days later to say the daddy had HIV and had been off his meds to infect me. I was 16 at the time and terrified and had nowhere to go for advice or guidance and knew no other gays. This was about 2008 in Ireland. I basically resigned myself to illness then even though it never came, the man lied out of spite. The lasting damage though was that it made me see sex as a scary frightening act, and completely eroded my trust in men. It was very unfortunate because the dad who bred me was equal parts rough and gentle, considerate and controlling. A perfect first seeding. I’m 28 now and completely comfortable as a bareback bottom but for many years into my early 20s sex was not for me. 

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Was blessed as a boy with sunbleached blonde hair bright blue eyes and a slender body.Men sometimes stared at me but had no idea why.Finally seduced and bred in a camper behind the alpha beta market by a man who showed me gay porn, undressed me ignited the gay spark within me with an unreserved gay seduction and breeding.First time I ever saw a man's erect cock,first time getting blowjob and feeling a mans tongue exploring my body.No idea of what was happening knew nothing about gay or straight itwas 1966 and was so clueless...would tell that boy you're gonna be okay,this is a first step in an important life journey.

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For myself the advice I would give my younger self would be to be so much more out going. Don`t be afraid of being gay and what other people will think. get out and enjoy gay sex . I always told myself I was stright but deep down I knew I was turned on by awesome dicks and wanted to explore them. I`d sy I`m bi now but way more into gay sex then sex with a female. She has to be one hot bitch for me to want to fuck her.  But for me most any decent looking guy turns me on and I want his dick in my ass. No questions asked. Poz or neg. I will fuck bare back only and expect the same in my ass. Taken me to many years to learn this.

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1. Hook up a lot more than I did.  While there were some random hookups, mostly with other guys at my high school, most of the guys I played with in high school and college were people I knew.  I would tell myself to fuck as much and as often as I could, and always bare.

2. Bottom more for older men.

3. When I was in college, I was contacted by someone on Gay.com who claimed he was a porn producer.  We chatted, but I never looked into it enough to verify he was legit, although I believe he was.  If he was, I would tell myself to take up the offer.  I didn't pursue it at the time because I was still afraid my family would find out I'm bi.  Who knows, might still be doing porn as a career, lol!

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I’d go back to when I met my gay friend in high school and hang out with him and his gay  friends. Experience more about the gay lifestyle . And bypass my straight lifestyle and live as a Homosexual male. I now would have loved to come out as gay male earlier. I’ve only been out as gay for the last 7 years now. 

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Tell myself to be a camwhore attracting older men and act on it by letting them use your head. You had and will have an amazing body for years to come and lots of men dig that.

And of course, knock on the neigbours door and undress yourself inside to get your first cock asap.

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a) Far more guys fancy you than you think, so go for it

b) Hang around your big town underground cottage, you'd have realised quite a few of those hairy, dark, tached welshman would have have been interested

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On 4/3/2021 at 2:59 PM, ConversionPiglet said:

Run....don’t meet up with that older man and begin a life long negative lifestyle of being gay.  

There is,nothing wrong with a man being gay or bisexual.

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On 4/3/2021 at 4:36 PM, Guest Descartes70817 said:

There's one moment in time that I often wonder about, and how my life would have turned out if I'd made the other choice open to me.

The details are a book in themselves, but around midnight on August 23rd, 1975 at the age of 18 I found myself shinning down a drainpipe and running away in a light river fog while vowing to myself that until homosexuality was accepted by society in general I would never ever give anyone any reason to even suspect that I was gay, and to learn to use women any way I had to in order to keep my secret, just so I could survive, and possibly even thrive, in what was then an extremely homophobic society, often violently so.

My other choice was to allow myself to be auctioned off to the highest bidder to be a real life sex slave for the next year of my life, in return for a large cash payment at the end of "a year of satisfactory service", in a club where membership was millionaire men only, and "the big money" had to fly in to get to the auction, but after they arrived things got scary - if you've ever been 'inspected' like you're just a piece of prime horse-meat you'll know what I mean! It would have been one thing to be kept as some local rich guy's personal sex toy, but the mere thought of ending up in a foreign country without a passport terrified me enough to risk my neck to escape the moment my fears were confirmed.

Where was this club? Did wealthy Arabs find and keep sex slaves here at this club?

I would tell my younger self to not smoke any tobacco, drink, or use drugs. But knowing myself, I doubt I would have listened or followed any of this advice. 

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On 4/23/2021 at 3:10 PM, Guygonebad said:

So much to tell my younger self....embrace your sub/bottom desires, feel no shame and live a sex positive life. Begin your journey serving Alpha men earlier. Lighten up and not take yourself so seriously.  Let all the top Alpha men enjoy your hole, so enjoy giving them what they want and begin your sub bdsm training sooner!  Sex positive, no shame, AND enjoy every step of your sexuality journey; it keeps turning in new fun directions — don’t be frightened by it! 

I wish I had embraced my sub desires when I was young and handsome. I will always regret not really giving myself to an old ugly Master.

Of course if I had I'd probably have died long ago

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I would tell myself to stop trying to change who I am just for a romantic relationship. I constantly gave up so many things just to try get some guys to like me/ stay with me. 

That included giving up things like hookups, anon encounters, and just other cocks in general. I really wasn’t happy just having one cock, but I thought at least I was with someone. Later I realized the right partner would love me for who I truly am and encourage my desires. They would understand who I am and not try to change that. I haven’t been a relationship in a very long while and I’m okay with that. I’m actually very happy. But I know when the time and the person is right, it will come. 😌

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