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Do any other cumdumps not like receiving face pics?

I know the whole “no face pic, no reply” doctrine is popular on many apps, but I personally feel the opposite.

I never ask for face pics and prefer when guys don’t send them. It makes it much more thrilling and anonymous. It also prevents disappointment from being catfished(yeah it happens.) Seeing a Tops face for the first time  right before he fucks me raw is fun. Never seeing their face even after they load me up is also fun. 😝 I love when blank profiles message me, they tend to be the best. 😋

That being said, I do love dick pics. 😍😍 I could stare at them all day. I’d much prefer receiving a dick pic over a face pic any time.

Do any other cumdumps(especially anon cumdumps) feel the same way?

Tops, how do you feel about sending face pics? Should bottoms care?

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I never send back a face pic. I actually look younger than I am so it is nice to see tops pleasantly surprised when I show up. I could tell they expected something else. I agree with you about not wanting face pics. If they are on the profile I'll look but I never ask for them. I'm taking a load no matter what, so as long as they've got submarine dick (long and hard and full of seamen) I'm a happy camper.

I'll bet you pleasantly surprise some tops, as well, since you are mighty easy on the eyes. 

Happy fucking 🙂

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Face pics do not interest me. I don’t assess a man by his appearance in general, and I certainly don’t discriminate as to whether a man is going to fuck me or not on the basis of his looks (or much of anything else, for that matter) so his face is of no particular significance.

His dick pic is only more significant in that it tells me if I need to prepare myself  for taking something sizable, but I don’t make decisions based on those either.

 I would 1,000 times rather deal with a faceless profile that actually walks through my door than a pretty picture that flakes - which so many of them seem to do.

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5 hours ago, RawBottomAriel said:

I never ask for face pics and prefer when guys don’t send them. It makes it much more thrilling and anonymous. ... Seeing a Tops face for the first time  right before he fucks me raw is fun. Never seeing their face even after they load me up is also fun.

I applaud you. You are opening the door to maximum potential pleasure. The face cannot predict the fuck. 

5 hours ago, RawBottomAriel said:

Tops, how do you feel about sending face pics? Should bottoms care?

I'm a top who does put my face pic in my Grindr profile and who rarely replies to people whose profiles lack clear face pics. It's not that I'm unwilling to pump-and-dump on the spur of the moment, or even to take a chance on a blind date. There's little to lose; at worst, one person says no thanks, we both wish each other well, and we head our separate ways.

But what I'm finding lately is that a guy who doesn't include a clear face pic in his profile tends to be living under some kind of constraint, external or self-imposed, that makes for a fraught interaction. Sending a face pic privately, on request, isn't the same as being comfortable showing it publicly.

A digital blindfold option might be a fun addition to apps like Grindr. Cumdumps would select tops based on proximity and maybe on profile characteristics. You'd know that they had face pics on file, and that you could tap to reveal their faces if you wanted to.

I liken this to trying to remember what shoes people are wearing in video arcades. This habit lets me guess — without being certain — who is on the other side of the partition, taking my cock.

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5 hours ago, fskn said:

I liken this to trying to remember what shoes people are wearing in video arcades

This sounds chancy to me... if you go about looking at people’s shoes, some of them could mistake you for a foot fetishist…

…but then, maybe this little habit is telling you something…? 😉

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12 hours ago, RawBottomAriel said:

Do any other cumdumps not like receiving face pics?

I know the whole “no face pic, no reply” doctrine is popular on many apps, but I personally feel the opposite.

I never ask for face pics and prefer when guys don’t send them. It makes it much more thrilling and anonymous. It also prevents disappointment from being catfished(yeah it happens.) Seeing a Tops face for the first time  right before he fucks me raw is fun. Never seeing their face even after they load me up is also fun. 😝 I love when blank profiles message me, they tend to be the best. 😋

That being said, I do love dick pics. 😍😍 I could stare at them all day. I’d much prefer receiving a dick pic over a face pic any time.

Do any other cumdumps(especially anon cumdumps) feel the same way?

Tops, how do you feel about sending face pics? Should bottoms care?

I hate face pics. All I want is the dick. 

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I essentially feel the same way. I never have a face pic directly attached to any profiles, and always make it quite clear I prefer fully NSA and anon interactions with as few pics and questions as possible. I will take and send a face pic if it feels like a hookup may be a repeat performance, but I am turned off when I have so much on all my profiles indicating I dont really want to use face pics and someone opens up a conversation with a slew of pictures both NSFW or otherwise, and then ask/demands for a face pic in return. 

Aside from the anonymity just making every hookup way hotter and sluttier, I just kind of really suck at selfies and hate taking them more than anything, lol. 

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I am not a “cum dump” and I never want to be. I’ve had anon encounters. But my face and body pics are on any hook up site I’m on. 
 

I expect to see at least one recent face pic. While the cock/body matters the most to me I want to be able to look up at a face that I can enjoy looking at while I’m being pounded. I tend to like watching a guys face once he starts spurting in my hole. 

 it’s an arranged anon encounter I could care less. 

 


 

 

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In terms of my own face pic, if someone asks for one I provide it, but I always tell him in advance: “Warning - I have a face made for radio.”

I’m not hideous, but I’m not Apollo either, and Time isn’t doing me any favors, so all-in-all I consider my face a marketing disadvantage. Yet the way the apps are tending now with their photo policies - no nudity, no visible underwear, nothing sexually suggestive (have they completely lost track of what they’re for?) - you’re essentially left with a choice of a clothed torso, a blank, or a face pic. Or the increasingly common bare shoulder shot - I expect a crackdown on this shameless display of flesh at any moment.

In olden days, a glimpse of stocking
Was looked on as something shocking
But now, God knows
Anything goes

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I don't need or want face pics from men who use me to get off. I just wanna take their loads. I don't need to know their name or what they look like or anything. I prefer being some dirty little whore guys unload their balls into. Prefer taking loads from total strangers, completely anonymously. Plus a lot of tops don't want anyone to know they fuck trashy faggots like me, or to have dirty cumdumps even know who they are or recognize them in public. I have even had guys tell me they don't want people to see them talking to a known fuckslut who everyone fucks. I love cock pics but I don't need to see any pics to meet up with men who wanna breed me. I don't even know what colour most of the men who fuck me are. I'm trash, so men just fuck me and are done with me till they need to get off again.pumpndump.png.5eff45d35115d602687e18dab2b7a8b6.pngx-slingcumdump.jpg.6f9372108dc447412c76496f9ba08a18.jpgIMG_5345.thumb.JPG.da9106d131b3923d9af947228c78df89.JPGsloppycumdumpslinghole.thumb.jpg.116666e606712b4edb55b64026180964.jpg

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I always ask for a face pic as I do have one posted. I find it certainly helps add to their credibility and likelihood to meet if they have one. Blank profiles or people who are reluctant to send one just come off as shady.  The real challenge is getting a genuine picture and not one from a few years back. I'm sure we all have our stories about men who look nothing like their photos do.

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Especially for anon play, I'd prefer not to.  I like to hold on to the picture I paint in my head.

I once had a semi-regular bud in a previous home city that I would meet up with once in a while.  I'd come over to his, go up the stairs to the "TV room" of sorts and watch a little porn to get me in the mood - bottle of fresh poppers would always be there right beside the blindfold.  I never saw my fuckbuddy - he'd be in a nearby room just waiting for me to put the blindfold on.  My putting the blindfold on would be his signal to come to me.

One time, after I moved away, I was back on a visit and he hit me up.  This time, though, he asked if we could switch things up for him to be blindfolded instead of me - I'll be perfectly honest, I lost interest.  It took away this mystery that I had built up previously, and I just figured that going through it would sully my memories of the past.  Was a bit of a shame, really...

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It’s an odd one. I do like to see a face and am not reticent about showing mine. However, I have never not engaged with a profile just because there is no photo. There are 1001 reasons why a guy might not have a face picture and it’s not for me to prejudge or second guess why. And one of my hottest ever encounters was just before lockdown last year when I was messaged at 2am by a faceless Grindr message from a couple who were just a 10 walk away. I took a chance and went. I met a fantastic black and white couple who were both bb tops…it turned out to be amazing.

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