Dyonis05 Posted May 22, 2011 Report Share Posted May 22, 2011 So, it's clear, when my top is fucking me with intensity, hard and deep:cool:, though I'm really enjoying it, most of the time I can't cum or it takes a while to make me cum... and i'm focusing on comin' so I totaly lose it... Do you have any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolli Posted May 22, 2011 Report Share Posted May 22, 2011 Just completely enjoy the btming experience then have a nice solo session afterwards with thoughts of the good fuck you received Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slowfuck Posted May 22, 2011 Report Share Posted May 22, 2011 Breathe very deep and slow, concentrate on the feelings of that cock in your hole, picturing it in your mind, on the feelings you get when kissing, on the feelings of every touch. Anticipate in your imagination what it will feel like when he floods you with hot silky cum, think of the sensations, the tastes and the heady euphoria, stroke your cock slow but don't tense it or think of it. Keep your thoughts in your imagination picturing what is happening and what is about to happen... I take a long time to cum from cold but with a lot of foreplay anticipating what is to come, watch porn together, read stories on here together, stroking slow, talking about and thinking about what you see and read, imagine doing what you are seeing, slow stroking, build up over time, a couple of hours or more. You'll be simmering nicely. After four hours of simmering and sex thoughts my orgasm is, well, orgasmic and cum flies over my head in powerful hot voluminous jets and I'm tingling for ages. Hope it is the same for you bud. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
submissivefaggot Posted May 22, 2011 Report Share Posted May 22, 2011 Just be grateful you can cum through sex at some point - I have never been able to orgasm when being fucked, no matter how hard or soft. I can barely get hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spunk_mutt Posted May 23, 2011 Report Share Posted May 23, 2011 Bummer, the sensation of cumming while being fucked is amazing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dyonis05 Posted May 23, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2011 Bummer, the sensation of cumming while being fucked is amazing. yeah... probably... but thanks for your tips Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thick Posted May 26, 2011 Report Share Posted May 26, 2011 why do u need to cum while being fucked? concentrate on that full feeling and the prostate massage you are receiving. enjoy the fact that you are a vessel of pleasure for your top........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btm2bbred Posted May 27, 2011 Report Share Posted May 27, 2011 why do u need to cum while being fucked? concentrate on that full feeling and the prostate massage you are receiving. enjoy the fact that you are a vessel of pleasure for your top........ Exactly! Why are you worried about cumming when you are getting a Top to plow you deep and hard? When I'm getting fucked, I only want the Top to cum, not me. I'm getting my pleasure from the indescribable sensations I get as he fills my fuckchute with his big cock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolePunchSD Posted September 5, 2012 Report Share Posted September 5, 2012 So, it's clear, when my top is fucking me with intensity, hard and deep:cool:, though I'm really enjoying it, most of the time I can't cum or it takes a while to make me cum... and i'm focusing on comin' so I totaly lose it...Do you have any suggestions? Yeah. Stop making it about YOU. Who cares whether you cum or not--so long as your top unloads. If he wants you to cum, he'll get you off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eurotopnyc Posted January 13, 2013 Report Share Posted January 13, 2013 I agree with the others here. If you're focused on cumming while bottoming, your mind is in the wrong place. Judging by your ass pic, any top is going to FLOOD your hole - isn't that enough? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cumhunt Posted January 13, 2013 Report Share Posted January 13, 2013 While I agree that a bottom needs to focus solely on the tops pleasure, the top often wants the bottom to cum for him. Makes him feel that he is giving you what you need too. What works for me is when the top pulls completely out and re-enters over and over. All of my pleasure is close to the end of my hole and repeated insertions sends me over the edge spewing cum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwhotboi Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 I have never gotten hard nor cum while being fucked. A bottom's experience is totally different than the top's. The top needs to unload . The bottom focuses on milking the top's balls and cock and getting that load. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinster Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 So, it's clear, when my top is fucking me with intensity, hard and deep:cool:, though I'm really enjoying it, most of the time I can't cum or it takes a while to make me cum... and i'm focusing on comin' so I totaly lose it...Do you have any suggestions? I think it is all in amount of nerve endings in the right places and proper positions. Have you tried many? or may be a thicker lube for better grip and .... mmm.... abrasion/breaking power? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hawwkfan Posted January 19, 2013 Report Share Posted January 19, 2013 A bottom shouldn't even think about cumming himself. Almost taboo to me. My dick means nothing. I expect only that the top use me as he wishes and unload deep in me and I do whatever I can to get his seed. The greatest thing a top can give me is his baby batter deep in me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAIKOL20 Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 I agree. My pleasure comes from being a bottom boy, feeling used and well seeded if i did it right. I don't get hard when I am being fucked, maybe later if i need to cum. A bottom shouldn't even think about cumming himself. Almost taboo to me. My dick means nothing. I expect only that the top use me as he wishes and unload deep in me and I do whatever I can to get his seed. The greatest thing a top can give me is his baby batter deep in me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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