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Question For Tops  

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  1. 1. As a top, do you ask for permission to cum in the bottom? " Can I cum in you?"

    • No..bottom takes it bare, the load cums with it.
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    • Yes, its not nice to cum in someone without permission.
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  • Poll closed on 07/28/2022 at 09:47 PM

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When I top, depends on circumstances:

1. in a 1-on-1 situation, (in the rare occasion that I'm required to top) I always ask the question before we even meet. I am not meeting with anyone who wouldn´t let me cum inside him. End of story.

2. In a sex club, again, I always ask before we engage in anything. No point in engaging in a fuck which will not have the desired ending for me as a top, or the partner as a bottom. This holds true for a guy in a sling too.

3. In a dark room setting, if the bottom presents himself with the hole up, I skip the questioning and assume he will take my load. It is up to the bottom to let me know right away that he doesn´t want my load. Otherwise, no questions. The hole gets my load.

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I don't ask specifically, but if I'm fucking a guy for the 1st time, I always make sure he knows when I am about to cum to give him the option of asking me to pull out. The only exception I ever make is if it is a sex club bottom that is already full of cum. If we have fucked several times and I know he has let me cum in him before then it is no longer necessary.

I am absolutely against breeding a bottom that does not want to be bred.

 

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Haven’t met a bareback bottom that didn’t want my load in years. Before PrEP, some guys (myself included) would be open to barebacking without cumming, but now everyone wants the load. However, I’m very verbal and love dirty talk so I always announce that I’m about to breed a bottom. 

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Didn't really like either of those answers, but I went with the "No" one. I think it's more up to the bottom to let me know long before we start having sex that he wants me to pull out and not cum inside of him. And then we won't have sex cause that's not how I play. (I primarily do 1:1 sessions where there has been some discussion before the session.)

If the bottom waited until I announced that I was about to cum to ask me to pull out, I would cause I'm a gentleman. But I wouldn't be seeing that particular bottom a second time. There are far too many bottoms who want the load to waste time on one who doesn't.

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If a bottom tells me not to cum in him, I will respect that, but will very likely try and talk him into letting me. However, I haven't had the occasion to discuss not cumming in someone (in either role) for quite a while.

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I agree with Ieatcumboles . . . neither answer works for me.

I believe taking a bare dick means high possibility of a bare load.  Don’t like the risk? Don’t take the dick.

 The two times I have been asked to pull out mid act, I politely obliged and pulled out. At mean I pulled out when I was sure I was cumming. Does the first spurt of wad even count?  Anyway, I never met up with those two dudes again on purpose  

That said, I ALWAYS announce I’m gonna cum.  How can someone not?!  It’s the main event!  It’s the point! The hottness! The breeding. The insemination!!

Whole rooms of men writhing in sex will fall silent when someone fucking announces “I’m going to cum!”  In that moment the dude breeding is as hot as any porn star.  

Feel my pre ejaculate flow. Feel my dick swell. Feel that almost cummy ass gripping that dick, wanting the load!  And please,please feel me blow. Feel the jerking ejaculations. Feel that last, deep thrust where I go through your inner ring and bust deep in your guts.   

Usually, I don’t say much after “I’m gonna cum”, but I mean to say all these things.   Breeding is the hottest thing I can do to a dude. Fuck yes, I say here it comes.

Always.  

 

 

 

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1 hour ago, Ieatcumholes said:

Didn't really like either of those answers, but I went with the "No" one. I think it's more up to the bottom to let me know long before we start having sex that he wants me to pull out and not cum inside of him. And then we won't have sex cause that's not how I play. (I primarily do 1:1 sessions where there has been some discussion before the session.)

If the bottom waited until I announced that I was about to cum to ask me to pull out, I would cause I'm a gentleman. But I wouldn't be seeing that particular bottom a second time. There are far too many bottoms who want the load to waste time on one who doesn't.

Sorry for the confusion..but the question was "Do you ask if I can cum in you"  or something similar.  I guess if you ask before you even enter him, then the answer is yes.  The situation in which you start fucking and the bottom says "Hey, dont cum in me" wouldnt count for this poll.  But those are great comments and discussion.

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This has never occured to me!! If he is taking my bare cock it is only natural that he will take the load!! I have never had it happen when he has asked me to pull out!! That seems unnatural!! 

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I always cum in a guy's ass. The only exception is when I cum down his throat instead. I've never had a guy refuse my bare cock. Even guys who beforehand have said that they only fuck with a condom tend to forget that after I've spent a while rimming them while they throat me; it's normally them who are spinning around and guiding my raw cock in them without me having to say a word. When I tell them I'm getting close they normally beg for daddy's load in their pussy.

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this is the one time i can say that i don't care if the bottom wants my load or not. i'm not pulling out. my cock doesn't leave his ass until i've drained my balls inside. on that same note, if the bottom is versatile, i return that same favor. pulling out is the most unnatural thing in the world.

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11 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

If a bottom tells me not to cum in him, I will respect that, but will very likely try and talk him into letting me. However, I haven't had the occasion to discuss not cumming in someone (in either role) for quite a while.

I would & will never ask any TOP to not pump me full of cum, being the designated bttm i want the loads pumped deep inside me every time, the more the better.

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On 7/20/2022 at 1:45 PM, bbfarm said:

I agree with Ieatcumboles . . . neither answer works for me.

I believe taking a bare dick means high possibility of a bare load.  Don’t like the risk? Don’t take the dick.

 The two times I have been asked to pull out mid act, I politely obliged and pulled out. At mean I pulled out when I was sure I was cumming. Does the first spurt of wad even count?  Anyway, I never met up with those two dudes again on purpose  

That said, I ALWAYS announce I’m gonna cum.  How can someone not?!  It’s the main event!  It’s the point! The hottness! The breeding. The insemination!!

Whole rooms of men writhing in sex will fall silent when someone fucking announces “I’m going to cum!”  In that moment the dude breeding is as hot as any porn star.  

Feel my pre ejaculate flow. Feel my dick swell. Feel that almost cummy ass gripping that dick, wanting the load!  And please,please feel me blow. Feel the jerking ejaculations. Feel that last, deep thrust where I go through your inner ring and bust deep in your guts.   

Usually, I don’t say much after “I’m gonna cum”, but I mean to say all these things.   Breeding is the hottest thing I can do to a dude. Fuck yes, I say here it comes.

Always.  

 

 

 

That's how I'd expect it. I take your raw cock, I want your seed planted deep. "The breeding. The insemination!!" You got my ass hungry and my dick leaking with those words. Just wish you were actually doing it to me. 

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