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Does anyone else get hard when they bottom?


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I am totally 50-50 versatile. And even when I’m bottoming, my dick usually stays hard. However there are times where my top is giving me such an incredible fuck or fisting, that my body is on full sensory overload in my ass. And I may lose my erection. But that in no way should reflect on me is not being turned on and it should not reflect on him for being anything less than a talented top. 

 

I learned a long time ago that it makes me no less of a man to be on the bottom.  And along those lines, it makes me no less of a man to be having pig sex without an erection.

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21 minutes ago, catcher4you said:

I’m pretty much all bottom and I get hard when a cock enters my ass. It doesn’t usually last throughout the whole fuck but it’ll come and go. Usually, there’s a good amount of precum too. If I get fisted my cock stays soft but still leaks precum. 

I have lots of precum.  And I drool precum when I get fisted!

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As a rule, no. I don't get hard when I bottom.

I get really aroused and my dick leaks gobs and gobs of precum, so much that my daddy always remarks on how wet I make his bed when he fucks me. He collects it off my dick and feeds it to me as he fucks me. Other partners have also reacted very favorably to how much precum they can fuck out of me. That seems a pretty clear indication of how much I'm into getting fucked.

Great kissers and passionate making out gets me hard, having my nipples played with can get me really hard too. When it's time to get fucked I go soft, but the feeling of arousal doesn't go away at all. If anything it increases. Anyone who thinks "not hard" means "not aroused" should listen to how the bottom they're with actually feels over their own preconceptions. Not everyone is wired the same and no one should expect us to be.

There are lots of things that might account for variations in erections and how it correlates with arousal. Our basic physiology and neurology, our emotional state, our intent when we bottom (whether it's to service breeders as much as they want, or to ejaculate ourselves), our past experiences of sex and sexual arousal (both good and bad), they can all play a part in how men respond when aroused and being fucked. 

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Absolutely. It’s a huge turn on for me to be fucked so of course I get nice and hard. 
same thing when I’m sucking someone’s cock im rock hard. I honestly think my dick gets harder then,then when I’m the top or I’m getting sucked. 

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Sometimes yes and sometimes not. Don't really know why that is. One time I'm hard as a rock the whole time and other times it comes and goes. More often than not when I'm hard I shoot handsfree when getting fucked. Sometimes I'm just dripping precum from a limp dick. Maybe it's the angle? Don't know.

But! Like @blackrobesaid: not hard doesn't mean not aroused! 

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I rarely get hard when bottoming. I've tried taking viagra a few times so I could get hard while bottoming but no success. It actually bothers me that majority of the time I can't get hard, even when the sex is really good. Now I noticed I can get hard when getting fucked if my nipples are played with. 

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34 minutes ago, SFhole4Use said:

I rarely get hard when bottoming. I've tried taking viagra a few times so I could get hard while bottoming but no success. It actually bothers me that majority of the time I can't get hard, even when the sex is really good. Now I noticed I can get hard when getting fucked if my nipples are played with. 

I think if more men worked my nipples as they fucked me and whispered filth into my ears I'd probably get hard more often while taking dick.

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44 minutes ago, NLbear said:

Sometimes yes and sometimes not. Don't really know why that is. One time I'm hard as a rock the whole time and other times it comes and goes. More often than not when I'm hard I shoot handsfree when getting fucked. Sometimes I'm just dripping precum from a limp dick. Maybe it's the angle? Don't know.

But! Like @blackrobesaid: not hard doesn't mean not aroused! 

Same with me - sometimes hard sometimes not - doesn’t mean that I’m not enjoying it if I’m soft - just keep on fucking and breeding me!

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I never did until I started fucking around with a masseuse who knew how to make the sex wild. His cock must've been just the perfect fit, and he loved to flip me over to missionary right before cumming. He'd jerk me off until I shot on my chest, blow his load, and spend his recovery time licking my cum off my chest. He loved cum, and l loved being licked everywhere.

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