blackrobe Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 On 3/4/2013 at 11:30 AM, eurotopnyc said: This highlights an issue few people discuss here. Some bottoms want bare cock, but not the load. This is especially true for neg bottoms or bottoms who are just exploring bareback. I think I speak for most tops here when I say it can be hard to figure out exactly where a bottom stands so sometimes out of an abundance of caution the top will pull out and unload outside the hole. I'm going to concur with the bottoms who have already suggested being very explicit. Try to be verbal throughout. Better yet, look up directly into your top's face while you're getting fucked, establish eyecontact, and try to find the words to express how much you crave his load up your hole. Tap the hunger within and let your top sense that hunger in a visceral way. Get to a point where the understanding isn't just verbal but there is an emotional shared acknowledgement that OF COURSE your top is going to drain his balls inside you - because spilling even a drop would be a waste. If you can find a way to convey how much you want that load, chances are you won't just be getting that load where it belongs - you'll extract a much bigger load than if you took things for granted. This. Firstly, I don't understand bottoms wanting bare-fucking but not load-fucking. I want my tops cum up in my guts in a deeply visceral way, the more the better, the deeper the better. I don't leave that a mystery to him. I want his cock to pierce me and get his fertile seed in where I can cherish him until he's part of me. The more he wants his load in my guts, marking me, impregnating me, changing me, owning me, the happier I am. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallslenderguy Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 (edited) 30 minutes ago, blackrobe said: This. Firstly, I don't understand bottoms wanting bare-fucking but not load-fucking. I want my tops cum up in my guts in a deeply visceral way, the more the better, the deeper the better. I don't leave that a mystery to him. I want his cock to pierce me and get his fertile seed in where I can cherish him until he's part of me. The more he wants his load in my guts, marking me, impregnating me, changing me, owning me, the happier I am. and this too. This is beautifully stated and describes me perfectly too. There's a deeper connection in the Top/bottom dynamic that goes beyond the action of fucking, and this nails it. For me, it's not 'just'a matter of having my hole used, but experiencing someone who wants to have a permanent effect, merge a part of Himself with and in me, cum is a part of that. Edited May 20, 2019 by tallslenderguy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bihairy Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 I make it clear I am going to fuck you bareback. I am going to seed you. I am not pulling out. You say NO. We don't fuck. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackrobe Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said: and this too. This is beautifully stated and describes me perfectly too. There's a deeper connection in the Top/bottom dynamic that goes beyond the action of fucking, and this nails it. For me, it's not 'just'a matter of having my hole used, but experiencing someone who wants to have a permanent effect, merge a part of Himself with and in me, cum is a part of that. I've noticed that there's a lot about our erotic architecture that's very similar, tallslenderguy. It would be great to talk and find out what else we might have in common. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 Only a few guys in my lifetime have pulled out, and I refuse to see them again. Pulling out is for porn, to prove the top is cumming. In real fucking, there is NO excuse for not shooting up a bottom's hole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bihairy Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 8 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said: Only a few guys in my lifetime have pulled out, and I refuse to see them again. Pulling out is for porn, to prove the top is cumming. In real fucking, there is NO excuse for not shooting up a bottom's hole. I actually look for porn where the top/tops breed and seed and then pull out slowly so we can watch it drip out. That makes me shoot. I LOVE sloppy hole! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverfk Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 31 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said: Only a few guys in my lifetime have pulled out, and I refuse to see them again. Pulling out is for porn, to prove the top is cumming. In real fucking, there is NO excuse for not shooting up a bottom's hole. I agree, and with the porno reference too, an external cum shot supposedly adds value to the scene, but in real fucking, inseminator Tops want to plant and spread their seed in receptive btms like you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 3 minutes ago, Riverfk said: I agree, and with the porno reference too, an external cum shot supposedly adds value to the scene, but in real fucking, inseminator Tops want to plant and spread their seed in receptive btms like you. You're making my hole wet for you. It's twitching for your seed so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bearman Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 Never want the top to pull out,I don't see the point as I want his seed deep inside.Pulling out is not safe anyway there could be plenty of bugs in a guys precum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverfk Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 27 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said: You're making my hole wet for you. It's twitching for your seed so bad. Mission accomplished, for now...hehe.😈 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Read1 Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 If a top pulls out for whatever reason, there had better be another wet hole or mouth ready to receive his hot cumload. Let not one cumdrop be wasted!! OINK! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiggerBootsFan Posted May 21, 2019 Report Share Posted May 21, 2019 As a nervous bareback bottom, I realised today I've never had "condom" sex. Just happened that way! Why would a top pull out? What a waste. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bihairy Posted May 21, 2019 Report Share Posted May 21, 2019 5 hours ago, DannyBoyCMH said: You're making my hole wet for you. It's twitching for your seed so bad. I like to push my cock deeper inside when I start to shoot! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hairybttmcub43 Posted May 21, 2019 Report Share Posted May 21, 2019 8 hours ago, bihairy said: I like to push my cock deeper inside when I start to shoot! Best feeling ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garsento Posted May 21, 2019 Report Share Posted May 21, 2019 Ignoring for the moment fucking sessions which are not conducted with the aim of fucking--fuck breaks in the middle of fisting sessions, say, or play in a group scene--the question of internal or external cum shots is surely one of those things best talked about beforehand. It is perfectly understandable if people have preferences, especially if they are new to barebacking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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