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My lover had a very conflicted approach to "serosorting" back when he was still neg. He would not get fucked bareback by guys he knew were poz, but he would get fucked raw and take loads up his ass from anonymous strangers. I guess he was counting on every single guy at the bath house not only to know his accurate and current HIV status but also to announce it if poz. Denial is a powerful force. Anyone surprised he is now HIV+? Even if guys don't actively lie about being neg when they know they are poz, it is much harder to know you are neg for certain,unless you've been celibate. I feel less risky getting fucked raw and taking loads from a guy who is HIV+ and on meds with an undetectable viral load than a neg guy who is versatile and also takes loads in his ass. Lately, though, I've been seriously getting off on the higher risk. The bottom line is that seroconversion happens when a poz guy (whether he knows he's poz or not) and a neg guy have unprotected sex. Because men both lie about being neg or don't always know immediately when they seroconvert, serosorting neg guys who fuck raw are undeniably at risk, so it is largely a matter of time before they get pozzed. If the OP is intent on staying neg, then he shouldn't bareback and should relegate bareback sex to fantasy. Ultimately, the OP will have to live with his choices and the outcomes of those choices. After all, getting fuck by a hot poz top with a big dick is a lot more fun when you've carefully weighed the choice and decided to embrace the experience than doing so without being ready and deeply regretting the choice.

Have your ass cleaned out and ready to go; slide your finger around the GH to indicate the man in the next booth should slide his cock through; suck his cock with long, slow strokes also using your hands and pulling all the way off his mouth with a hand-only stroke, and get him used to this motion; then after sucking him good and hard, using only your hand as you silently turn around and let your ass take the place of your mouth still using your hand (this may take some practice to do smoothly, so practice with a dildo suction-cupped to the wall); guide his cock with your hand into your ass as you back up against him, and he'll be in such bliss that he takes a minute to realize his cock is in an ass and not a mouth. I had a guy take my cock like this once at a bookstore, and I was so fucking turned on, I just let him slide up and down on my cock. After a bit, I ordered him to turn around and suck me, which he did, but he was really happy to told him to turn around and take my load! Hope it works for ya! I loved it, gave me a good excuse to fuck a hot ass bareback even though my lover assumed I would wrap it when fucking others (silly boy; after all, he was getting fucked through glory holes bareback and taking loads).

I've been a confirmed top for nealry 30 years, but I took the plunge this afternoon and took two loads in my ass, while blind-folded and bound in a sling. My ass (and nipples) still hurt like hell, but in the most delicious way. It was every bit as intense as I had hoped, and it is amazing to know what my bottoms have been feeling all these years. I'm a real control freak, and relinquishing all control like that, getting plowed hard so the pain and pleasure were indistinguishable -- my god I'm still in a state of euphoria at having my ass used like that.

There is some evidence to suggest that uncircumcised men are at higher risk when they top, and the underlying issue may be the degree to which sexual contact has created micro-tears in the skin of the penis. Hypothetically, if you fucked a neg guy with little or no lube, then watched as a bunch of poz tops pumped his ass full of cum, and then fucked him again, the microscopic abrasions from the first fuck could provide a vector of infection for the virus swimming around in all the hot spunk. I have read numerous places about microscopic abrasions being part of the infection vector for both tops and bottoms, but I don't know of any empirical research to estimate the infection rates from a top raw-fucking a bottom with poz loads in his hole. I'd love to sign up for that research study, now that I think about it. My guess is that fucking a neg bottom with an ass full of poz cum in him is higher risk than fucking a neg bottom without the poz loads swimming around in his hole, but I doubt anyone has any really precise estimate of just how much more risk would be involved. I also presume that fucking a lot of ass prior to fucking an ass full of poz cum will produce more micro-abrasions and increase the risk from what it would be for just fucking the one ass, which would be well lubed and really slick with all that poz cum in it.

I have a regular appointment for therapeutic massage with a therapist who comes to my home. He's a hot, well built guy with a great smile and excellent hands. He's been giving me massage for about two years, and I don't know entirely what was different tonight, but he kept brushing his crotch up against my hand "accidentally." Well, I can certainly take a hint & started playing with his cock through his shorts. Before I knew it, his shorts were off, his 7.5x6 cock was in my hands, all oiled up, and his hands were stroking my lower back, ass cheeks, and thighs, with the strokes getting closer and closer to midline until he was running his fingers up and down my ass crack and over my balls. We'd never talked about sex before, and he always ignored my erections when I'd rolled over in the past. I was so turned on my the attention to my ass that it didn't occur to me to tell him I was a total top and hadn't been fucked up the ass since 1984. It was heaven when he started rimming me, and my heart was pounding a mile a minute when I felt him climb up on the table and rub his body and his hard cock up and down my backside. I was incredibly turned on feeling his hot cock sliding along my ass crack, and the searing pain of his cock head entering me reminded me why I hadn't been fucked in over 25 years, but I was so horny I didn't dare ask him to stop no matter how much it hurt. And it was totally hot to be on the other side of a raw fuck, taking his bare cock inside me without knowing anything about his sexual history. He took his time with me, and although the pain never went away entirely, it did abate somewhat with his slow, deliberate, deep strokes. He finally spoke, whispering in my ear that he'd wanted to fuck me every time he'd worked on me, and he loved that he finally had his raw cock inside me. I responded that I had wanted to fuck him, too, but was thrilled to have his cock inside him and wanted him to shoot his load deep inside me. "Don't worry", he said, "I hate it when guys fuck me raw, only to pull out before shooting. I love taking loads up my ass, and I'm going to shoot a huge load deep in your ass any minute now." He picked up the pace, shoved my legs further apart, and really started pumping his cock deep inside me. He moaned and thrust so hard I had that proverbial feeling of being split in two. He stayed inside me and stroked my neck and arms and face for a while, and when he pulled out, he just kept right on with the massage. When I rolled over, I was rock hard. He worked over my cock & balls with his mouth and tongue and slid a finger up my ass. He pulled me down so my ass was hanging off the end of the table, put my legs over his shoulders, and slid his once-again hard cock inside my very sore ass. I had to ask him to slow down because I was so sore, explaining how long it had been, and he confessed that it was not his usual thing, either. He told me he was 90% bottom, adding that the bareback part, though, was his norm. He told me he usually gets fucked up the ass, raw, through a glory hole at the ABS in town and loves letting anonymous guys use him as a cum dump. To prove his point, he pulled out and told me to switch places with him. I reached for the squirt bottle with his massage oil for lube, but he grabbed my hand and told me he had enough cum in his ass already that it wouldn't be necessary. My rubbed the head of my cock against his hole, and he instantly opened up to me, and he must have had half a dozen loads inside him. I fucked him hard and fast and deep but didn't cum because I was afraid I wouldn't be able to take his cock again if I shot my load, so we switched back. As he started building up a good speed, he told me he loved how tight my hole was, and I told him I loved being fucked hard and used by a cum slut who was going to shoot a second load inside me. He rammed his cock deep to pump his second load inside me, and I shot my own load, seeing my cum flying over my head to land on the head piece of his massage table. I have another appointment booked in two weeks; I had tried for next week, but he'll be out of town at a workshop next week. He did promise to tell me all about the bath house he's going to hit while traveling and all the loads he gives there.