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Is there still a sauna or ‘venue’ in Limerick? I’m there for a weekend in Oct and will have some free time so will be looking for some fun.

Tel Aviv is good fun, nice weather and some very nice bars/clubs. It is a city in the Middle East though so you have to accept the cultural and religious differences. Apps are very popular and get busy with English widely spoken. I’m vers but I was only active in Tel Aviv due to the imbalance of the ratio of tops to bottoms. As for the Far East, I think Thailand could be fun but I haven’t been.

I’m interested as well.

Since I started regularly working out I have some good success with meeting guys through gym. I can offer the following tips and advice: 1. Remember that you are at the gym to workout, any cruising should come as a secondary bonus activity to your workout. There is nevertheless fun to be had, so don’t shut yourself off. In time guys will approach you to discuss technique and offer/ask for advice. 2. Log onto your preferred gay dating apps before you start your workout. Have a clear pic so that others looking around know who you are and what your are into/looking for. Don’t check your messages too often. 3. Wear something eye catching, but not too obvious to detract from your main purpose. See the attached pic of my gym shorts I wear when I am doing squats or deadlifts. I also wear a jockstrap, which gets attention in the changing room and is occasionally visible. Those that want to notice will do so. 4. “Correct yourself” when you have to, but don’t overdo it. Those that want to notice will do so. Be friendly and helpful, that way it is easier to strike up a conversation. 5. After your workout, use the gym showers. Once in the changing room, get naked. Don’t be too fased if you get a hard on, those that want to notice will do so. Once I am naked, I get my clothes ready, sling my towel over my shoulder and go and use the urinal whilst naked. This will get you noticed. 6. When in the shower I lather myself with soap and as I am uncut visibly pull back my foreskin and clean my cock and arse. I then succinctly check out who is around me and whether other guys move to shower closer to me for a better view or become visibly aroused. Look at others but don’t stare. 7. I tend to only check my phone for messages after I’ve had my shower and got dressed. Be seen to go for coffee or have a drink in the rest area. It gives guys the opportunity to approach you. If you have noticed others around you they may come and sit near you which gives you the opportunity to strike up a conversation. 8. Experience has taught me that using the gym at unpopular times (early Saturday mornings and late Sunday afternoons/evenings) bears the best results. 9. I’m not a fan of getting off in the gym or changing rooms, it’s not private and usually leads to a rushed encounter, but it has happened. Use your dating apps to connect with guys who are interested or who you have contacted. When I was in the navy I had to opportunity to use a gym run by the USN. I met some great guys and had a lot of fun from connecting with guys from gym, but it has continued to my current gym. Be friendly and approachable and interesting things will happen. Be patient and enjoy!

I went to the locker room in Kennington last night. No steam or sauna, just sex. It was fine. I’ve not been for a while but noticed more cubicles and glory holes. Two slings. It wasn’t busy, no more than 12 of us, but we were all there for the same thing. There was one “sling pig” who kept occupying one of the slings but I didn’t see anyone busy with him and a few guys with “London Attitude”, but they left after a while. It was good to be able to have a shower after every session. I enjoyed it and will go again. Just go, you will have fun.

RT, There appears to be a problem with the “London Breeding Group”. Here’s a screenshot.

I once arrived at a pre-arranged group party that started off well but then unravelled. There were, I think 5 tops, 2 bottoms and 1 vers (me). The one younger bottom liked one of the tops and was suddenly no longer in the mood for a group session, so they left together. When we got started it became obvious that the other bottom wasn’t clean, so he left. I was the only remaining bottom. This changed the dynamic of the session and 2 tops got bored waiting for my arse to become available and left. The session finished with me being DP’d by the two remaining tops.

There have been a number of interesting questions and posts about cockrings before, but I have questions about a cockring over the head of a penis. See the photo attached. It came off my Twitter feed earlier today. Have you ever worn a cockring like this, or been fucked by someone wearing a cockring like this? I think a cockring like this would tear the bottoms arse up. It also looks as if it would be sore to wear for an intense fuck. I would also be concerned about it slipping off during sex, it would be difficult and painful to retrieve. Do you have a view? Thanks, J

Brixton here.

I was on holiday just before Christmas and met a couple in the resort we were at. There was some intense chemistry between me and one of the couple. The first time he bred me in a sling and he just bent over and asked: “Please may I cum inside?”. I was kind of taken by surprise as I accepted it as a given and answered in the affirmative. Every time after that he asked first and I was really taken by this polite request.

Has anyone been to this cinema recently? Is it still open? Do they have secure lockers to put personal stuff in e.g. if I want to take off my trousers and wear just a jock is there somewhere I can leave my stuff? J

Good recommendation. I went last week Saturday night, very friendly. There were 26 guys there and I would say half of them naked with others wearing underwear. It was like going to someone’s front room, with sex in the basement. No attitude, no loud music or porn. If you don’t mind older men give this place a try. Such a refreshing alternative to the bars and clues in Schoneberg. Definitely an older crowd (all over 40) but no attitude, just friendly BB sex. I’ll be going again next time I’m in Berlin. J

Does anyone know why Laboratory has no party dates advertised on the website from 30 September to 10 November? I was there is July and the entrance process had changed with some visible changes to the layout of the venue but at was pride weekend and very very busy. J

I would be interested too, how does one get onto the contact list?