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I love fucking other men in our bed. Especially men who are cheating. I love the idea of using someone else’s property.
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Thanks, kernowk9. I'm really glad to know I'm not the only one with hematuria. My hubby and I have our usual PrEP-related labwork coming up in the next week, so we'll see what they find (and if the problem comes up for me again and they want to send me for another round of tests). For now, since we really only play with others about once a month, and I haven't even played BB with strangers at all since we both started prep (hubby's been fucked raw by someone else only once, but the guy did not cum inside), I think we're both pretty comfortable with 4 pills/week. If we start playing with others more frequently, especially BB, then we'd probably go to full dosing. We're also trying to minimise the toxicity, as well as have a stash of the medication in case we ever have a problem with access. As you know, we Americans are tied to our jobs like indentured servants in order to have access to barely decent health coverage that is essentially dictated/controlled by our employers. At the moment, we're fortunate enough to have relatively decent coverage, but I know that can change very quickly just by changing employers. I'm definitely impressed and happy to hear that your 84-year old friend is still out there having fun! Please do let me know how he's getting on. Cheers!
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This thread is fucking hot! I'm married and have never taken off my wedding ring when I fuck other guys. My hubby also doesn't take off his ring when he gets fucked by others. I think it is definitely the naughtiness of it
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Thanks for the reply. Since I'm actually not as active in playing around as I'd like right now (too busy with other stuff), I've already started to lower my dose to 4 pills/week, based on the same finding you cited of 4 pills ~ 96% protection. I figured being mostly a top, not bottoming raw for others (except on occasion for my hubby, who's also on prep) and even adding condoms to that mix (if I'm playing with someone not on prep or undetectable), I'm pretty comfortable with my risk.
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I'm still neg after having fucked a guy years ago that was collecting loads ass up in his hotel room. I literally fucked the guy almost immediately after someone finished breeding him. He had been getting bred for hours. This was before PrEP was even available, and I just didn't care at the time. I luckily still remained neg. I also recently fucked a guy doing the same anon ass up scenario. I later found out he was poz/undetectable, and I don't know if there were any loads in there, but it sure was easy to shove my cock right up there in one stab, with almost no lube, so I just assumed he had loads in there. That was also before I got on PrEP. Obviously, I'm still neg, since my viral load/PCR test came back neg, which is why I was prescribed PrEP. I'm not as worried for you, but maybe you can update us on what you did since then. Have you gotten an HIV test? got on PEP? I hear that even antibody tests in some clinics can detect HIV infection from an exposure as recent as 1 month ago. But to give some perspective, topping raw is really quite low risk, even with someone who is poz and not necessarily undetectable. There are so many guys on here that say they've been topping raw for years, no questions asked, and they never seem to ever get infected.
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Just wondering if any of you have been doing less than daily dosing, and whether you feel sufficiently protected given your level of risk. Been thinking of going down to 4 pills per week, just to reduce the level of toxicity and dampen the side effects. I still experience mostly GI issues (loose stools, occasional abdominal cramps), despite having been on PrEP for 2 months now. But more than the persistent GI issues, I also had a bit of a scare from my last urine test, which came back with microscopic amounts of blood (not visible to the naked eye). I had to get an ultrasound on my kidneys, and a rather unsettling urological exam (cystoscopy) to check my bladder. The urologist insists that everything is normal, and that I have a case of 'essential hematuria', which he says is simply unexplained small microscopic amounts of blood in urine that we cannot really fix - it's just there, and it just happens to some people without becoming a problem. My urine test before Truvada did not exhibit this problem, and PrEP is the only thing that has changed in 2 months, but the urologist and my GP both say 'don't worry'. As far as my risk, I only bottom BB with my hubby (and I top him 90% of the time), but I do occasionally top guys raw. He has only bottomed raw once since we both got on PrEP, and the guy did not breed him. Of course, time can only tell, but for now he insists that he will not bottom raw again, even whilst on PrEP (except bottoming raw for me), unless the other person is for sure on PrEP, as well. So, I tend to believe that, all in all, both our risks are relatively low. I'd like to hear your experiences with non-daily dosing, how many doses in a week (at least 4?), how risky your behaviour has been, and whether you feel you're still sufficiently protected. Thanks!
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I'm looking for a married bb ongoing fuckbud in SF. Me: married, early thirties, five three, one fifty, strong stocky build, neg, raw top, five cut, brown skin, black hair, into using a bareback bttm like a filthy worthless cumdump. You: married/partnered, neg+prep (preferred), white, total sub, eager to please, bb btm, close to my height (preferred), close to my age (give or take ten years), relatively fit, love taking loads, into kink (taking spit, licking pits, getting roughed up, slapped around, and verbally abused) and being used and treated like a filthy whore. In short, you live (and love) to be degraded. You take direction well. I need you to host.