PozDom

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An ex partner from many a lifetime ago was heavily into BDSM subbing and was the guy who taught me the foundations of what I now know today. The rest I’ve picked up along the way on what has been a fucking filthy journey usually with someone ending up with being restrained and whipped (it’s never me, I don’t sub).

There’s nothing quite like that feeling I get when a guy moans after I’ve whipped him or spanked him with a paddle! It’s definitely a control thing.

A location: SE London

Times you're generally not available: Available most days, best to ask

Age: 37

Height: 5’7” / 174

Weight: 9st / 58kg

No high viral load refused.

I don’t think I ever have felt it when a guy has come in me though would absolutely love to. I have, however, been told by a number of guys that they can feel me repeatedly pulsate when I’ve come in them. Apparently something to do with the thickness at the base of my cock

8 hours ago, BergenGuy said:

Of course, their explanation is almost always that they have to be "discreet."  

Which doesn’t really hold much ground now considering most messaging platforms and apps support delete-on-read messages. I usually just block them after a few messages if it’s going nowhere and I still haven’t seen at least one picture of them.

Always thought of the practice as disgusting until I started doing it myself and now I love arse to mouth. Particularly when the top (either me or someone else) is being verbal about it.

I’ve been almost exclusively barebacking for about 9 years now. I can’t remember the reason why or when exactly I started doing it with random hook ups but I wouldn’t change a thing. In the beginning I was almost exclusively top so knew the risk was significantly reduced. That being said when I have taken risks as a bottom (such as taken random guy’s loads whilst not on prep) those are the absolute hottest experiences. I also now refuse to meet anyone unless they bareback. I have a lot of respect for those guys who do still use condoms but it’s definitely not for me.

22 hours ago, BergenGuy said:

I found that empty profiles are very common on Grindr.  Nothing in their profiles .. not even age or distance.  But, their first message is "do you want to hookup"?

The worst ones are those who ask for picture but don’t have any themselves.

It’s all the empty profiles on sites like Bbrt or NKP where everything is listed as “ask me”. I get some people want privacy but that’s just taking it to an extreme and it’s very not horny if I have to ask someone for basic details.

I must be in the minority here in that I don’t find it sexy and the smell plus the taste of a smoker’s breath puts me off.

Here in the UK prep is free to all. I recently saw someone justify not taking prep everyday as they’re not good with taking tablets regularly and yet they take daily medication for something else. If they became positive they would likely have to take hiv medication daily too so I really don’t see the flawed logic.