Daddysucker

I was young and started fooling around with a friend who ended up introducing me to a family that had a huge house, pool, hot tub and such.  They were supposed nudists and the boys and men in the family all messed around and they would have get togethers with other likeminded families.  It was during that when i started playing with older boys and men that I experienced cum for the first time and ive been hooked ever since

A couple of my friends know and my brothers know all.   I explained in another post how that happened, but my brothers do know all i do.

The best are guys who are or claim to be straight, especially married.

These are guy who want nothing to do with a guy, but will let a guy blow him for convenience.

Gay guys or other cocksuckers tend to be "meh" when it comes to "just a bj"

The straight married types, CRAVE a good, sit back, bj that they're not getting at home anymore.

I find those are the ones who appreciate it the most, are the most hard and ready, and who get off the fastest usually too. 

I basically give 2 types of BJS depending on the guy that I'm with.   

The passive, sit back and enjoy type, I usually do all of the worshipping and sucking while they just enjoy.   With those, Ill pay attention and see what they enjoy and what gets them closest and thats how ill let them cum.  If its when i deepthroat, ill throat the load, if its sucking the head, ill suck the cum out that way.  

The other type are guys who like to be dom and in control.   With those, I just get on my knees and let them do what they want with my mouth.   Most like deepthroating and throat fucking to one level or another.  Usually they'll cum all the way deep.  Some like to cum in my mouth so i have to taste it and swallow it. 

Everytime i think i found a new favorite, i find another one.   I have favorites in a bunch of categories.    I do have guys saved on my "must suck" list which is basically my shortlist of guys that I love sucking so much that when they message, I don't even think about it and try to make it happen.

My absolute favorite play was when i was young, and was taught about the fun you could have pretty early.    That continued with most all of my male friends growing up.   Nothing beats an organic unexpected hookup with a real life friend.    Those were always the most exciting.

For the cock itself:   I have one guy who is young, skinny, with an unbelievably long but average thickness.   I don't know the length but its the longest i can remember out of hundreds.    Its just the right thickness that its not a struggle and I feel that cock slide deeper than anything else.

For the scenario:  I still play with the "father/son" and that hasn't slowed down.  I can't say no to either of them.

I've got to the point i have so many regulars that there are days i spend hours going from one to another. 

My favorite are long but not excessively thick, straight or with a slight downward curve.   I love ones that i have to swallow multiple times to get down.

I havent found one I cant take, though some took a lot of practice and multiple attempts.

This may sound silly but next time you're waiting on a big one, or any one, do some mouth stretching exercises.   That helps with jaw soreness when the time comes.

Also position has a lot to do with it for me.   I don't typically enjoy when a guy Im blowing is laying down.   It makes all the difference in the world if the guy is sitting up in a chair or couch or standing, and im on my knees.    I've got to the point i can almost turn off my brain to the part of my throat and just let it happen.   

My friend and i do one about once a week.  We get a ton of regulars and new ones mixed in

18 or 20.  Great deepthroating angle at a GH

For my first time as the teacher, so far I haven't found anything Ryan has said no to

Its been fun and we've toyed more with it.

The story of how I got into playing with guys is a whole crazy situation as it is, but its why I have a lot more experience playing with multiple members of the same families than most.  

As much fun as all that sounds, I also modify the game a bit.   While I'm certainly on the very active side, I do have a real life as well and as much as I like it to the point some would call an obsession, I still want some control over it.

I have preferences for the dicks I suck.  I typically avoid uncut as I'm very sensitive to that smell and its an immediate show stopper for me.  While I know the risks, I get sent pics of dicks that obviously have issues and are just downright gross.    

When I do a gh, ill either preselect myself or I have other friends I play with that I trust to make the selections for me, knowing what I like and I dont like.

Otherwise though, I'm not overly picky.  Age, body type, looks, are no factor.  I either do gh, dark room, or im blindfolded or hooded.    So the cock is the only part I care about.

A lot of the guys I suck, are new and anonymous to me, as they're selected by someone else for me.   So I still have the thrill and excitement of "having to suck any dick" that is presented......But I don't have to worry about something grossing me out or getting awkward. 

I've lost count but definitely in the hundreds by now.  

I ask a guy how he likes to be serviced first.   Most of the time, unless he is dom and likes to take control, I quietly let myself in, he will be sitting back on the couch, lights out, watching porn, or me, and i suck him the way i like to be sucked.  I take my time, slow deep.  I avoid the hand/mouth jackhammer.  Usually just a nice slow servicing and whoever it is will be cumming in a couple minutes.

I find its all mental.   I have a very short recovery time and I also like to take viagra so my "post nut clarity" doesn't last long.   I have a couple of regulars who for them it is a fetish to "make me" suck their cock knowing at that moment I don't really want to.  So they have me jerk off and cum on their cock or in a condom when we get started.   I'm able to power through knowing that it will only be a few minutes before I'm at full on horny again.   When im alone, ill often jerk off in a condom or catch it somewhere else and tell myself as soon as I cum, im going to eat it and I almost always dont right then.    Ill save it, and 15 mins later, im horny again and suck it right down.   

I love it.  There are days I swallow so many loads I get an upset stomach.  

I was introduced to sucking cock when I was younger than I am now.  I was basically recruited into playing with a family that played together.   Pretty much right away something triggered with me and I became obsessed with it.  The family had a huge house with a pool and hot tub and and I would go over there all the time and smoke some green and play.   Before too Mr B would have friends come over and it led to me being the center of attention pretty frequently with other guys of various ages.  

Since i used to hang out with a lot of older guys normally, it got to the point where i wanted to see anyone's cock who would let me.   Now that I look back, its a little surprising just how successful I was with guys who would follow my advances.   Most who I don't think would have tried anything on their own due to my age.   I would find a reason to end up alone with guys usually around my friends dads age and somehow i would bring up the topic of sex.  That would lead to me telling about my "previous experimentation" and often that opened the door to them either leading me to it or offering to "let me explore" with them as a safe mentor type thing.    It was a fun exciting game for me.   Some it was a one time thing, and others it became regular with some I still meet to this day.

There are a lot of posts on here about others who had older mentors when they were younger so I know it must not be that uncommon.    Personally, I like my role as it is and have no desire to take the reverse role.

I've always been curious what they were thinking and wondered if it was something they had thought about before I brought it up and how they felt about it.   Knowing these guys in real life, most married, careers and not what you would think of weirdos, I'm pretty confident this was a secret thing between us and not something they did before or after me.

I'm wondering if anyone here has experience being on the "other side" of the situation and would be willing to share some details and thoughts about how it happened and who initiated things and such.   I really enjoyed all of it and if I could, i would do it all again.

It would be cool to hear some real stories from the other point of view.    I only mentioned that I was younger here.   So that we can chat freely, lets assume this conversation involves parties of consenting ages.     

If you're going to commit to being a cocksucker for various men, you need to be prepared and able to handle that kind of stuff.  My job is to suck his cock the way HE wants it.  I have guys with no limits that ask me to drink a ton of water and they like to throat fuck me so i puke up water.   Its not my first choice of things to do, but its not up to me.  Im there to provide a mouth and throat for him to use to cum.  I would never push back, unless he wanted me to. 

I dont ask for face pics and I never really look at the guy, even in person.  I prefer a darkish room, or to be hooded or blindfolded.

Its kind a kink for me to suck off older guys and such who probably don't get hit up a lot by 19 year olds.  

I suck a guy off while he watches videos of his son sucking me off. Does that count?

16 hours ago, Close2MyBro said:

Did Ryan recognize his dad's voice if his dad said he was about to cum?

No. Thank god.  It was a whisper basically but I about lost my mind when he did that.

I'm curious.  I've told my story and have commented in a few posts regarding at what age we got started and there are a lot of guys who started early as well.

Since we're already on a forum that thinks differently, lol, I wonder what percent of boys overall, have similar experience.

1 hour ago, rock-cock-jock said:

Some bits of BJ advice:

- No teeth!: Retract those molars and be conscious of your position and angle in relation to the cock you're sucking. The best position is directly head on,           🕺🧎and in a stable relaxed posture.

- Just relax!: Despite conventional wisdom being to "just suppress your gag reflex", the key to deepthroating well and in a sustained, prolonged manner is to relax your throat muscles. Don't stress, don't be nervous or tense or whatever. Breathe in through your nostrils and try to relax your whole body but with a focus on lengthening your throat muscles like a big lazy yawn. Yes, there is a gag reflex that happens alot when you're just starting and suppressing it is a very tense, contracting kind of motion. But dont stay in that mode and instead make an effort to relax after it's over.

- Master control over pacing!: I think for beginners there's a tendency from being too excited to hit the throttle without realizing and start  to suck as if they were a woody woodpecker! Not good at all. Using a slower, controlled and steady pace, especially at the beginning, will help him ramp up and get his flag to full mast and is great to return to if he loss chub mid way through (aside from obviously stopping whatever it is you were doing that didnt feel good). A quicker pacing though can feel great, especially with face fucking, given that u have enough throat and breath control to do that. There's a 'sweet spot' though with pacing and string enough suction on the return stroke that the 3 gay bears would say not too fast, not too slow, and that's juuust right👌it works on almost every guy and gets them started on the landing strip for takeoff. That's basically what you use when u want a guy to cum and get tf out of ur apartment. In my opinion, if you just go straight into that mode though and have them cumming too quickly, it's kind of a dick move to do. Edging is a part of pacing too and each time u kinda reset things it builds up and feels better when he does shoot. I think of waves for some reason. Motion of the ocean.

- A blowjob at its core is the use of your mouth and throat as a fleshlight for the top to jerk off with. All the extra crap you may have heard about like licking or nibbling or swirls or the grapefruit thing or whatever are in my opinion just gimmicks and shouldnt really be part of your main repertoire. BJ technique is a thing but these are a waste of time.

- So the way I see it, from my own experience, there's beginner mode where you cant take cock any further than your oral cavity, basically only taking the head and  a bit of the shaft really. Intermediate mode means you can slip the cock down your throat some without gagging but eventually runs into a wall of sorts limiting encapsulation to like 6 or 7 inches. Advanced mode means you can bypass that wall using certain angles to push past and having your throat stretched enough that you can get deeper past your throat. and once you master that stage,  you can graduate blowjob school and the world's your oyster my friend to swallow everything and anything into you

- The most important bit of advice that will help you get better at cocksucking is to love sucking cock. No, really, like lean into that frame of mind and you'll find you relax better, and more in tune with things. It's what I think separates gay guys from most straight females - the cock enjoyment is just straight up evident in the the quality of the bj

Exactly this.    Love the "woody woodpecker" reference.  Thats what i call the "hand/mouth jackhammer"   And like 8 out of 10 guys ruin a great bj by reverting to that and it just ruins it for me.   Ill be right about to cum and then that bs starts.    Thats actually why I may suck 20 dicks a week but i get mine sucked by only a couple of people.

Forget any fancy moves.   You have to love what you are doing and just remind yourself, you are there to suck the cum out.   Unless he takes control and fucks my mouth, or requests some hand, I just keep a slow, steady pace up and down and the only thing i vary is how deep i go.   Same pace and same suction.  Just the head.  Then an inch lower, and an inch lower each time until it touches the back of my throat.  I stop a minute there and then realllllly slowly take it all the way down my throat and hold it there as long as I can.   I repeat that until i want him to cum, and by then I have enough of a read on what he responds to, that I can make him cum exactly when I want him to.    I would say that 80% cum on the first or second deepthroat without me trying. 

I mentioned suction.  Don't suck like a shop vac.    Just create a little negative pressure in your mouth.  Just a slight but noticeable pull.   Just enough that if he were to start cumming you would draw the cum out.  

And actually the best thing is to just ask your feeder what he likes.    I have every new guy i meet describe to me the kind of blowjob that he watches in porn when hes all alone and nobody can see.    I hate when they say "anything" and I don't accept that.    They're just so excited to be getting sucked by a 19 yr old that they don't think about it.   When i press, ill often find that the guy who was cool with laid back service, actually fantasizes about throat fucking with no limits.    And Ill do that.  They just never would think to ask.

So that just my advice.  I realize im 19, but ive got a lot of experience going back a long time.

On 11/28/2022 at 11:49 PM, xxbjn2 said:

We need to know more 🙂

Well there is a whole story behind how I went about it so I could really appear to have known nothing if it came out.    But the short version is Ryan and I did another gh this weekend.  Got Ryan to agree that we choose only by dick pic and don't look at profiles.   I told him if its a dick I sucked before, we kinda have to say yes, but he didn't have to participate with anyone he didn't want to.  I messaged his dad and told him to make a grindr profile, keep it blank, and just message with a dick pic.   As soon as i put gh open on grindr the messages started coming in.   We looked at dick pics, the first 3 or 4 we both looked at and said yes.  The next one I knew who it was.  We opened it and just like the others, we both just said yes. 

Ryan arranged the times with them.   We set up two half an hour apart.  We agreed to swap sucking back and forth and we would take turns who did the finish and swallowed the load. 

The first we shared cause thats what the guy wanted.  When the next guy was on his way Ryan told the next guy, who was Brian, to wait close and we'd hit him up in a few.

Second guy came over and I said id take the first load.   He stuck it through and I started.   I sucked for maybe a minute and he came before we could even switch.

Then we told brian to come over and like 2 mins later his dick came through the hole.   I told Brian I would be the first mouth and I would lick the tip when we were switching.   I started sucking him then Ryan came close with his mouth, so I licked the tip and backed up and watched Ryan take over.    At that point Ryans dad knew who it was and it was only a min or so when he said he was about to cum.  He did and Ryan swallowed it.   And I shot a load without ever touching mine