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I've given a few virgins their first time and for me the process of helping them open up is most of the fun. The sphincter is a muscle like any other - it can relax, it can stretch, you just need to help your bottom learn how to control that part of his body and teach him how to trust you. The first time is never comfortable at the start but with the right approach he can enjoy it as much as you.

If you're the type of guy who forces a bottom to take it when his body isn't ready, then you're a bigger asshole then the one you're fucking.

19 hours ago, flopera2 said:

Dreaming about my Dad’s dick again….

If I was your dad I'd be dreaming of yours too!

On 10/3/2019 at 8:39 AM, Guest MrBob said:

During my years at high school I  had sex with 7 men teachers.

The thought of teachers getting sucked by their students is so hot to me. There were a few teachers I would have liked to taste while I was at school.

Maybe we should buy a few of these and do some tests [think before following links] https://store.tengahealthcare.com/products/tenga-mens-loupe

@Iker80 I'd be happy to assist 😘

I was more into bottoming when I was younger. I was having sex with one of my first flatmates - once after he fucked me we were spooning in bed together with his dick still up my ass, I felt his dick twitch and throb a few times and I didn't realise what was happening until I started feeling like I needed to take a shit. When I asked him what was happening he told me he was pissing in my ass - there was something about being held and laying in bed while he did something so filthy that I loved straight away. He told me later that was also his first time, he had never tried it before but he said there was something about me that just told him I'd like it. He wasn't wrong 🙂

He had a big dick even when he was soft so it went deep - we couldn't do it all the time because it always took a few hours to completely work its way out of me, but that became a semi-regular thing for us after fucking. Usually we'd do it at night, I'd sit on the toilet and take a shower before going to bed but more always came out the next morning - so I was sleeping with his piss locked away somewhere in my large intestine. I also tried drinking his piss once but I hated it - I've had a few bottoms drink mine since then though.

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

We don’t justify sexual molestation of children retroactively because it didn’t happen to have led to lasting harm; even if we did, it would still be impermissible to do it because of those cases that demonstrate the potential that it can damage a life. You can’t un-ring the bell.

I'm not trying to justify it, I'm saying if somebody is sharing their experience and they consider their experience positive, who are you or anybody else to tell them it was wrong? Let people make up their own minds about their own experiences.

1 hour ago, blackrobe said:

The sample of respondents here is dramatically skewed towards sex positive and hyper-sexual men so this isn't a usable sample.

Obviously I was referring to members of this forum who have replied to this topic, not society as a whole.

3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

The results of this poll are troubling. More than 45% of respondents were minors when they were first sodomized. Nearly two out of every ten respondents was still a child 12 or younger.

Don't discount the fact most people commenting about having their first experience at a young age seem to have a positive view of it. It shouldn't be considered troubling or concerning unless they were forced or the encounter was not consensual.

6 hours ago, hairyone said:

This conversation is confusing.  Is it "incest" (sex between close relatives) or "pedophilia" (psychiatric disorder of sex between an adult and minor)?  They are not the same thing. 

Likewise, incest and rape are not the same thing. What happened to BBArchangel is horrible but that's because it was rape - the offender being his brother doesn't make it any better or worse.

I only know one person who has experienced incest and he considers it a positive experience - not everybody's experiences are the same and that doesn't mean every experience will be positive, but the same can be said for literally every other type of relationship or sexual experience. I don't know if incest should be normalised but we shouldn't be demonising it as broadly as we do just because some people haven't had positive experiences with it.

13 hours ago, amsrat said:

I used to do exactly this as a teenager too. Extra thrill being jailbait.

God bless those teenagers

The first guy to fuck me was 23 when I was 15 and he was 100% my type - tall, toned, tanned and older (back when being in your 20s meant "older"). We only fucked once though and my game wasn't good enough to find other guys like him at that stage, so although I wanted older guys the other guys were around my age until I was around 18/19.

I've been through a (real) pregnancy before and honestly there's no way to describe the emotions you experience when you go through that process with somebody. It's a combination of a strong instinctual urge to protect them and a deep spiritual connection like nothing you've ever felt before, and you experience all these emotions in a way that feels like you have a second heart deep in your core - that's the best way I can describe it but it still doesn't feel adequate enough.

And something inside you changes when you watch a new human come into the world and begin life - being there for that moment is absolutely incredible. And on some level it feels strange to fetishise it but another part of me completely understands because I'd love to experience this entire process with another man. I want to be there with him and experience those 9 months of growth together, and I want to watch him create a new life from his own body.

Its more of an emotional fetish than a sexual fetish for me, but yeah - thumbs up for mpreg lol

Wouldn't this be a better question for his doctor? Has he considered using birth control?

Facials are such a waste - if I'm cumming it's going inside you one way or another.

Has anybody found porn where the second hole (sigmoid colon) is mentioned? There are plenty of videos of guys taking longer dildos which briefly stop a few inches in before going deeper - I'm certain that's the dildo reaching and then moving through the second hole - but they don't usually acknowledge it or talk about it, and I haven't found any videos with a top or bottom where it's discussed. The ideal would be a video where a top talks the bottom through his cock through the second hole into the colon, especially if it was the bottoms first time going that deep.

Years ago I remember watching a behind the scenes video where the bottom had to use a dildo to loosen his second hole for the top, but it was only a brief mention and it wasn't part of the porn video itself, and I haven't been able to find it since.

10 hours ago, WiltsCumDump said:

The line between pleasure and pain is very thin. That is why the prep is so important.

100% this - taking cock shouldn't be painful, even if it's a monster cock. I get the sense a lot of guys here don't enjoy or understand foreplay but it's just as good as the fuck itself for me. When you take your time with a bottom and feel his body open up for you it's incredible, and feeling his pleasure as well as your own is so gratifying.

11 hours ago, BBArchangel said:

It takes a monster cock to breach your second ring, and there is nothing quite like that when “coming in your gut“ is not just an expression.

I've felt the second ring both ways - my cock in someone else's, and someone else's cock in mine - and there's definitely no comparison for it. It doesn't get any better than knowing the load is going that deep and being locked inside by the intestine bend.

4 hours ago, Marlin said:

With the internet I'm confident all guys have been exposed to sex by the time they reach puberty 

That's definitely true, at least based on what I've observed.

My teenage hormones got in the way. I was horny, he didn't have a rubber, but neither of us let that stop us.

I was 15, he was 23 and friends with my best friend's older brother. It was after a weekend barbecue lunch my friend's family were hosting - he and I had been around each other a few times before and never paid much attention to each other because of our age difference (and he had a girlfriend so I didn't think he'd be interested), but I don't know why it was different this time, there was just something in the air between us.

He gave me a ride home after the barbecue, but instead of taking me home we went to a spot he knew we could be alone. We both wanted it but we were both nervous - me because it was my first time getting fucked and him because of his girlfriend. He fucked me on the backseat of his car - no rubber but luckily he had some lube in his wallet. It wasn't comfortable at first but I remember thinking it hurt a lot less than I expected it to, and I blew my load without touching my dick. After we finished he dropped me home and I ate dinner with my parents with his load still in my ass.

We got together a few times after that but only for blowjobs, I'm not sure why we never fucked again. He asked me not to tell anyone but I couldn't stop myself telling my friend - it somehow became a "known thing" among our group of friends but as far as I know his girlfriend never found out.

8 hours ago, teralex said:

I can put in my 12 inch double ended dildo in pretty easily and get fucked with it inside semi often.

That's incredible. Is the top's cock side by side with the dildo when he fucks you or does the dildo go deep enough so the top wouldn't know it's in there?

I've always assumed something about cum makes our bodies produce gas because any time I'm holding a load in I'm much gassier then usual, even if it was only a quick fuck so it's less likely to be air getting stuck from the fuck itself. Especially if I sleep with a load in and it gets absorbed overnight - you don't want to be near me in the morning lol. Maybe it's some sort of reaction to the rectum absorbing it?

When I top I love hearing my bottoms fart afterwards - knowing my cock and load are the reasons he's gassy is very hot to me.

3 hours ago, PozWhore said:

I tend to start to fart a bit while they're fucking me which can be embarassing and I can't control that ... it's not just a pop, pop, pop from one or two fucks, for me it's really loud forceful farts too.

Don't worry, there's nothing sexier then a twinky hole that talks back 🙂

5 hours ago, alwaysswallow said:

How could someone not love precum. I've been eating mine since I was a teenager, and one of my favorite parts of sucking cock is coaxing out as much as I can.

I enjoy it with other guys too, but I'm not exaggerating when I say I make a lot. I guess for some guys who aren't used to a cock that gets so wet it can be a turnoff.

I shoot regular loads but I can precum a lot, especially if it’s been a few days between blowing loads. Is hyperprecumia a thing? lol

Some guys love it, some guys don’t though, but it makes barebacking so much better. I love rimming a guy while I finger him with my precum - and nothing is better then eating ass after a fuck and not tasting lube, just his body and my fluids.

I don’t like drinking piss myself but I’ve had a few bottoms drink mine. To me it’s an extremely intimate thing - I don’t see it in the same degrading way as most of you do. It’s a very emotionally gratifying feeling to gently hold someone’s head while he drinks from my cock after draining my balls, then laying in bed together thinking about how he has swallowed literally every drop of liquid my cock is capable of producing.

It was a bit of an open secret that I was bi when I was in high school - I wasn’t out but word gets around so people knew. The guys I hooked up with were gay and as far as I knew nobody else in my school was known to be bi.

Once word about me got around I started getting some weird kind of friendly interest from a few straight guys - completely platonic, nothing sexual happened with them, but in retrospect I think they might have been curious and trying to test the waters a bit. I think because I was bi and also hooked up with girls they might have felt safer compared to pursuing one of the gay guys, or maybe I was seen as more of “one of the guys” because I also got with girls. Funny enough I got more interest from girls who heard I was bi too, I don’t know why - it was a shame for me though because I’ve always preferred guys. There were plenty of guys at school whose balls I wanted to drain but I didn’t get anywhere with most of them unfortunately.

4 hours ago, Tsjul said:

Same, idkw, maybe because the first adult male I'd sex with was Asian! 

For me it’s the smooth twinky guys, they remind me of my high school days 😅