BottomingOut

My first was a sort of consensual/non-consensual situation. I had been talking to this Dom twice my age right after I graduated high school for a couple of years while dating my girlfriend. I guess I wasn't entirely willing to accept that I was gay despite all of my hetero relationships failing spectacularly mainly due to me being a submissive bottom apparently. When my gf and I split up, I gave in and met him at this gay-only campground/resort in Missouri. What was initially agreed to me me only giving him head, it somehow evolved into him telling me to get on my hands and knees in front of his tent and losing my virginity bareback while a dozen or so guys there watched. It felt transcendental when it happened, and when he was balls-deep in me grunting while motionless, I realized he was shooting his cum into me it was the greatest rush ever.

I suppose I could have said "No," but like I said, I was incredibly submissive in my youth and didn't want to "make a scene" or "make him feel weird" as dumb as that sounds. I was a small-town, naive kid that grew up in the church with strict parents. 

After that first time, I only ever had bareback--mostly with him and with his friends or whomever was interested if he took me to the "men's club" in Saint Louis with him. More often than not the tops went in raw, but a small amount (probably married dudes) wore condoms. 

Agreed. I worked in IT at the Uni I graduated from as my first job. I mainly worked night handling the server racks (HDD & memory replacements, backups, etc.). It was only me there so it made for some fun nights when I was horny. 

Not to date myself, but sometimes I miss the AOL (or mIRC) days of getting hookups. Chatting via IM and then deciding to meet up somewhere or give them your address. Of course then you'd have to use MapQuest and print out directions lol That's how I lost my virginity in high school to an older dom-daddy. Now that I'm in my mid-40s I feel like I'm at a loss for finding a quality NSA play-partner (at least where I live). It sucks getting older.

On 12/16/2023 at 12:39 PM, Close2MyBro said:

I've been to St. Louis a few times for business and found it to have a pretty dead gay sex life.

Sad but true. For a metro area of like 2 million, it feels impossible to find some wild playtimes. Chicago tends to fare better for fun.

Neg for any STI and also drug free other than the occasional edible or THC transdermal patch. 

My first was at 19 with a guy in his late 40s. I wanted an older guy who knew exactly what he wanted to take from me and exactly how to take it. We ended up in a sub/dom relationship for almost a decade where he owned me. I hope you get to have some more adventures. 

What a magical first time!

Two friends know that I was an incredibly slutty (and piggy) bi guy. They didn’t know I was a chaser, but then again I didn’t even know that chasing was even a thing. I just always craved bareback with both men and women. With women my age at the time, it was easy to convince them to not use condoms because cancer in my teens left me sterile. None of the promiscuous girls I slept with cared about STIs. With guy, I’m a complete submissive bottom so raw felt right. Plus the risk was intoxicating. 

My wife found out about my bisexuality and cock-taking ways a few years into marriage when she wanted to try hotwifing. That was about the time I learned I was technically a bug chaser all these years. While she won’t admit it that she is one too, I think she is deep down. She had sex with dozens of strangers the first year alone we opened the marriage and only did raw. So when she came home and gave me leftovers overs, I always hoped to get something from her. 
 

Now 20 years married, her stance has openly evolved into supporting my bug chasing efforts to the point she’s found guys online and invited them over. It’s entirely unconventional but it works for us. I am pretty sure her younger sister knows about everything but none of the rest of the family or our work friends know. 
 

On 7/9/2023 at 2:51 AM, bitbucket said:

Don’t despair. I got anal warts when I was about 22 years old. I had an operation and a surgeon removed them. It was a very painful recovery, and they came back, but I saw a doctor that treated them and within about a year they stopped coming back. Yes, I still have the virus in me, but I don’t have any visible warts. It’s important you work with your doctor. I am now 67 years old and I have not had another wart appear since they were removed in my 20’s. Get treated. You can still have a good sex life.

I had a friend have the exact same experience with anal warts. It was traumatic that first time going to the doctor, but it's a good thing he did.

On 6/25/2023 at 3:21 PM, sissy99 said:

Me also it would be so nice and smooth down there...

I have thought about the exact same thing the past 20 years 🙂

I haven't played with sounds in a hot minute, but used to love it. Had a dom that also had the violet wand urethral probe. Oh fuck was that amazingly intense. Some amazing orgasms via that thing shocking my cock from the inside. Pair that with a shockable buttplug and I was in heaven.

On 6/22/2023 at 7:35 PM, JeffPigDadd said:

Always Intrigued in the public places. With my age, I don’t wanna bring strangers home anymore. Let alone homeless strangers, or their friends. I’m just blocks from the wooded cruise areas along the river. Sometimes it’s just a place to stop, take a rest from my bicycle and sit along the river and see what happens.  Not up to going alone in the dark. I’m more UP in the morning, during sunrise, or just before sunset. 

That sounds a lot like me right now. I completely feel that. Outdoor play is always a huge turn on. I'm not far from part of the Katy trail, and spent my 20s near Creve Coeur Park which was super cruisy back then.