It's a bit frustrating for me because I'm a bottom, but most of the time when I go to sex parties, I can at least give oral to several guys, but I don’t know why they don’t want to fuck me. I go to cruising bars in Europe, specifically in Germany, and my style is full Adidas—mainly Adidas track pants.
I don't feel very comfortable with my body, so I've never worn a jockstrap and I don’t like taking off my shirt. I’m 'skinny fat,' meaning I have a noticeable belly but a generally slim body. So when I take off my shirt, people can see my belly, but when I keep it on, it's hardly noticeable.
Anyway, what kind of outfit do you think I should wear to have a better chance of getting fucked? I’m not sure if I should be more direct and just ask guys to fuck me, but I’m shy and have low self-esteem. I always feel like they prefer to fuck younger guys. I'm 35—not gorgeous, but not ugly either—but my body bothers me