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I thought that if you cleaned out too often that your insides could dry out? I only usually clean when I know I'm going to have some butt play (I'm into dildos and such) or when I'm going to hook up. I'm pretty worried about not being clean down there so I try to make it as clean as possible for the top

I just use a regular enema bulb I found on Amazon [link]

I tested together with my friend beginning of February. I don't bareback often and I usually like regular partners. Although I did take an undetectable load, I'll get tested again in a few months.

Hey, I'm from Philly but I have a few days off every now and then, maybe looking to get up to NYC and spend a few days with a nice top for some extended kinky play. Prefer other neg guys like myself. Really into assplay. Anything else is negotiable.

I'm not a fan of pungent odors but there are some guys out there that smell good. It must be a pheromone thing with me but when I find a guy that I think smells sexy, I'll sniff every part of him. Once I was hooking up with this cute guy while I was vacationing in San Francisco, he smelled so good I stuck my nose in his mouth and just breathed in his...breath haha. Then I smelled his pits and was in heaven. I even slept so that I breathed in his breath.

So yes, into man smells but maybe not quite the same thing you guys are talking about?

If it starts with a 'hey' or 'sup' I'll ignore it and usually they don't come back. If he is persistent I'll answer with short responses. If he makes a comment that he wants to meet, I'll reply with a "I'm sorry but we aren't a match" (note the apology and the use of 'we' rather than 'I am not interested in you'). Some have even responded with a "Thanks for replying/being honest" message!

Maybe it's just me but I tend not to apologize when I don't mean it. Instead I'll say something like "unfortunately, not interested, good luck hunting" or ignore them. I do say thanks if they compliment me and I don't want to return the compliment. I just feel weird apologizing when it's essentially "fake".

But good call on the "we" part.