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The activities you describe are a really high risk and a pretty sure way to end up poz. If I had to guess I would say you have probably been infected. On meds and undetectable doesn't mean completely noncontagious especially when it comes to direct blood to blood contact. if you haven't been infected yet and you keep up doing theses types of activities you most certainly will at some point.

Some new research shows that if you get on meds within the first 6 months to a year of infection that after a few years on meds some people become what is called a long term non-progressor, which means that the infection does not get worse with out meds. All the medical research out now says the sooner you get on meds the better. Some studies show that if you get on meds within the first year there is almost no decrease in life expectancy.

Great from Brian Kenny in QAF "unless I'm fucking you its none of your business." Me and the hubby are in an open, poly, bb serodiscordant relationship we are honest about it and both knowingly accept the risks. Some of the people in our life know we are open but few know about the bb thing. We misjudged a few people about disclosing the open and/or bb thing and they totally flipped. So we adopted the unless I'm fucking you its none of your business rule. While I understand and sympathize with those that are still in the closet about both there sexual orientation and their bb activities, I do feel it is both horribly dishonest and disrespectful that you are placing your longterm wives/husbands/partners at such great risk without their knowledge or consent. They deserve the right to make an informed decision about their risk level. Whatever with the random hookups and anon fucks, they have made their decision and know the risks. We all have the right to live our lives and make our own decisions but their is a saying "my liberties extend as far as your liberties" and if you are denying some one the right to make an informed decision through deception then you are doing that person a great injustice. Also just a warning if/when you end up passing along a STD its going to be pretty obvious what you've been up to and you will lose everything in the divorce and depending on the state may face charges for sexual assault. But then again if enough HIV gets spread to the straight population in this county may be mainstream culture might start considering it everybody's issue and not just "the gay plague."

The main problem is the power dynamic imbalance that comes with a large age gap. A 14 year old boy is far more susceptible to the influence of a 24 year old guy than a 24 year old is to a 34 year old, so I think consent laws should be based on age gaps not a set age. I think back to high school and the power difference between a freshman and a senior (only 3 or 4 years) at that point is substantial but the difference between 30 and 40 in negligible. But if we had to set an across the board age I say 16, if the law says you are old enough to operate a potentially lethal machine then you are old enough to make the decision wether or not to fuck. But then again I know guys in their 20's who probably still aren't mature enough to make that decision.

if it is less than a month since you took those loads its very unlikely, though not impossible that it is the "fuck flu" go get tested now and again in 3 months and you will know for sure.

it is all ways good to have a wing man, plus if you work well together you can use each other as bait to land a hot fuck that nether of you would have been able to get on your own. Their is a reason wolves hunt in packs.

So kinda in tandem with the thread about what has changed for me over time sexually, Im finding that when it comes to 1 on 1 hookups I desire some connection or chemistry as I mature, I'm not talking about picking out china patterns but there has to be something there. The two main reasons are that I am by nature an introvert and I do have a mild touch of social anxiety so initial 1 on 1 meetings are sort of nerve wracking for me and nothing kills my hard on faster than anxiety, so it can take a moment for me to relax and get into it and if I'm not feeling it my dick won't work. If it's a group, my BF or another friend is there or I'm in a comfortable, familiar setting I can jump right in without any hesitation. Second my BF is really my physical ideal, super hot, we have a awesome life together and our sex is amazing, so I'm really sexually satisfied right now. I suppose that if I was single and not getting laid on a regular basis I'd be a lot less picky. Besides one of my favorite things is watching another guy breed his ass and then I get to fuck the load deeper in.

Facebook's privacy policies are so shitty. The way I treat facebook is, if you wouldn't want it published on the front page of the New York times don't post it to facebook. Now if you get off on the idea of the fact you are a cumdump being broadcast on CNN, then by all means Facebook away.

Learn to keep fucking and stay hard after you cum. That way it doesn't matter how fast you shoot.

I had a bottom yesterday ask if me and my BF were "clean" AFTER we each dumped a load into his ass. Needless to say he got a BB reality check lecture.

My hubby has perfected the technique so I get milked every night!

IF you have hesitations you are not ready yet. For me the transition from safe only to BB only was a gradual one that required a lot of research, self searching, risk assessment and acceptance of the possible consequences. Like many have already said there are different levels of exposure and risk. There are things you can do to manage your level of risk, but before you truly make the transition to a bb bottom you have to truly accept the fact that if you plan on taking raw loads on a regular basis over the next years of your life chances are you will most likely seroconvert.

There is a skincare company called Epicuren. They isolated the enzyme in you mouth and that causes your skin to regenerate very quickly i.e. you bite your cheek and its healed in days compared to weeks compared to if you cut your finger. The enzyme concentrate was developed to treat burn victims. A little bit on or in (yes its safe for shallow internal use) your hole and you'll be good as new in a few days. It is expensive but not only does it speed all healing processes, it reverses fine lines and wrinkles on your face.

Got to watch a hot 21 year old bread my BF's hole last night, then I fucked my load in afterwards. Totally Hot!

In an open LTR right now, coming up on 7 years. I haven't been in a monogamish relationship for almost a decade can't imagine ever having one again just like i can't imagine going back to using condoms again. I've done the Poly thing for a bit but my life situation shifted and i move so that ended, it was fun but a lot of work to have more than 4 people involved at a time, 3-4 people work best for poly with hookups on the side.

Love watching guys fuck my BF the only exception is if the guy is so unattractive to me i would NEVER fuck him it kinda weirds me out.

Yup! once i ditched the condoms and i got in a relationship bigger bottom than me.

He IS really hot, that dick is amazing, he gives a great pounding and his accent totally is sexy. Both me and my hubby have been fucked by him multiple times, my hubby even did a scene with him. We lost contact a few years ago so it's been a while since we have talked but as far as i know he is still retired.