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  1. I went. After some initial reticence it pretty much descended into a total fuck fest. It seemed a lot more egalitarian - anyone could fuck with anyone, which I liked. I am hoping there will be another, and more guys come. It was refreshing to know that everyone there was going to bb and there was no pretences around it

     

  2. Each person makes a choice about his own health whenever he has sex. Nothing that another person says or doesn't say can protect us. We should never assume that we know the other person's health status, nor that he himself knows it. People don't always get regular STD tests, don't always understand the results, and don't always have symptoms, and our health is constantly changing anyway.

    The BF's choice to use condoms is protection enough for the BF's health.

    As much as people say that they're concerned about the BF's health, all this talk of "immorality", of "rights" and of "character" -- when the BF is well-protected by his own choice to use condoms -- suggests a deeper judgment about a normal sexual desire.

    Most human beings, if we're honest with ourselves, desire barrier-free sex with multiple partners. In choosing to have sex, we need to be comfortable with the fact that many of our partners have acted or will act on this desire at some point.

    The use of the word 'cheat' implies that a relationship is monogamous. In which case it is reasonable for both parties to assume that the other is not having sex outside of the relationship. For someone to start having sex outside of a relationship, safe or unsafe, without prior discussion, is immoral.

  3. Is there really anyone who thinks its ok to cheat on your bf, potentially expose him to various illnesses, and then deal with the possible consequences afterwards. No ones needs trump the responsibility to ensure you don't compromise someone else's health unnecessarily. And I am sure the poster knows that, and is just looking for justification to act in an completely immoral way.

    If you think your need for bb sex is so strong then speak to your bf first. Let him know it is important to you and give him the opportunity to make the decision about it and the possible consequences for his health. But if he says no, then you have to either abide by that or leave him. You have the right to make choices about your health, but not his.

  4. I've been a sub-slave in the past (wonderful experience!) and am used to experienced tops discussing things with me first. For quick hook-ups I generally make sure my ass is ready for a pounding and I'm usually not discomforted or objectionable to the situation that arises. As long as everything is consensual, then I am usually ok about it.

    Isn't this a bit of a moot question? Everyone will have a limit at some point. Don't care if the top fucks you hard? Ok. Don't mind if he then punches you in the face, ties you up and steals your stuff? Probably. Everyone has their limits somewhere.

    I love being a sub, but ultimately as a sub you still have to consent to what is happening. Even if that consent is not verbalised or previously agreed. Having been a rape victim, I know when being a sub and enjoying it turns into being raped, physically assaulted and not enjoying it.

    I doubt there is anyone who truly doesn't give a shit about what the tops does. Its just that the tops they've had have never crossed that limit.

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  5. Just waiting for a fb to come over. Early twenties, red hair, hairy body, nicely shaped dick. He has fucked me one before. We didnt talk about bare before he came over. When he started to fuck me he just acted like he was going to fuck me raw with no question. I wasnt about to stop him - I wanted to feel that nice ginger cock deep in me. He went for about twenty minutes before he emptied his nuts deep in my hole.Fuck Im looking forward to another dose.

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