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CumSlutDamien

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  1. On Friday, May 24, 2013 at 9:58 AM, einathens said:

    many, if not most, gay men will have sex on the first date. i will have sex as the first date.

    while there is a certain efficient logic to 'fuck first and see if dinner would be a waste of time,' you lose the part where you get to know the other person as a person, not just a meatpuppet filling a vacancy in your bed.

    dating can be scary. also expensive. and first dates can be sheer hell. i for one hate having to iron a shirt and be the most charming, non-intimidating version of myself.

    that being said, there's nothing like finally finding a kindred spirit, someone you want to spendtime with when you're both clothed and vertical.

    sex is about self-discovery, and journeys are better shared.

    That's the problem with mixing dates with hook-ups. If one is on a date, I feel it is best to not jump right into sex. Dating is about getting to know someone for a long-term goal. Plus, when dating someone, if the emotional chemistry is there, the sex doesn't have to be perfect to be meaningful.

  2. 41 here. I find there are stories and porn videos, here and other places, that I find hot and get off to. But, in reality, I value my health too much to actually do those things in person. On the other hand, I am at a place where I do bareback and have taken two loads over the last few years. I enjoy the lack of a condom enough that I am starting PrEP as a way of being proactive and stay healthy as much as I can.

    I would also love to be a no-load-refused bottom, but, frankly, I don't think I will ever get over the hurdle of my personal tastes and types of guys. Attractiveness to someone will always play a role. I've tried being ass-up and find myself constantly looking to see who might be coming, then just eventually give up if I know there's no one there I'm into.

  3. I am beginning to use buttplugs to stretch my hole. However, I was wondering if keeping them in, especially walking around, tends to stimulate my intestines/colon. I seem to have had to use the toilet a little more than before. Is this a side effect that I just have to deal with? It happened, even though I planned and used anti-diharrea medicine before starting. Usually, taking that keeps me from going for three or four days.

  4. IMO, if a bottom doesn't get hard when a top/versatile is fucking him, it's either a) the bottom has blood pressure problems or B) the bottom really doesn't enjoy the top

    Speaking for myself, a bottom, I have erectile issues due to meds that I take. That being said, erection status is not necessarily a barometer for whether a guy is turned on or not. Unlike porn, dicks go hard and soft numerous times during sexual encounters.

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