Bearbitch

When you go cruising for mansex, you will very seldom get turned down for sex by saying "nah, dude I'm a top". And if you do, make friends with that person and then go doublefuck some horny bitch bottom. Bam, everyone's day is made.

I'm not a 100% bottom, but I still want to put in my two cents as a versatile. I don't like playing the waiting game while at the sauna, so if I am feeling good and close to orgasm with my ankles at my ears, it doesn't matter if it's fuck #1 or #10, I'll blow it. Tops usually get verbal with me when they reach around me or see my hard thick dick waving in the breeze. Love cumming with a guy fucking me. And when I top, I also like to see a guy who is hard with my dick inside him. Also love a guy who wants to cum while I'm inside him. If I don't get to blow, there's always another hole to fill, and if I do blow, it only takes a half hour of rest to want another round!

This poll really shows how unbalanced the world of tops/bottoms is. Y'all bottoms gotta start giving dick out also. I did, at least. Gotta scratch someone's back to get yours scratched sometimes.

I agree, when I top, I say all the things I want a top to say to me when I'm heels up begging for raw dick. I don't like talk the whole time, though. It gets exhausting to fuck and talk.

I don't always beg, but phrases for me include 'breed my butt', 'knock me up', 'pump my ass full of cum', 'give it to me harder, man', etc.

I knew I liked things up my butt before I knew I was gay (or what "gay" was), and before I found porn...so from the start, like 9 or 10. Started with an "itch" I needed more than a finger to "scratch", so I used a toilet plunger handle. I quickly moved up to moderate, then large toys, many years before I ever got fucked. After I became sexually active, I realized there are too many people who just bottom, so I decided to be vers. I still am not a huge fan of being a top, but there aren't enough dicks for all the greedy manholes out there, and I can definitely get hard and get off, so why not give some cum?

I like to clean out before, especially if I'm taking a load in my butt.

(1) Connected with a discrete, shy guy on CL last night who fucked me raw and then blew his load all over my face

(2+3)Went to the bathhouse here in cleveland. It was a busy night! Lots of guys, sucked off a guy in his hotel room on the 2nd floor (he came without making a sound), and I didn't realize he came in my mouth until I was about to speak and cum came pouring down my chin. I pushed it all back in, looked him straight in the eyes, and swallowed his jizz.

Then, in the porn "theater" area, walked past a big burly bear guy 3 times in 10 minutes who was just stroking. I asked if I could blow him, which I did in public for a bit, and then he asked me back to his cabana. I sucked him another good 10 minutes, and then he turned me around, fucked me for about 5 minutes, blew his load inside me, and then I ditched.

God it feels good to make another man cum!

Got a big fetish here for trucker piss and seed. Hit me up if you head this way.

Kind of an esoteric idea, but I'm stoned and getting philosophical...

For example, I like bareback sex (for many reasons, but I digress) because its risky. I also tan naked and without protection because its another way to spark the risk I love taking by not using protection.

Or, I like it bareback because its the closest, most invasive form of intimacy. I also like the close, invasiveness of a gym locker/shower/steam room, seeing lots of other guys with all their vulnerable parts exposed.

Or maybe, I like raw dick inside me because it makes me feel dirty. I also use the same gym clothes for weeks because doing so makes me feel dirty.

Do you think of anything like that?

I try not to Idealize my perfect top because (1) I probably will never get him and (2) I don't want to always be comparing the guys who are willing to shoot in my ass bareback to some fantasy man. So I just go find guys who are imo sexy and will bareback. Its usually bears, which is my favorite breed of man.

I love the pain too piercednips, but you gotta admit that a dick drilling an ass can be painful in a very sexy and possibly demeaning way.

If you really get turned on by it that much, its probably destiny for you to bareback. For me, it was very parallel to the emotional roller coaster of coming out. For years I knew it was secretly what I wanted, but it took some deep thought about what I really want out of life, and whether the potential of becoming a poz bareback bottom scared me. It has risks, man, and there's no secret placebo or safe, non-risky way of going about it.

My advice, if you are clean (I assume you are), ask a married guy (on craigslist or w/e) or a fuck friend to unload in your ass (they will usually take your word, in my experience, about being clean). Decide if it was pleasant or just a pleasant idea -- some guys won't like it or it won't be a turn on. If thats you, you can stop.

These are just some of my thoughts. Regardless, my advice to you is that this decision is a serious one - really there's no going back. So experiment in a safe-as-possible environment, and decide. I wasted years being on the fence, thats my only regret.

I love ATM. And having a load felched out of me and spit in my mouth. And cleaning off dirty dick after fucking. Its all got a deep level of erotic humiliation to it that I can't get enough of. I also love a top who isn't afraid to dive in and suck, nibble and spit-polish my asshole for his dick.

Sometimes I can feel it, if the load is huge. For me, actually feeling it is not the best part. The best part is the pain from a top pounding the jizz in with no regard to the stretch his hard dick gave you.

Up my ass. Every time. I hear people that say bottoms prefer to play with loads/eat them. Although I enjoy savoring a sweet load, I prefer to know that I was invaded by a man, violated by a horny top who I will beg to fuck it deep into my guts.