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6 hours ago, FallenLad said:

The only 'problem' I've had is that my hole opens up really easily now, so even if just being fucked I can get sloppy pretty quickly.

But honestly I'd much prefer that than being too tight or uncomfortable. I've never had any other issues. Never been incontinent or any similar issues.

I don't think getting sloppy pretty quickly is a 'problem'.  Sounds like a major advantage, especially for us men who like to fuck sloppy holes.

To me the variety is also in the texture and the thickness of the cum.  Much like all cocks are different then every man and boys cum is subtly different too.

As an older man here love the fact that so many of the younger guys are attracted to us older men.  When I was young I was attracted to older men.  Now I am older, I find younger men the most attractive.

Yes and he always seemed like he was enjoying himself too.  Mmm such a greedy slut.

Yes for me it was an age thing.   When I was young I liked older dominant men.  Loved to get fucked.   As I reached mid 30s I was more versatile, depended on the guy I hooked up with.   As I am now 50+ I mainly fuck younger guys.  So to answer the question,  I was born to move from Bottom to Top as I aged.

Yeah agree with the last two comments.  Any man who puts his dick up a shitter can't be surprised if it comes out a little brown.

All great advice here.   I think the best method to get enjoyment is to relax about it.   Clean out as fully as possible, but if occasionally a bit of shit comes out then so be it.    Most Tops probably prefer clean/or cummy holes but they can't be surprised if once in awhile they get a bit of shit on their dick.   Shit happens!

The best way I find to get the most pleasure at the sauna when I am topping is:

1.  Quite soon after I arrive find a hot young guy and fuck him.  This will be a quick, vigorous fuck.   Lucky if I last 10 minutes but it will be a great buzz.

2.  The cruise, chill, rest for a while and then start cruising again.    Aim here is a long slow screw, might involve trying my dick in several holes.    But as I am older know takes longer to build to orgasm but again great pleasure results.

Yes, I have often been propositioned in public places such as shopping streets, trains, buses.  Now as I am older I quite often proposition younger guys in public.  I start slowly, smile, flirt, follow and see what happens.  I don't wanna come across as an old [banned word] lol, but I have good Gaydar and can tell which guys will be interested and if I get knocked back then thats cool too.   It seems that this kind of cruising is a lot more fun than the fucking internet!!

Late 50s here and in my experience since Covid younger guys have been much keener to have sex with older men.  Hope the trend continues into my 60s.

All the best

My preference depends on the age of the ass.   Smooth on young guys but definitely hairy on older men.

Yes shit happens.   Any men who regularly top anon guys will have had experience with shit.  If it bothered the tops then they should have turned to alternative fun.  I assume your mouth was still available?   Or a good spanking for being such a dirty boy would have been a perfect solution.

Always like older men and as I get older I am very pleased that there are a lot of younger guys who appreciate the experience and look of older men

Yeah.  It is great that grandpa porn seems to be enjoying a boost.  This is especially true as I am getting older and younger guys seem to be getting more accepting of older men.  A lot more younger guys seem to be willing to at least try sex with a guy over 50.  This trend makes me very happy

Late 50s here.  Very heartening to hear that most of the older guys commenting here are still having great sex and that there are a lot of guys of all ages attracted to older, experienced men, bottoms and Tops.

All the best for a prosperous and sex-filled old age to everyone.

Yes your messages bring it all back.  Used to cottage from quite a young age and always enjoyed the thrill of it.  The excitement of not knowing who would come in next, how rough they would be.  Gave a lot of older married guys a lot of pleasure in a lot of cottages.   Bring them back!

Yes.  I agree with the comments.  Amateur porn is the best, most realistic and contains men who you know if you met in real life would be happy for you to join in.

Yep.   A first fast and furious fuck,  can often lead, a short while later, to a slow sensual screw.   SO my advice would be after the first fuck encourage the guy to stay, massage him, tell him how great he was, get him a drink and quite soon you will be receiving a second load,

I need to cum at least twice a day,  Even at 50+ I get anxious if I don't come morning and evening - alone or with friends.

Sure yes I kiss.  Love to kiss but if the other guy isn't into it then I won't force it.     Tend to find that married/supposedly straight men are more reluctant to kiss.

Mine was unplanned.  A long time ago.  I was 19 inter-railing in Europe.  My friends had gone on to Rome, I was going back to London having run out of money.  Waiting for a night train at Turin station, I met an older Italian man in the station toilets.  He took me back to his flat.  He got me a bit drunk on wine I sucked him off he came in my mouth, me over his face.  I had missed the train so slept in his bed, woke in the night and he was fingering my hole.  I wanted him and he thrust his dick into me,  I was so tight he came quick, shot in me.  My asshole ached but it felt good.  The thing I still remember about him was that he smelt slightly musty and of red wine.

He kind of apologised but said my arsehole was just so tempting unable to resist, he offered me cash but I refused though he did get me breakfast and took me back to the station for the day train to Paris.

Lots of fetishes here.    But the one which is always guaranteed to get me hard is a man smoking a big cigar.  He doesn't have to be attractive and I don't care young or old but instantly I would do anything he wants.

My 2 favourites were a couple.  One of the first times I visited the Coleherne - a famous (infamous) leather pub in London - over 25 years ago.    An older guy bought me a few beers and took me back to his place.  He had leather jeans on so I was hoping it would be rough, but I was not v experienced.  First thing he said when we got back was it OK if his housemate joined in.  I was a bit drunk and couldn't say no.

They both had big fat dicks and one was pierced,  both fucked me.  Luckily, for me they could tell I wasn't v experienced and weren't too rough, but both knew how to fuck and knew how to fuck deep.   I met them again several times after that and they introduced me to my first real partner.

I have been with quite a few East European who hardly speak any English but know how to fuck.  That's all that matters.

I agree that it must be progress that sexuality is less of an issue and generally society is more tolerant,  However, some of the mystery, the magic of sexual encounters seems to have gone.  Nothing hotter than cruising a clone on the tube and following him or being followed back to his place.   Then fuck and fuck off.   Perhaps it is the internet that has killed the public clone.  Supposedly everyone can find what they want on the web although the actual meets don't turn out to live up to the hype,.