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I tried to see such map from 3 different web browsers, nothing worked, until I checked from an old laptop I have and I finally could. Even though it doesn't reveal identity and lacks accuracy, I don't live in a place with hundreds of guys connected at the same time, so it's not impossible for someone who knows me to spot me, based on approximate location and the way I express myself.

Privacy in a site like this is the most important thing to me, and I guess I'm not alone on this, as not everyone is an open barebacker. The nature/purpose of this site is to express ideas, not to meet/hook up with guys, I think I haven't seen an open forum about anything in which members actually meet, they only share ideas, comment on things, on the site, and if they meet it's their decision, as breednseed said, I don't want a crazy nasty man bothering me. So, having a map revealing approximate location of users, and as so many are asking for it, possibly will include names on the pins in the near future. I know majority always win, they decide for everyone, but this is something that needs to be corrected, as more people know of this feature, more will leave this site. There are other options to make everyone happy, closeted barebackers and open ones, those who want to meet, and those who don't, etc.

Because of this, as I read that I can't cancel my account, that I'd have to wait for it to become inactive, I decided to stop logging in, I won't post anymore. I will check the site from time to time and read what others are talking about, but I won't participate anymore. This way I'll be more anonymous. If I see this feature gone, or an option to not send our location, I'd be glad to come back.

Thank you all, I really enjoyed this site; interesting topics I talk with no one, made me realize I'm not alone on this fetish as I used to think. Also liked how respectful everyone is, compared to other forums and sites, I found this to be the most relaxed and friendly.

Good Bye.

I'm not into that, but I got a nice idea. Go to public bathrooms and collect stools from unflushed toilets, then get something similar to a cake frosting dispenser and put it in your ass and squeeze it very hard.

Nothing mutilated for me. Looks really bad

I prefer another sort of mechanism for contacting other members.

Thanks rawTOP.

You are right, I haven't seen many blogs like that with links and pics in Spanish, maybe a few ones in Spain and maybe one or two in Mexico, so it's nice to have some in the USA, the fourth country with the most Spanish speakers.

Personally, I prefer reading porn in English, as it's a more universal language, but regardless of what I prefer, it is excellently written, good grammar, whoever wrote it did a great job.

Very though decision. I have thought about using them as to make my ass more suited to take dick, as I get a terrible pain when I get fucked, no matter if the dick is small. On the other hand, I don't want to make it way too loose, I prefer to keep it tight.

Best advice is to not assume anything. Not everyone likes jockstraps, nor other slutty clothes. I'd say stay keep a good balance or try different things from time to time.

Statutory (legal terms) vs true (involuntary) rape makes sense.

I feel true rapists need therapy, specially those into under-aged. No one has the right to do such things to youngsters who don't really know what they are doing, nor have an idea of the possible consequences.

I am a pig, the things I do are seen by most people like I deserve hell, but, I am an adult, and I do things with other consenting adults. My acts affect no one. I only enjoy and make other enjoy as well.

So regarding this, I'm an extremist, anyone who rapes a child deserves 30 years in prison plus chemical castration. BTW, in courts you can't go with the "he is 13 yo but he acts like an adult" bs excuse.

I can't see that blog, says "Not Found", is there another link?

Very nice blog entry MascMountainMan, informative and well redacted.

I don't like the harshly stereotyped truck driver (fat, hairy, stinky, old..), but I have, in recent years, noticed some slender, young, shaven, masculine, hot as hell ones driving trucks. I wonder if it has always been common or if I didn't notice them before, or if it is some sort of change in that economic activity, fewer jobs, and more diversity of people willing to try different things.

A couple of weeks ago I almost had an accident, I passed by a trucker who seemed to had a problem with a tire, as he got off the truck to check it I was driving by, I was so impressed at him that I instinctively stared at him forgetting to pay attention to the traffic. I had to brake so bad I almost hit a car from behind.

So that's on my wish list, to do a trucker.

Very interesting POVs, but I need to say the following.

If I am going to fuck someone whom for any reason I know I wont see him again, why would I start a conversation, get to know each other, his name, know what he likes to do, etc. That's irrelevant and annoying. That's one of the things I hate the most when cruising, those guys who wanna know every single detail of your life. Luckily, based on my experience, those are the very least.

But it also has to do with personality, some guys are very nice to talk to, but others are stressful, as they are way too stressed and talk to relief their stress. All I want to do at cruising sites is to have sex, not to be a psychologist, calming him down.

There's a time and place for everything, at bars it's ok chatting, at cruising sites not so much. Key is; keep it simple, don't ask personal questions such as where he works, lives, his ss number, etc.

Reading many of these posts, it is amazing how many guys here are full of shit.

In being serious, I myself was raped when I was 13. My mom enrolled me into our local YMCA to have something to do after school. The men's locker room was divided into one for those 18+ and those under. At that age, I knew I liked boys but wasn't aware yet that I was gay. Anywho, I always tried to sneak into the 18+ locker room as I was intrigued by seeing men naked.

For several months that's what I did. One particular day an older arabic gentleman noticed I was staring at him and other men. I went into the steam room to chill out and he soon followed me. One thing led to another we were touching each other's dick, which was ok and I kind of liked it.

It went too far when he tried to penetrate me. At that age, I did not know a thing about sex and didn't even know how gay men had sex. As he was trying to get his cock in me, he was holding my arms still and I was just telling him "NO NO STOP STOP" and he was ignoring me. He got his dick in and I remember screaming in pain. That was when he let go and I just ran out of that steam room and quickly put my clothes on and ran out of that locker room. I ran home crying my eyes out. My parents weren't home yet and I just sat in my room in complete silence b/c I was in disbelief as to what happened. I was completely speechless. Last thing I remembered was that I went into the bathroom and took a hot shower and vigorously scrubbing myself.

That experience really had an effect on me and I was depressed for weeks. I remember my parents asking me what's wrong and I kept saying "nothing" but I was just in shock and disbelief of what happened. I felt dirty and just violated. I never went back to that YMCA again even as my mom yelled at me for making her spend the $$$ to buy me a membership.

So as guys write made up story about being raped and liking it: BULL SHIT. The violation the experience leaves you with forever changes you, especially when you are a young kid who doesn't know anything.

Well said. I wasn't raped when I was a kid, nor I want to as an adult, but I'm convinced it's one of the most disturbing things that could happen to any child.

I think it's nice to make fun of things, write fake stories and say the nastiest things on earth makes us horny, etc. It's nice to relieve everyday stress. But I also feel that we must be serious with certain topics like this one.

Many times I just ignore stupid comments and give my POV, or I just decide to not post in many threads because of the same issue, as I don't want to get banned. But believe me, if I posted what was in my mind after reading so many absurd responses to this thread, I'd created a lot of controversy among those who live in a fantasy world where the traumatic is exciting and correct and desirable.

We are born gay. No one becomes gay for being raped, maybe raped ones discover something deep inside themselves that makes them realize they are gay.

Mine are in between, and love it like that.

I basically like the same things, haven't changed much over time.

I can barely take a tiny cock up my ass, this is in no way in my plans.

I started fucking bb relatively young, probably around 20, and almost exclusively bb since I was 24 up to today.

I don't live my life willing to have done things different, but I do wonder what would had been to have sex being a kid (with other kids of course), as I started having sex when I was 18. I had plenty of opportunities, BUT, with women, so I passed, preferred to not have any sex at all if it was not with men. I had a car since I was 16, so I had more freedom, but I was extremely shy, scared of sex, even safe one. At 18 I couldn't wait no more, used to drive long distances to other cities 'till I finally gained more confidence then started to have sex.

A few months ago I chatted with a man at a cruising site. He told me that he is Catholic, and that although he barely goes to church, he does believe in God.

I said to him that I don't believe in any religion on earth, that it's hard for me to believe so much nonsense, so many contradictions, so much fantasy, so many ironies, so much cruelty, so much misery, segregation, etc.

I said that I am not an atheist. I am more of an agnostic. It's probable that some sort of supreme power/energy created all of this, including ourselves, but no human knows the truth, no one can say God is this, he likes this and doesn't like this. "The Bible" is a fable book, I don't see much difference between it and a book about Greek God's tales. I feel religions were created as a means of controlling people, to make people afraid and submissive, and uneducated. Those were more easy to be brainwashed, use them as slaves, send them to wars, exploit them in all sort of ways.

Then he told me a couple of things, and the most striking one was that sometimes when he prays before going to bed he asks God to forgive him for being gay. I asked him if he is convinced he is gay or if he is confused. He told me he is gay, was born gay and has always been aware of it. Then I asked him why he needs to ask God to forgive him, why would God be angry if he created him like that. He said that he does so to show humbleness, just in case, because his religion says God doesn't like homosexuality.

I respect all religions even though I don't believe in any. I believe in some sort of supreme power, but not in religions created/invented by mankind. I wonder if it is common to be religious and traumatized for being gay. Religious homophobes don't know what this is about, they believe being gay is an option we choose, not something we are born with, so their anti-gay speech is kinda understood. But why a gay who is sure was born gay feels he is making God angry? I wish I could understand.

Why looking for bb sex at such sites/apps with such a diverse crowd? You'll get lots of nasty responses, and will have to lead with puritans and annoying people who are not into it then feel like giving speeches.

In such sites I feel it's exciting to just don't know what will happen. As most of the times no one directly asks nor talks about how they like to fuck, bb or safe, once you start playing you will find out. My favorite way of finding out is laying on bed, having the bottom suck my dick then he sitting on it without a condom, feels like heaven. If he grabs a condom, I'd fuck him too, I can fuck bare and safe.

I prefer men clean, but a slight smell is ok from time to time, general body one, not specific to any part of the body.

Some men smell good while others don't, so this varies a lot.

Most sexual experiences I've had have been with strangers, so no emotions involved.

I enjoy both, with and without emotions involved, as they are different feelings.

I have fucked over 100 guys and none of them have peed while getting fucked, so I think it's not common.

Thinking about it, I'd get even more excited if that ever happened to me, sound really hot!

Based on how others rate me, I'd say I'm 9.

I consider myself an 8 with the possibility of being a 9 if I put more effort in improving my looks, like a fashionable haircut, get a toned body, etc. I am kinda natural, don't do much to improve my looks.

I usually do guys who are from 5-10.

You guys who don't shower for a long time should be more considerate of others. It's a lifestyle most people dislike.

I like to feel clean. When I have things to do, interact with other humans, I bath before heading out and in the night before going to bed. As I live in a hot place, specially in summer, I sweat a lot, sometimes I bath 3 times per day, in the morning, in the afternoon when I get back home and in the night before going to bed. If I have nothing to do, won't interact with others, I only bath in the night before going to bed. So, on average, I bath 2 times per day. I have lived in cold areas in winter, when/where there's technically no need to bath so often, yet I still do it, I like to keep good habits whether or not they're justified in X time/place.

As for deodorant/cologne, if I stay in home I use non of them, but every time I go out I use deodorant (mild fragrance one), if it's some quick errand I'll do. If I'll stay long hours doing things/working I use both, but only a little bit of cologne, a mild fragrance one as well. I know many who use lots of extremely heavy and cheap cologne and it makes me sick, it's even worse than plain body odors.

So far, one of the most compliments I've received is because of that, from gays and str8s alike, that they love how I smell.

The results of this poll really impresses me, I thought the most voted option would be the first one (Less than 5 minutes) by far, based on so many things guys on here write. It seems everyone is up to get cum in their asses no matter if it takes 1 minute, sex for them is about that, getting cum in their asses, not enjoying sex.

I am extremely sexual. Therefore, I like sex to last for very long, until I am so tired that I no longer crave for anymore.

When I top, I can last much longer than when bottoming. The longest I have fucked, not because I couldn't anymore, but because it was the bottom with the most resistance, was for about 2 hours. I am sure I could keep fucking for 4 hours non-stop. One of the key things is that I don't cum fast, and once I do, I feel extremely tired, and need a descent amount of time to gain more energy if I already fucked for a long time.

When I bottom the most I last without cumming is from 5-10 minutes. Once I cum I can't take dick anymore, as I get a horrible burning sensation and pain. The longest I got fucked without cumming was for about 35 minutes. Luckily, most guys I have gotten fucked by cum before I do, so they leave satisfied. Once I see them cumming I instantly cum too. When I top, if the bottom cums before I do, I don't cum though.