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I haven't spent Christmas there--but I have been to one on Thanksgiving. Had a blast! I wouldn't mind spending Christmas at the baths though.

...and THIS is why I never fuck with negative dudes. Or guys that claim to be chasers.

Douche before you head to work (or the night before). A banana for breakfast or something light and you should be good for the day.

This is like asking do White guys make the best bottoms.

I've always been into men older than myself. Even in my 20, it would have never occurred to me to call a fuckbuddy Daddy. To me, it's all about the attitude of the guy. However, I have a young boy that I used to fuck and the one time that he moaned out "Daddy" while I was plowing him, I was actually turned on! That was the only time I was cool with it.

I have plenty of Latin men that, of course, call me "Papi", but that's such a pedestrian term that it has no effect on me.

Always freeball...less is more.

Same here!

Men that are Negative are always welcomed at the baths. However, once you enter those doors and pay your fee, YOU assume the risks of what comes with going to a bathhouse; whether it be catching an STD or even athlete's foot! It's all about accountability & responsibility.

At one point or another, we all entered our neighborhood bathhouse as HIV- men. While these days, most men are fucking raw once there (I know I am), you still can ask the men that you play with to wear a rubber. If they opt not to, then move on to someone else.

Ditch him!

The times that I do bottom (very rarely), I want the top to fuck me until I cum, preferably without touching myself. If he wants to keeps going after that, then I'm definitely down to keep going.

When I fuck my bottoms, I like when they let me keep fucking them as well.

My age cut off is 47. But it really comes down to health & fitness. If you're in great shape and take care of yourself, then the actual age number is irrevelant.

I have sucked cock in public bathrooms (Barnes and Noble, Wendy's, McDonalds, movie theaters...). I don't see why you couldn't fuck in one. Just be smart about where you do it, and be quiet during.

You could (with planning and a little luck) find a guy willing to host the two of you in exchange for getting to watch. I've done that before when I wanted to suck a guy or get fucked and neither of us could host.

@ Whiteslutbttm, I wish I could find someone as adventureous as you sound! I've come across a few places in my area that would be ideal for a quick & quiet public fuck session, but I've yet to find a guy ballsy-enough to join me. They either flake or chicken out altogether.

UGH! I don't even like being in the same room with it--and I'm a TOP!

Similar experiences here bbzh - i have several friends - a couple very close - that started as fuckbuds/on-line hookups. In each case, once it became clear that we clicked in significant ways other than just sex, the sex just kind of stopped by mutual unspoken agreement and we pursued the friendship side of things.

I have quite a few buddies that started out as fuckbuddies; we met as online hookups and learned that we kinda meshed or had some things in common outside of sex. And pghpigbtm is right, the sex stopped by mutual agreement and the friendship flourished.

After seeing my very first bareback flick (TIM Fucking Crazy) years ago, I haven't went back.

You guys expect too much. There is no deal. If you are lucky enough to get a man to fuck you, then you should be greatful. He you please him enough that he cums, then you can feel some satisfaction. If not, then get grateful he paid attention to you all. No man owes you his load. You are the lucky receptacle for every load you get. Those you don't get, well, they weren't yours to begin with. Arrogant bitches.

I'd planned to type something witty, but I really think TigerMilner said it BEST! I'm still over here laughing!

While I agree with most of what GermanFucker wrote (and quitely eloquently, btw), I think the one thing that he did leave out was ACCOUNTABILITY. Barebacking, to me has never been about seroconverting or passing the HIV virus on to others, but rather how good raw sex (at its deepest element) feels. I enjoy the sensation and like all of us on here, I enjoy being with men that enjoy that sensation as well. Everything other than that, is gravy.

i prefer lean muscle. I like to be able to bend them into a missionary postion without them getting all breathless from their belly pushing on their diaphram LOL

Fucking HILARIOUS--but true.

I go for FIT, ATHLETIC & MUSCULAR--just like myself. Overweight, out of shape and too skinny does nothing for me.

I have family members, friends, old military buddies, co workers & college professors on my Facebook page--I wouldn't think of linking my sexual activities to my page.

No. I'm 95% top and on those rare occasions when I do want to get fucked, I don't mind putting in the work to get prepared (I expect the bottoms that I fuck to do it, so why shouldn't I). It's the dickhunt that gets frustrating. It's very frustrating to spend an hour (or two) cleaning out & getting ready then having to spend another 2 hours hunting for a top guy to fuck me.

Whereas, I can find a bottom boy to fuck in minutes! And all I have to do then is shower.

He's one of my Bareback porn heroes

It's all about eye contact, hand gestures and head nods. Keep the conversation to a STRICT minimum.

If I'm hooking up with a guy online, I don't worry because its posted in my profile. But if I meet a guy at the bathhouse or while out cruising, I don't tell him. Just like all the other men here, if I'm raw fucking a guy--he assumes all risks.

LMAO!

Fucking HILARIOUS!

The only time that I'll pull out and cum is when I'm shooting a porn scene. And that's because I'm paid to do so.

Another (hung) top is my preference. With the top+bottom+bottom scenario, there always seem to be one that tries to out-bottom the other one.

Top+top+bottom is the hottest; so long as the bottom doesn't get tired too quickly.

With top+couple, it can get weird especially if they hadn't established their boundaries. I played with this couple once--we played for HOURS. Did everything imaginable. I fucked them equally and thought we got along great until, in the middle of hour 4, I kissed one guy while fucking (I'd just pulled out of his boyfriend minutes ago) and his boyfriend completely freaked out! So much so that they started to argue and one guy stormed out of the room! I never knew a kiss could undo all the fun that we'd been having.

I've been invited to play top+bottom+(top) where the other top suddenly decided that he also wanted to get fucked rather than help me bang the guy that we were both supposed to be fucking. The bottom boy had a confused look on his face the whole time.

I've fucked top+ couple where I was more attracted to one guy than the other. His boyfriend picked up on it and I was asked (mid-stroke) to leave. I knew I was busted so I couldn't argue.

I've played in the top+bottom+versatile scenario which is great initially, but the bottom guy isn't going to top and the versatile guy turned out to be nothing more than a bottom that wanted to see another guy get fucked.

Just as I'd given up on threesomes, my favorite local fuck buddy and I found this guy that we were both attracted to and he was attracted to both of us. On separate occasions, they'd fucked each other and my fuckbuddy and I had fucked each other so there was that familiarity among the three of us. My buddy and I are both pretty hung and the bottom boy was super hot. The three of us had an AWESOME time.