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I'm a cumwhore but I rarely get STDs these days. I have no way of knowing for sure but I think it's because I have a circle of about 20 regulars who I trust and I generally avoid big sex parties with lots of unknown partners. I do 1 on 1 sessions and smaller, private groups. The last time I had an STD was February. And I get tested once a month, which may seem overkill/paranoid but I like having the confidence of knowing I haven't picked anything up recently.

I have HPV. My doctor tested me to see the strains that I have. Then he vaccinated me against the strains I don't have. And yes I paid the $900 USD for 3 shots over 6 months. But it was worth it to me to be able to protect myself. There are about 100 strains of HPV and 13 of them cause cancer.

I've started lubing my hole with Vaseline when I douche and I haven't had a hemorrhoid in a while. (knock on wood) I always douche deep to be extra clean and it takes quite a long time, like 45 mins to 1 hour, so I think shoving the hose up my ass with no lube over and over was causing some friction and creating hemorrhoids.

Just a tip that I *think* helped me. Worth a try for other guys who clean out for a long time.

I've never taken them into Canada specifically but I'm also an American with TSA pre-check and have traveled out of America, into Europe, throughout Europe, and back into America with poppers in my carry-on bag. Of course have also traveled domestically with them. Never any problem whatsoever. I keep them in my toiletry kit. Good luck!

Is it just me or do Doublelist ads seem really really tame compared to what CL used to be? In NYC area it seems mostly guys looking for j/o or blowjobs. Is this because ads for fucking or more intense sex are deleted on Doublelist? I haven't tried it yet myself.

Damn @phukhole Blatino Oasis sounds like my kind of paradise! Thanks for the tip!

Hey guys, planning an LA trip and want to make time for a day or two spent cumdumping at the Dunes Inn on Sunset.

What do you guys think is the best day of the week to do this? Weekend or weekday? Doesn't matter?

Anything I should keep in mind regarding security? 

Can guys parTy in the rooms?

Thanks for any tips and help. Appreciate it

I'm planning the same and as a bottom who loves BBC some of my top cities are: DC, Atlanta, Detroit, and Los Angeles. I already have areas of each city scoped out and hotel recommendations from cumdumps on here. Now just need to book my tickets!

Soooo fucking hot man holy shit. As a bottom who loves BBC, I was rock hard by the end of your story. Love when Craigslist delivers.

I live for BBC and this place sounds like fuckin heaven. I should make a trip one day.

Took a huge load of chem piss up my cunt Thursday night from a huge BBC. As soon as he started unloading I felt that intense warmth, then a minute later a tingling sensation all over my asshole, butt cheeks, and lower back. Held it in for 10 minutes and felt super spun and piggy after  

I went through a long spate of banding hemorrhoids from February through July this past year. No sex during that entire time because I was constantly recovering from bandings, from one to the next. It was hell and as a total bottom I felt completely shut down in terms of sex. I personally would not test my luck during the bandings. I would give it the full amount of time to heal and not have sex until the doctor officially signs off on your hole being completely healed. I know it's hard to abstain but in the long run your hole will heal up faster and with less complications. Good luck!

There's no real lingo or code but yea you do need to ask and sometimes convince tops to bb. Especially the DL ones. FYI of the 4 you mentioned Les Hommes has the least amount of traffic. The Chelsea spots are pretty much packed 24/7 but a lot of the hot guys there are hustlers. I assume you live in Manhattan but I prefer the Brooklyn and Queens ABS to be honest.

Never any issues. If you're extra paranoid you may want to pack the bulb and the nozzle separately so it's less conspicuous? But it's perfectly legal to carry rubber or plastic so there's nothing to worry about.

Get yourself one of these http://www.forttroff.com/product/31022_FT_BUM_BLASTER_SILICONE.html

Served me well on a recent trip during which my Ergoflo was too big to pack

I have one. Can't say it's changed my life or the length of time I need to clean before sex, but I believe it's doing me some good. Kind of awkward to use in the beginning (I have the taller one) but then you get used to it. Worth the money but manage your expectations  

1 hour ago, LKMike said:

i had them before i met someone who wanted me to take big toys and his fist. As i got into relaxing to be able to take what he wanted to put into me, including toys bigger than his fist, the hemorrhoids stopped and shrunk, and not had one for over 2 years now. 

Wow, so lucky!

Hm not really the advice I was hoping for but thanks lol. I definitely don't want to bottom less. I guess my question is: do some guys just work their way through hemorrhoids? Is there life on the OTHER side of hemorrhoids? Or are some guys just lucky and can get fisted all day without developing them?

Sorry for the unsexy subject matter guys. But didn't find a thread that talked about the reality of living with hemorrhoids.

For all you dudes who take huge cocks, get fisted, booty bump, etc.: is living with hemorrhoids just a fact of life?

Since last fall I've had a lot of issues with both internal and external piles. It's really taken a toll on my sex life. I'm avoiding traditional surgery in favor of rubber band ligation, sitz baths, garlic suppositories, potato suppositories, and so on. But just the other day had another mini hemm pop up after a mild day of sex, just as I thought I was clear of them. 

As a bottom who loves big dick, am I just doomed to dealing with hemorrhoids for the rest of my life? Do people go through phases of flare-ups and then go back to normal?

I've never been fisted, but I can't imagine being a FF bottom and not having to deal with these. Do you guys just wince through the hemorrhoid pain and learn to enjoy sex with hemorrhoids?

Curious what others' experiences are.

Go to the Jacks of Color sex party held at Paddles in Chelsea, if it happens to coincide with your dates in town.

Check out groupsexinthecity.com for other sex party listings. There are parties in Harlem and the Bronx specifically for black men and their admirers.

Or just get a hotel room in midtown and post on Craigslist that you're seeking BBC breedings.

Good luck

Have this same question! Except I'm in DC next week. Looking for a good hotel to host anon pump and dump sessions. Any advice appreciated  

On 2/15/2017 at 9:53 PM, Berdell said:

I was in Atlanta last fall. I drove up from Florida. I took a shower and laid nude on my bed with the curtain open and the door unlocked. I was allmost sleeping when I felt Fingers playing with my hole and then he pushed a finger in my hole. I reached to get my bottle of wet and he put some on my hole and his dick. Then He climbed on top and slide his BBC in my hole .He fucked me until he nutted in my hole. He left and in a little while more blk guys just walked in and they all fucked my loose and wet hole. Finally I closed the curtain and locked the door. Hoping my hole would close tight by morning. Looking forward to going back maybe the middle of March. Love all that BBC !

Berdell, was this at Cheshire Motor Inn?

The Fair Theater in Queens (near Laguardia) is prob your best bet

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I still get a large percentage of my raw top hookups from CL. I live in NYC. Maybe it's different per area but I find many more flakes on a4a/BBRT than CL. CL dudes are usually hot, horny, and ready to fuck. (Not a paid spokesperson for CL lol.)