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Yeah, being on the larger side has its advantages. I can go deep and hit the right spots on most bottoms.

Smaller guys can have some issues though. Going deep in a short guy is a mixed bag. He has to be totally clean, and able to take it without feeling like his guts are getting pummeled.

As a top, I've seen this happen.

A guy I've hooked up with a few times had one and it was pretty crazy. He got into this position on the edge of his sectional sofa and I was fucking him doggy and he stopped me once and said my cock was hitting a spot that was making his leg go numb. Then we started fucking again and he started moaning and begging me not to stop. A few moments later he came, without even touching his dick. We stopped again while he emptied his dick and went to clean up. He said that's never happened to him before and was kinda bewildered about it. I didn't get to nut because he was drained after that.

As a top, I've found many bottoms want to be dominated. I'm a rough-around-the-edges type of guy anyway, so I'm not the type to finesse a bottom. Usually guys like when you're kind of a dick about it.

Just got through working out. Anybody want a sniff?

Any others?

On 9/9/2017 at 1:22 PM, OtterTopLDN said:

If the bottom is offering his ass for use then he needs to be ready for a hard, deep, fucking. Its very frustrating when you want to fuck and being asked to go slow and gentle. If you're ass isn't ready, you best get yourself a butt plug or toy and train your hole first

 

I agree.

If you don't want it hard and deep, you might wanna rethink your life choices. I usually start off slow because I'm well-endowed and I've had the "easy...easy..." thing on more than one occasion. That said, I'm not trying to take it easy or chase you all over the bed because you can't handle it.

Yeah, I think it does a certain amount of masculinity to bottom. Not just in terms of being secure with yourself, but knowing your role. It's been my experience that women aren't entirely forthcoming or secure in being submissive during sex. OTOH, most bottoms I've met seem to eagerly play that role. They want you to dominate them, make them submit, slut them out. It's just about this primal need to be sexually satisfied and very often bottoms are secure enough to play that role. Even if that's not the most traditional version of masculinity, it's definitely a form of it.

Maybe just restrict it to you and 1-2 other guys. I had a party with my bud and two other guys and it was hot. He got multiple loads and enjoyed himself.

I think it depends on what turns you on. Meaning, I have two FBs who turn me on for different reasons. My main FB has a hairy ass and when I look down at him, it turns me on to see my dick going in a hairy fucking hole. It brings something out of me. Another guy I play with is kinda skinny with a smooth ass and hole. It turns me on to slick it up with spit and slip him my cock like I would pussy.

Fact of the matter is I enjoy every cock that splits my ass.   I like cock and can't seem to get enough.  So even a poorly executed fuck is better than no cock.

 

But, for the tops who know what they are doing, who put some effort into their work, I am sure they know I am liking it.   I become more verbal.  I really start using my ass muscles to clinch on to that man meat.  If he is fucking me hard, I rear back to slam that dick home even harder.   I think those responses tell a top he is doing me a lot of fucking good. 

 

IT ain't the words....it is how you respond to his cocksmanship.  

Ha. You seem like a good fuck. You have a fun, frank attitude about being a bottom. Kinda reminds me of TigerMilner.

I think white cock/black ass is more taboo than black cock/white ass. There's plenty of porn where wimpering twinks taking BBCs by thugs. I bet there are more white guys who have and will take a black cock than vice versa.

My main FB was telling me about one of his friends and it kind of intrigued me. He said this guy was the typical married guy. He had a wife, two kids, a house, etc. He seemed straight as an arrow. Then he and his wife started having some problems and they wound up divorcing last year. He's forty and up until that point, he had never done anything with another man. The most he'd done is watched some BB porn. After the divorce, he moved to a new city where he barely knew anybody, got an apartment, and started experimenting. First he bought some toys, then he went to a few gloryholes, then hook-ups on A4A and CL. Now he's a fucking pig...collecting loads at bathhouses and getting fisted.

Is this common? Where straight dudes who may have been in LTR with women decide during middle-age to start barebacking? It's one thing for someone to play around NSA while married, but apparently this dude turned into a bottom slut after his marriage ended.

This guy was an unofficial member of ISIS. His dad said he was enraged because he saw two men kiss, but that's bullshit. The FBI knew about him for years. I also read his father seemed to have some extremist leanings, too. I get the strange feeling his son was gay and didn't come to terms with it. I wouldn't be surprised if that comes out at some point.

It's just sick and disgusting what happened to these people. My condolences go out to everyone affected by this.

That third pic is my favorite pose. There's no way my dick is getting soft when a guy has his legs above his head showing off his hole like that. I like when the hole is clearly on display and looks ready for dick.

Not experienced, but I think it has something to do with finding someone whom you really want to let slut you out. I'm in the same boat as the OP for the most part, but I think I've found a guy who is going to make me go further than I've ever gone with a guy. Bisexual, tatted up, big dick, loves to fuck. I've been talking to him for a few weeks and we have a lot in common. He's told me how much he wants his mouth on my cock, and I want to suck the skin off his. He told me wants to try out my dick first and then see about him and his girl having a threesome. The thought of a guy and girl on my cock at the same time is my ultimate fantasy, but I think I'd rather fuck his brains out a few times before I mess around with some other guy's girlfriend. I bought a few toys (for beginners since I've only topped) and lately, after work and the gym, I've been playing before bed. He's been wanting to fuck for awhile, but I've been busy lately. I think this weekend it's going to happen, though.

My main fuck bud is older and pretty reliable. When I text him and tell him I want to fuck, when I come over he's ready and willing. Ass trimmed and cleaned out, lube ready, bed sheets pulled back, towel down. All I have to do is provide the cock.

On the other hand, the younger guys I've dealt with have been a little flaky. I work a lot, so I don't have a lot of time to sit around waiting if I'm hooking up. Plus, I'm former military and kind of an asshole, so I don't like to be kept waiting. But it seems like younger guys (closer to my age) have better bodies and generally fuck better, but they're flaky as hell.

This true for anyone else?

My bud loves when I wear a cock ring and power fuck him. He said it really stretches him out.

I don't have the time for daily breeding usually, but the more I get, the more I want -- sharing sperm is a more intimate and satisfying experience to me; plus the naturally occurring nutrients in cum are good for us, too.

If that's you in your avatar, I think if I had you, the more I get the more I'd want.

You too, Tiger.

I guess I'd consider myself average too. I'm white, big lips (my military buddies said I have dick sucking lips), bushy eyebrows, nose like I've been in a few fights (I have). But I work out and have a big dick. So it all balances out.

A nice ass will do it every time. If a guy has a big, round ass with a nice pink hole, I'll fuck him till my cock explodes and my legs shake.

What are some videos where the top or bottom has a really great ass? For me the bigger and rounder the better, but sometimes small and toned is hot, too.

Yeah, when I do it it's an affirmation that I enjoyed myself. Kinda like a pat on the back or a butt slap you'd give a teammate. Just an attaboy.

I've now been with four dudes. The first dude I fucked had a shaved bright pink hole. My main bud has a hairy pink hole. One guy whom I wrote about before (the one who can't take my cock) has a hairy, brown hole, and a guy I just fucked over the weekend has a hairless flesh colored hole. The last guy's hole was really appealing to me as it looked like a pussy, but all of them are appealing.

What's your favorite hole type?

Have him start out by sitting on it. Its easier on the bottom and allows him some sense of control. Once he is bouncing up and down on it, flip him over and fuck the hell out of him.  He will love it. And like Felching Pisser said, rim him first.

Thanks, Tiger. I'm sure if I ever hooked up with you I could just slut you out how I like.

Thanks for the input, guys.

My cock is about 8 1/2. Slightly better than average girth. We've tried several things. I'm not into rimming (I know it makes me kinda lame that I enjoy getting my ass eaten by my main bud but don't like doing it...) but I have tried taking it slow, different positions, lube, poppers. When he does poppers he can take it a little better, but after a minute or two he's saying "fuck you're so deep" and I'll think he's getting into it, so then I start to give it to him harder and that's when he starts clinching up.

AlwaysOpen, you really sized up my situation. He is still new to most of this. He knows I'm bi and he says he likes that I'm a "regular dude", which I think is code for he doesn't want someone stereotypically gay. My other regular bud is older and...yeah, no muss no fuss with him. The only time he complains is if I need a bit more lube. Other than that, I can bend him over, put him on his back, piledrive him, and let him ride it and all he does is beg for my load. Older guys are fucking awesome. I'm sure you are as well. 

Tops: how do you deal with bttms who can't handle your cock? I'm well-endowed and I've always been able to go deep with mixed results. My main bud can take my cock deep with no problems or complaints, but lately I've been with a new guy (closer to my age) and it's like I'm always chasing around the bed. He'll send me texts talking about how bad he wants my cock, he likes gagging on it, but the second I go in he's putting his hands up. It's annoying.