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Go to a sex party. They are excellent in NYC and there are tons of them with all types of guys.

My point is that if his partners really wanted to avoid the slightest risk of HIV they'd have insisted on keeping it safe....

Nice story. Your friend sounds hot as hell!

If you think Sexual Orientation exists, and that men and women have an "orientation" in term of their sexual choices, then yes, I may be joking. But I don't believe that there is such thing as Sexual Orientation that determines who we enjoy having sex with. Saying that straight men are really gay or that gay men are really straight are statements that don't make sense to me because I don't think that men are either gay, straight, or in-between (borrowed from John Money's title of one of his books)

If there were three genders, gender A, B, and C, then I may be willing to accept that gender A may have an "orientation" for gender B or C, or that gender B may be "oriented" towards A or C, etc.

But it makes no sense to talk about "Sexual Orientation" when there are only two genders because male bodies have a special emotional significance to men that female bodies don't. That is why I believe him when a man tells me that a body of a woman does nothing for him but I won't believe when a man tells me that he's not interested in men's bodies.

I know my views are different to most people when it comes to Sexual Orientation but I'm not willing to accept concepts that are flawed.

Going back to the original topic, having sex with men is hotter because male bodies have more emotional significance to men than women's bodies. Men with other men can compare cocks sizes and shapes, can compare cum-shots, can symbolically suck their cock by sucking another man's cock. There much more this.

If I were responsible for a healthy society I would make sure that first men have sex with men and play all kinds of sex games amongst men. After resolving all sex-related issues with men, only then men would be ready for sex with women, if they want. Now men do the opposite. They are socially forced to have sex with women which but then later in life they realize that they've missed something and "come out."

If the need that men have for other men was not as strong as it is there wouldn't be any need to legislate against it, such as they have recently done in Russia.

GREAT post, hungry_hole! I never thought about it that way before. Men in society ARE forced onto women first, whether they like it or not. And then they end up with big problems later on when some discover that they prefer men AFTER they are already married to a woman and have children, thus forcing them into the impossible choice of choosing between their children and their happiness. I don't envy their choice, which is why I do not judge married men.

Thank you for the super mature response! I appreciate it. As for stuff like Viagra, I have no problem with it in regard to other people. I was not pointing fingers at guys using Viagra. I was only speaking for myself and what it means if I were to take it. This post is just a question about guys planning to hook up that are in no physical shape to do so because they are tweaking. I guess this is why rawTOP considers many of these guys to be "just holes".

I mostly fuck bottoms. But every time that I have hooked up with a guy who does PnP (even if they say they are versatile or tops), they end up with limp party dick. And that is with a cock ring! And I have noticed tops are the most likely to have profiles that say "No Way!" in regard to PnP. If I am hooking up with a guy and he brings out the party favors, I'm like "Well, I guess I ain't getting fucked tonight! Okay, dude. Just shut up and bend over." I don't do PnP ever and I don't use a cock ring or take any enhancements like Viagra or those herbal equivalents. I just don't want to have to force myself to get into it. If I am not naturally hard enough to fuck you, I am not that interested (my fault for being more horny than selective) and we should just call it a day. Otherwise, we are gonna end up with 2 bottoms rubbing their asses against each other