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so you see! 🙂 begin with what is very easy to achieve (clubs and spas) and move forward from there!

Because the production company could be sued otherwise. In an officially organized event that may be the case, but not in everyday action at the clubs. If you start frequenting them you will also find out that each club has it own "character": some will tamer some will be wilder. The discovery is part of the fun. After all you can get pozzed only once: you wouldn't want the thrill to end tomorrow already I suppose

i do like clubs. All the otehr options are very mch hit or miss. I can't tell how many times i attempted to organize gangbangs outside of the clubs and most times people would not show up. Car sex adn dogging is also lovely, but it's cold now there is always the risk of being caught by police. In the club you just have to spread your legs

some clubs also organize periodic AO gangbangs, once you get acquainted you may candidate yourself for one of those events

it depends. Some clubs have rules about fucking with condoms, but I have never ever seen anybody controlling that. When you are in the total darkness of a dark room, or inside the cabin of a gloryhole or in a privé or under 10 men, nobody can really check. And even if a man slides a condom on in the beginning, you can always slide it off one minute later: I have never seen a man stop fucking at that point

there you may easily find gloryholes too adn/or dark rooms

In the beginning most definitely a club or libertine sauna/spa: that way you are 200% sure you will get fucked

the few who go, usually go for the very sake of being gangbanged. It's a wilder experience than clubs, but also more prone to failure and/or troubles. In Berlin you have many clubs: Insomnia and KitKat are (were?) the most famous ones back at the time i used to come to Berlin for my work. But really there was quite literally one club in every district. Libertine/nude spas are also very similar to clubs, just more quiet and relaxed but not necessarily less wild. I'm sure there's plenty of that too in Berlin

OK then jumping straight from being sort of monogamous to whoring might be a bit too much... depends on how adventurous you are.

Maybe swinging could be a good intermediate thing for you. The are a lot fo very good clubs in germany. Do you live in a city or in a small town? Have you ever tried to look for a club or naked sauna in your area? Is there a red light district there (porn cinemas  could be a good hooking site too)?

how quickly? Just curious, never had syphillis...

Have you ever tried either prostitution or swingersclub?

I'm a bit unclear about how promiscuous you have actually been... I mean clearly your friend must be very promiscuous since he infected yo multiple times with different diseases... but are you? Do you usually have multiple casual partners? Or would that be something new for you?

how long did it take to clear the syphillis? It must not have been easy to pretend it was just a bladder infection... as to the whoring, why not? If you like being promiscuous and being fucked by potentially dangerous infected unknown cocks, it might be a good way to go. Of course, swingers club are good too for that, but you wouldn't get paid there

in any case, what STDs have you already had?

somewhere else you said that your partner supports you and your children financially and that this was one of your worries. I asssumed you meant that if you would catch a disease and he would find out he might leave you and then you would have no financial support. Hence my statement: if you would have  ajob of your own you would have more freedom in terms of not having to worry as much if he would leav you. But maybe I misunderstood? In that case my apologies

Whoring yourself out would in any case be an option since it's leagl in your country. Would definitely provide a lot of cock to fuck

A disease such as HIV can be hidden for a long time but not forever. Other less definitive and less romantic but more immediately annoying diseases, like gono or herper, can't be hidden at all. PreP is a good suggestion as to HIV and gaining time before making undoable decisions. PreP won't protect your relationship from herpes or gono though.

What is it exactly that your partner DOES NOT know? Is it just the AO part he doesn't know? Is he OK at least with the part of you fucking around (allegedly with protection)? If he at least knows that you fuck around, you can always claim for a condom accident, in case. If he thinks you are being loyal and faithful and fucking him only, then you have quite a bit of a problem.

Maybe you could consider whoring yourself out on the side. If the relationship crashes, you would at least have a job. Maybe any job would free your hands?

So, I reckon, he doesn't know that you fuck bareback on the side?

How did your interest in chasing start? What triggered your quest?

do you openlly state that you are chasing? or just ask to be fucked raw?

where / how do you usually fish for poz cum?

Glad to hear about your interest in slamming... not sure if youever read that last private message I sent you: it was related...

The site is censoring one word in your state update: I assume its the D...y word

DId you know their status? Did you use those instant tests you told me about?

did you know the donor?

looked for you on kik but couldn't find you with that nickname