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NYCBearpig

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  1. would you agree the move to bareback porn, back from the safe sex decade of the 90ies even early 2000, has brought barebacking back to largely accepted sex practice? especially yng twink porn like this (and many other) vids encouraging the young generation of gay men to go for the real raw experience?

    http://www.rawtop.com/player/?s=HelixStudios.com&sn=Helix+Studios&y=2012&v=45725-4632&t=Smooth+Skinny+Young+Twink+Takes+Raw+Dick+%40+Hel ix&u=%2F2014-03%2Fsmooth-skinny-young-twink-takes-raw-dick&r=0.5625

    I think both barebacking and barebacking porn have to do with the fact that people aren't dying anymore, and that there are options out there like PrEP or, being undetectable and on meds.

  2. (1) failure to disclose one's status or, (2) lying about one's serostatus; (3) agreeing to use condoms, but disregard this agreement; (4) agreeing to pull out, but disregard this agreement.

    I wouldn't consider your #1 stealthing. If the partner wants to know the status of the other and he lies then we're on to your #2. I wouldn't consider #2 stealthing because the bottom is making a conscious choice to believe what their partner is saying. And, for what it's worth, it's very possible that the HIV test done last week showed neg, but if tested today even without additional sexual contact he could be poz.

    I don't understand #3. If you mean that they start out using condoms but end up not, it would only be stealthing if the bottom wasn't aware that the top ditched the condom. I believe this is real, but perhaps not of the frequency we hear.

    I also believe #4 is real but I also believe that in most cases the bottom knows what's going on and in the heat of the moment doesn't object. If the bottom really wanted the top off him that can easily be done using pain if necessary, unless the bottom is restrained, and that's an entirely different topic.

    There's also the "compromised" condom, where the bottom believes the condom is functioning but the top damaged it intentionally. Again, I think this can be real but probably less frequent than ditching the condom midway through the fuck.

    Anyway...my 2c

  3. I had a Poz friend who was diagnosed with HPV caused rectal cancer. The doctor recommended operating, removing it, and doing a colostomy (poop re-routed to a bag in your pants).

    Errr, ummmm, ahhhh. I guess Santa would consider it a real change of pace from the usual cookies everyone leaves out. Milking him, instead of a glass of Moo beside the biscuits. XMas must be such a stressful time for that unaging guy. It's good that you helped him relax, before getting on with the rest of his rounds. Is the jolly old elf a power top? How's he hung? Cut or Uncut? Big cummer? Did he leave you other presents, or just coal in your stocking, and a load in your ass? Am I going to get on the "Naughty" list for even thinking these questions?

    :grin:

    A colostomy bag? That's a very difficult thing to deal with and I'm not surprised if anyone, even those who think logically, would be enticed by some alternative medicine that would eliminate the possibility of having a bag.

    As for Santa, we never had a fireplace so he never showed up. I'm beginning to doubt his existence.

  4. Just wondering if any of you guys ever came across this HIV hoax/conspiracy crap and if so, what do you think about it? I highly doubt anyone on this site puts any stock into it, but I am curious to know your reactions. Thanks.

    This conspiracy theory is as old as when AIDS first appeared on the scene, but it changes form as time goes on. The basic premise, that HIV isn't a dangerous virus that can kill people, is the root of all the so called theories. And seriously, TV shows like SVU often mirror stories of the day and there's an episode about this very thing.

    This "theory" conflicts with the other one that claims "the government" released the virus into the gay and drug communities to kill them off.

    Then again, people still believe an alien space ship crashed in the Nevada desert or (one of my faves) those streams of smoke that you see trailing a jet is really a "chem trail" and it's "the government" spewing this out to make us passive.

  5. There have been several bottoms I have fucked where they seem eager to put the condom on me and while fucking I will feel it pop. I tell them this and they say to keep fucking anyway. Sometimes I wonder if they were sabotaging the condom to break so they could get a bare fuck out of me. Needless to say I am always way more happy when they break :)

    There's at least one place I know with a strict condom rule, so the bottom (me) with the top's awareness, can sometimes do a little tampering.

  6. When I was 14 I discovered a gay cruising area in the park where I grew up in The Bronx. This was years ago and aside from being jailbait lives could have been ruined if busted for having gay sex in the park, so nothing happened. At 15 I looked older and was getting BJs from anyone who wanted to blow me. It was mostly older men but sometimes younger; didn't matter to me. Sorta the same way now.

  7. I'm 40 and have found that recently I've attracted a lot of young guys. Could be that they know I'm a cumslut or maybe they go for older guys but I love their attention anyway. I know when I was younger I always preferred being bred by older guys.

    Some guys just like older guys. I was like that when I was young. Others are more gold-diggers and figure an older man has money, which has some truth to it.

  8. Hey Thanks for the offer Glen, I've actually never been to the Jersey Shore. That is awesome. Here is a link to a blog called Adventures in Group Sex. It lists all the sex parties in NY metro area (at least all the parties that want to be listed). It also gives address, phone, email, website and costs for each one. I've had an amazing time at the Encore party at Paddles. Check these out prior to your trip.

    http://adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com/2014/04/group-m4m-sex-parties-for-week-of_17.html

    Thanks! This is a great list. Some I knew of and some I didn't or I'm not interested in.

    I wasn't aware of Metropolis @ Lex. With the variety of groups that could be fun.

    It helps that it's practically at my door. :2thumbs:

  9. Thankfully no, and it would be very, very bad if I did. Given the fact I work with some real jerks (regardless of the subject, they're just jerks) it would not be pleasant if they found out I like to fuck guys and take loads.

    Except what would they be doing there if not the same thing as you?

    I've seen co-workers and my friend's brother hightail it out of bars when they saw me, but that's just dumb considering I'm there as well. My friend knew her brother was gay but the family didn't, and I didn't tell her about the meeting until many years later when it was 'safe' to do so on his part. I do keep secrets.

    At a bath or sex club the co worker attitude goes away instantly and you're just a bunch of naked gay men.

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