jdman

Thanks everyone for the helpful advice. I know it was a stupid question now. I appreciate the help as I checked out this community and I am thankful for the realignment of my expectations and pointing out just what I was really asking. 

Also sorry, not April fools joke, I am just an idiot. .

I am likely being insolent, but one more question on this thread.

If I marked myself as 'NEG; undetectable only pls' or something like that, what are the chances of that being respected versus completely ignored.

I want to know simply because I really want to go tonight to please tons or horny guys and that is no time for prep. If that is the way it is though, I will keep myself from going because I could not help myself once there.

Thanks again everyone for answering my concerns. I hope I have not come off as offensive to the pos community. 

Prep is an interesting idea particularly if getting filled with cum was a more constant thing in my life and not a periodic "splurge" heh.

Thanks. I am new to this and found that cumunion was 'open' to bareback but did not understand it _specifically_ bareback. 

Good to know.

I have to admit I am terrified of getting HIV. I have a girlfriend (who encouraged me to go to one of these events, basically she is amazing), and I could not let myself pass anything to her.

My solution is hoping I can trust people will wrap up if I write the note on my ass. I know it is silly asking this on a website like this, and believe me that if I could get in a swing and get 30 loads of my ass (with maybe some DP) and there was no risk of incurable diseases that limit my intimate contact with the ones I love, I would revel in hot cum coating my insides.

Will people at cumunion (442 in San Francisco) respect my wish or am I just going to be hanging there in a swing ass up, or possibly worse, someone bareback fucks me and though it would feel so fucking great (I may not be able to stop), I get infected and have to live with the consequences of their selfish but great feeling actions?

Please advise, cumunion is tomorrow and I do not know the community well enough to be able to tell how to go about this.