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Does anyone think that their small dick is part of the reason they are a bottom?  In other words the concept of "size is destiny" in the bedroom?  Seems natural for guys with little dicks to be exclusively bottom....

Seems natural for a bottom to have a small, irrelevant dick....

I am really into the idea of bottoms who keep their dicks totally out of the picture sexually. I e wear a jockstrap and never even take it out. Even better if it stays limp and is small to start with. How do tops feel about this? Have you fucked bottoms and literally not seen their dicks?

Anyone else see any good porn lately with bottoms who stay soft?

the littler and more useless the better. It's all about my cock and getting that hole open and bred deep.

Great attitude!

In total agreement! I'm a bottom and rarely get hard. I'm there to please my top. I don't wany my cock touched, sucked or anything of the sort. Eat my pussy, finger my pussy, insert your cock in my pussy and plow away!

well said!

Bumping this hoping for some more comments from tops about how tops like small dicked bottoms (like me)

Totally agree wth this. NOthing worse than a top who is too interested in the bottom's dick.

I think that's hot as hell... LOVE porn (though it's rare lately) where the bottom's dick is just totally ignored. My favorites are the hardcore scenes where the bottom's dick is visibly soft, and just swings and dangles as he's getting pounded. It's almost mesmerizing to see it spin around, flaccid and ignored as he's getting pounded good!!! A close second is jockstrap scenes like you mentioned, where we never even see the sub's dick (though, I must admit, it can be an instant boner-killer when the scene gets JUST to its hottest point, and then the jockstrap gets pulled to the side and the camera starts focusing on that instead of the fuck)

I kinda think it's interesting that this is a 'new' topic. I was going through some classic pre-condom porn a while back, and was surprised to discover that a majority of it is VERY top-centric. The subs are just there to enjoy the top's cock, and the scene fades out before the bottom's dick is ever acknowledged. Makes me wonder what happened during the 80s and the condom revolution that made porn producers start to care SO much about whether the bottom gets hard or gets off...

You're right Deaner---classic porn seems more in tune with this. Way too much versatility in today's porn.

A good example of this concept in action--new (non BB) movie Rio Blatinos from Alexander Pictures. In two of the scenes the bottoms wear a jockstrap and we ever never even see their dicks...the are totally irrelevant to what's going on

Bumping for some more votes....

Love to get some moe votes here

Now we have a prettyy good sample size for the survey. What's interesting is that the overwhelming majority of tops either don't care or prefer bottoms not hard. Nice to see that there is a wide consensus on how irrelevant bottoms' cocks are.

It's really interesting reading how many bottoms here don't seem to get hard and have all their pleasure centered around their ass, not their cock. I really enjoy a good hard pounding myself, but I've always assumed that the best barometer of a guy's pleasure level is how hard his cock is, whether he's a top or a bottom.

I'd be interested to hear from bottoms who don't use any drugs and still don't get hard. Was it always like that? Do you still get hard under some circumstances, just not while getting plowed, or is your cock not a sexual organ to you at all (no JO, no cumming, nothing)?

I don't use drugs. I can and do get hard in a lot of situations and often while being fucked but over the last few years I have consciously tried not to get hard. It is a distracction and might lead to cumming before the top which is a bad thing. You can definitely be turned on without being hard

Just bumping this to see if anyone has anything to add

I am kind of fascinated by the more or less permanent changes that can occur in a bottom's hole after a while. I mean a baseline "gape" that seems to be long term. Have you guys noticed this? Anyone else find it hot?

As I bottom I prefer not to get hard when I'm getting fucked--it's a distraction from the main event which is the top's hard cock. Sometimes I can't help getting hard but I'm happier when I'm not . I usually wear a jock to help keep my dick out of the picture.