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Name: Jay

Number: [Removed by poster's request]

Location: [Removed by poster's request]

Not available until late nights and weekends, cannot host  

25

5'7"

160lbs

Just to be clear I am not pushing for traditional monogamy. As I stated before, I offered him an open relationship, no questions asked. All I asked in return was that he give me priority and not become romantically involved with anyone else, but that he could fuck whoever he wanted. He said no he could never do that blah blah blah and I continued to catch him 'cheating'. 

Just now, MuscledHorse said:

That makes sense. So, he is the one in denial on several levels.

Exactly. All he had to do was end things if he wanted to do whatever and not have to be accountable for it or he could have committed to at least being with me ultimately and I would have let him fuck whoever he wanted. Probably would have even joined in from time to time if he wanted. That's all. 

2 minutes ago, MuscledHorse said:

why am I even seeing the word "cheated" on this site? Males are not built for monogamy; it is not a natural state. Guy, especially on sites like this should be encouraging their partner to indulge in sex with as many guys as possible.

Hence why I offered an open relationship. He said no. Was given the opportunity to commit, sleep around openly and not behind my back, or to end things and do whatever we wanted. He chose none of the above. That's all I'm saying.  

no it doesn't. just found it funny.

SO. Old thread, but interesting update. Haven't dated him for a while or really spoken. hits me up for sex. We fuck...then I find out right after he cums that he's with a new guy and had been dating for 3-4 weeks at that point.

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Love dark rooms. Never know who is pounding your ass, which is hot.

I also love being whored out. Had a guy get me a hotel room and posted the room # online everywhere and made me fuck EVERY guy who showed up. It was intense getting fucked by nasty fuckers I wouldn't have pursued outside of that.

22 hours ago, PissPigBrooklyn said:

I don't know what kind of "arrangement" you and your bf had before this incident. Since you say he "cheated" I am guessing that either the two of you were supposed to be exclusive or the two of you were only supposed to have others in your relationship when together. But your name is pozmeup and you are on here and you didn't hesitate a minute to call up this other guy and let him fuck your ass, knowing that your boyfriend would discover you. I suspect the issue is less about whether he lied or not (and I admit that lying is a huge trustbreaker) than it is about your wanting him to go outside the relationship and using your suspicions to allow you to do that. you both need to be honest with each other. you should tell him how much chasing turns you on and how much you want him to either join you in that chase or at least allow you to chase freely. If he is not willing to accept the risk maybe he can get on PrEP but allow you to continue your search for hiv.

Thats the thing. I asked if he needed a third in the relationship or if he needed to go open with me or what...he said no to all of that. Then did that behind my back. so fuck it.

2 hours ago, topstud127 said:

Hand and blowjobs can equal "we didn't fuck" but rimming and fingering, why wouldn't you. In my book, that means the ass was clean and ready for a fuck. Only reason not to proceed is if they insisted on condoms and no one had any.

Exactly. I feel the same way. He's a big bottom. I have fucked him for 5+ years now...he's the type that if you so much as rub his hole he immediately wants fucked...so fingering to me = they probably fucked.

Walked in on us fucking...dude didn't stop just kept going. He just looked and then went outside. The guy left, he came back in and said why are you trying to get revenge on me? And then continued to deny that he fucked the dude...still sticking to the story of just foreplay, fingering, and some oral/jo.

Talked to the guy. He agreed to come over this morning for a surprise. I'll let you know the outcome

the guy didn't say when he said it so I can't be sure. I don't care if they did or not...the boyfriend all day has denied they actually had anal sex though...claims just foreplay and oral and fingering.

So just wanted some input...

I had a suspicion my boyfriend had cheated on me a few months ago. I made a blank Grindr and got hit up by some guy. He asked for a pic so I sent him a pic of my boyfriend. Immediately was like hey dude its been awhile how have you been etc...so I probed and got that he fucked him on his friends couch a few months ago.

I confront the boyfriend who denied for 45 minutes, then admitted he met him at the casino, brought him back, did some oral and jerking off, fingering, rimming...but claims no actual sex. The dude explicitly said in the messages "I loved fucking your ass" so I think he's lying. Maybe he thinks getting fucked would be too far or something...

opinions?

(FYI - not even mad. dude was hot as fuck. I jerked off thinking about it. just wanna know if he did or not...)