Neg20yrold

Wish this were me! I turn 24 in a few weeks...any others in the UK?

I turn 23 in a few weeks...maybe someone can help organize it for my birthday :3

if a top didthis to me I'd feel obliged to let whoever he invited round fuck me...I'm that submissive lol

Such hot stories - wish guys would write about using me lol

Definitely would love to be Adam.

That sounds like a good plan NLbear

thanks for the suggestion

I do think I'd like to geti nto the whole 'rent' scene lol

Hmm...I like the idea myself, if you wanted to move to the US.

I've been thinking about looking to create some type of situation with the right guy or guys. I have a three bedroom house, and so have room for some additional people here.

I envision a daddy/boy situation to be one where both are getting needs met. I would want to be a type of parent/daddy/mentor to a boy, to help him learn about and navigate the world of adulthood, sexuality, homosexuality, and HIV. I would expect the boy to of course be available for sex, but also to do things around the house, but then also to get a job to be able to support himself too. I would not want to fully take care of a boy. I would also encourage his own exploration of his own sexuality, not only with me, but with others as well. I think that there can be room to negotiate any kind of parts to unique relationships, but both parties have to know what they are looking for and signing up for.

Maybe if you're not looking to come to the US, I can find the right boy(s) to create a fun cool environment here with.

I would certainly move to the US. Have always wanted to live there.

This is an interesting thread. First of all, when i was living in my parents home (actually my dad's; my mom split when i was 12, that never stopped me from being a cum dump. i brought guys home to fuck me all the time. And dad (and my brother) frequently joined in and brought their own friends). But perhaps i probably had a different kind of bringing up than Neg20yrold did. Also, i am bemused by the concern that Neg20yrold's new landlord may want too much of his cunt. That is a concept that i have a difficult time wrapping my head around -- too much sex! Actually, i don't think Neg20yrold's situation is so unusual. Just a lot more explicit than usual. i have lived with several guys -- in high school, in college, post college, where it was well understood that they would have unlimited access to my cunt in exchange for free or reduced rent. It just never was spoken out loud.

I'd have no problem if he wanted to have my cunt all the time...as I said - I'd be more worried about him limiting my sexual experiences rather than expanding them.

If you moved to Birmingham you could share with me ;-)

that certainly is a tempting offer

Become a hooker and get your own place, you can make twice as much and get your own place than giving it away for free as much as they want for a cheaper room.

I have always liked the idea of doing that...though I don't think I'd get many customers haha.

and london doms seeking a slave/son...message me

theothersins

I've lied and made myself a few years older. I just don't think older dom tops would want such a young sub.

I've decided to invest in a device. Thinking about getting one of the birdlocked ones. I think I might also start a blog/tumblr about my experiences when I'm locked up. Just need to find a keyholder now.

No loads refused.

My longest stint in chastity was 67 days. My sexual desire never left me. And the orgasm I had after was amazing.

As far as the prostate goes. Do your own research, ask about it in a chastity chat room and you'll think you asked a political question the way people take sides. But you don't need to have an orgasm to take care of that. Your prostate can be milked in your ass using a toy. It's better if a friend helps, but I managed mine myself.

YMMV

Thanks for the info! So it is possible to have a keyholder in another country?

From the sounds of it you'd lose your sex drive if you had it on for a month or more at a time. Don't want that to happen and it's not practical to get you a key...

Anyone in NYC need a keyholder?

Yeah, that's true I guess...though I doubt I'd ever lose my sex drive lol. Anyone closer want to be my keyholder?

Well, I'd more than let you be my keyholder! I'm hoping that I'd be able to get some orgasms from getting fucked if I'm in chastity

Sorry, but I've always thought of it as if you're the one wanting safe sex then you should be the one who provides the condom. Not only were you the fucker, you're the one wanting safe sex (regardless of whether the bottom lied about being safe or whatever) - if you had any doubts, it was down to you to wear a condom.

Don't blame the bottom for something that YOU could have prevented. Seriously, do people not realise that safe sex is a two way thing.

well now I'm grateful that I'm short!

Well my submissive tendencies are definitely telling me to try it.

I certainly wouldn't mind taking a few of his loads if I'm ever over there!

Former chastity blogger here. There are things you need to know.

First, chastity prevents you from edging, so if that's what you like, you'll have problems. Sure, it'll do its job by preventing full erections, and you'll be in a constant state of horniness. But there will be no way for you to edge. I love edging, and orgasm denial just isn't the same without it.

Second, expect to spend about two weeks getting used to the device, figuring out how best to clean it, etc. This means that you should not hand over the keys until the chastity device is so comfortable, it feels like an extension of your own body.

Third, assuming you'd like to avoid prostate cancer and a permanent catheter up your urethra, you need to cum exactly twice a month. This actually works well with chastity play, because for the average male 18 - 45, testosterone peaks and drops after two weeks. That means after two weeks in chastity, unless you cum, you'll just stop caring altogether and your sex drive will be null.

Erections will become more difficult. After about 6 months in chastity (with periodic release), you'll find you cannot achieve erections like you used to. They will be softer, shorter, and more difficult to maintain. In effect, you'll find yourself becoming a true pussyboy, with a useless little dick.

When buying a chastity device, focus on your flaccid size, not your erect size. Too many hung men buy a CB-6000 on Amazon (yep, free standard shipping!) without realizing they'll end up with way too much room inside when they're soft. Consider the CB-6000s (s is for "small") or other smaller devices.

Thanks for this! This is all very informative! So now I guess I'll just have to decide whether I want to be a true pussyboy or not...I think that's an easy thing to answer

So where did you get to with the whole chastity thing? Did it pass by or did you getinto it deeper?

Well, I only posted this last night...

I seem to becoming more and more interested in this. I think it's grown from my interest in cum denial...I always seem to edge and get kinda dissapointed in myself when I let myself cum. I think the idea of chastity would be good/hot. Not being able to take pleasure from my own dick, having to get pleasure from others and my ass. Having a keyholder sounds ideal too...someone who will only unlock me if I do certain stuff, if I obey/behave, etc.

Been looking at getting myself a chastity device. Though I think I'd prefer to speak to others about experiences, etc. And possibly find a keyholder or someone like that.

So, has anyone else had any experience in chastity? Either being locked up or locking someone up/being a keyholder. And, any recommendations on where to get chastity devices? Would prefer something discreet...

I wonder if it is because I *didn't* get any when I was young that I am not very attracted to the boy/dad thing? I know a lot of guys say they started young, maybe even with their real fathers, brothers, etc. and that's why they are now into it. I never had any sexual encounter with a guy until college. Now I'm 39 and would LOVE a boy (legal age) who really likes to please his dad. I have been with younger guys, of course, but most of them just didn't care either way about the other guy's age. What I want is for the boy to actually *want* his daddy to be older, bigger, etc. Does any of that make sense?

Oh, I definitely want my daddy to be older, bigger, controlling, dominant...a big thick cock wouldn't hurt too (unless he means it to)

I know hardly any daddies around here! Well...none that are sleazy and kinky. Maybe I should just move.