kels725

On 9/19/2015 at 7:56 PM, KptNLine said:

As a guy locked in a CB, let me clarify a few things for anyone interested in chastity. Being locked in a chastity device long-term will make it more difficult for you to get erections, and you will also lose some penile length over time. In other words, your flaccid penis may appear shorter than before, and when you first unlock, you may find it impossible to get hard. However, if you unlock for a period of time, these effects reverse themselves. I was recently unlocked for several weeks for personal reasons - I started to get erections after less than a week of being unlocked, and I noticed some of my lost length coming back soon after that. 

 

When people refer to a "ruined orgasm," they are generally referring to the following: When you jerk off, or have a partner jerk you off, and you feel yourself geting just to the point of no return and then you quickly stop all stimulation to your penis. At that point, you can either fight the ejaculation and you might leak a drop or two of cum, or you can relax and let yourself ejaculate, but either way, there's little if any physical pleasure associated with the ejaculation when you're not stimulating the penis at the same time. It's fun to try (a total mindfuck seeing yourself ejaculate but not feeling an orgasm).

 

Let me just say this - I totally get others not being into or understanding the point of chastity. Believe me, I know it's a niche market fetish. But that being said, I love everything about chastity. It's such an intimate exchange, surrendering control of your orgasms to another man. I love that my husband has total control over my ability to orgasm. I won't give a big lecture here (if anyone ever has questions about chastity, feel free to PM me, I love sharing my experiences) - but no, chastity won't cause any permanent damage (based on my experience).

this right here is the best description I have seen

thats an interesting question that I think more and more are asking. Its def not the same for all total bottoms.

For myself (whom prefers to wear chastity during), I do not like to think my my own penis at all. It allows me to focus purely on my top and giving him pleasure which in turn, give me pleasure as cheesy as that sounds. Cumming during makes no difference to me, if I do cool, if not, cool. But as I do not tend to pay attention to my own, the instances in which I formally cum is few and far between. In most cases I experience full body orgasms or anal spasms with the occasional leakage out of my locked up penis. 

he is def not the only one though it may depend on the role they are in. If i was a top I dont think I would want to be called that but being a submissive bottom who prefers to be the one bound and or locked up in chastity, the term "faggot" just seems to describe my preferred role.

I totally agree, verbal tops are amazing. Being called names like whore, slut etc just gets me going more

On 11/17/2017 at 6:05 PM, KptNLine said:

 

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

 

2) What attracted you to it?

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

1) I learned it by watching some various forms of BDSM Porn

2) The idea of not being able to touch myself and focusing and pleasuring a top just seemed to turn me on more

3) I purchased a chastity and later met up with a guy wearing it. That encounter had to be one of the best feelings as I could focus purely on what was in me, not my own. 

4)For the most part most of the reactions are positive, though some want it off.

5) I am self-locked, possibly looking for a key-holder

6) Long term lockage is a goal, maybe perm, havent put that much thought into it lol

Interesting topic, I started at 18 (late bloomer?). I feel like younger is better personally. I have the energy to spend sometime sucking and worshiping a cock without get lock jaw or something. 

Met a guy in the bathroom at work during my lunch break (I work nights). I was the only one us the office and was in chastity that night.

He bent me over in the corner and pounded me until he shot his load and left it dripping out.