Ingulphus

One of my regulars, a very hot Latin with a gymnast's body and generously hung called my ass "world class". That was a couple of years ago, when I was 55, and it meant a lot to me (and still does).

In my opinion, piss should be taken directly from the cock, with no leakage. Urinal gags look good, but they just get in the way of being able to feel the stream emerge from the piss slit onto the tip of your tongue and on its way down your throat.

[snorts] I'm 57, and I've been having more, and better, sex than when i was in my 30s and 40s (and that was NYC & Palm Springs!).

I like drinking my boy's piss - it's strong, which took some getting used to, but now it I think of it as his "signature" taste.

I'll be there with two of my boys - we'll see what we can do for you.

So far, I've had several texts from tops wanting to use me, but ALWAYS late at night when it's just not possible (my profile lists my availability as weekday afternoons, weekend afternoons & evenings). Has anyone else had any action from the network yet? So far, it appears I'm the only one in the S.F. bay/ East bay area, which I find surprising, but then it usually isn't too difficult to find a bottom in S.F.

I'm happy I was able to seamlessly switch from cigarettes to pipes after being a smoker for almost 40 years; I smoke much, much less now, to the point where I gained the traditional 15 pounds that always hit when I've quit smoking in the past. My sens of taste and smell have improved as well. It's not the ideal situation, but I'm still better off.

My boy, who is also my husband, has acquired a boy, (an actual boy - he's 26, which to me is almost an embryo in terms of experience), primarily to mentor him, and it did take some mental adjustment for me to feel comfortable with it. I don't share my boy's feelings for his boy, so there's no question of a triad. We've discussed bringing another man into the relationship, but it would take a really good match for a number of criteria (such as mutual attraction all around, poz, no meth, full-time job, intelligence) before we would consider taking it to the level of having them live with us and fully commit to the relationship. Plus, both my boy and myself are bipolar, (and the four of us get along very nicely, especially when we're both in an up cycle at the same time), which adds an extra set of challenges to a triad.

48 for me, but only 3-4 are mutual "buddies, as far as I'm concerned. I don't see the point in "friending" or "buddy-listing" guys who never message me, much less had sex with me. It seems that for a lot of guys it's a numbers game, and I'm just not interested.

I'm looking forward to the next part - good quality writing, by the way.

I used to feel marginalized for being poz, even in my hot-bear 30s. Turning 50 I thought I had a double strike against me. Then I discovered that guys want me as a daddy. Totally opened my eyes and I love exploring that new side of me and the guys it attracts. And obviously now there's a culture out there that no longer fears but understands, even covets, being poz. I'm more turned on now by mature guys who can deal with the real world and real men, and it makes for a deeper connection I think, even for a quick fuck. I don't pursue younger 20- or 30-somethings and don't bother with them on online sites,but if they want a daddy and a poz one at that -- and they're out there, believe me -- they got one here. Oh, and a dad type can be a hot bottom as well as top.

Amen to that, brother! I'm having more sex in my middle 50s than I had as a young man; there are plenty of men in the S.F. Bay Area who love daddies, especially one who smokes a pipe or a cigar. With the help of Chinese knock-off Viagra or trimix, I've been able to be truly versatile, and being poz allows me to fuck the way I was brought up to, either as a pitcher or catcher. Having a couple of collared boys is nice, too.

I've been on Atripla for almost 6 years, and have had no joy from Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. What has worked is a Chinese "herbal" "100% natural" knock-off of Viagra called Silver Sword - it's a typical bootleg in that the dose is variable pill by pill (actually two pills that are taken together), but it's given me the Viagra blue vision where prescription V didn't.

The other, much more dependable "enhancer" is trimix, prescribed by my urologist. An injection gives me a 2 to 3 hour bionic boner that won't go down, no matter what - a complete gift. Bimix might work just as well (it does for my husband), but the three chemicals together (papaverine and two others I always forget) is what I can depend on when I'm topping. The only drawbacks are that it has to be made up by a compounding pharmacy, it isn't stable (once compounded, you have 28 days to use it or it becomes inert), and while not cheap ($50 for a 5 ml vial), is cheaper per dose than Viagra.

In the month I was off meds, to poz a man who wanted me to be The One (he flaked), night sweats started up, and three weeks in, a cold sore bloomed that I hadn't seen in 15 years. I knew I was in pozzing mode, but when the guy flaked, I went right back to Atripla and haven't fucked around with it since.

Yesterday morning, from a favorite and seriously hung top visiting from out of town. He'll visit again before he leaves, so I expect at least 2 more of his large loads.

Insist they deposit them in your ass.

A Sybian Venus 2000. Damned expensive, but I've wanted one for the last 10 years. Now that I've gotten used to the many ongoing adjustments required to keep the receiver sucking my cock properly, I'm not sure it's worth it, and may return it - I get into a groove and suddenly have to stop and clean the excess precum off my cock, or adjust the air in the system, and the noise of the motor and diaphragm are distracting.

On the other hand, when it's working properly, I finally have the chance to enjoy a blowjob without the bottom getting tired (or lockjaw) before I'm ready to cum. So I'm still on the fence about it.

If the position's right, the PA will be hitting your prostate, which is a Great Good Thing. I was fucked once with a guy with a reverse PA (goes through the cockhead & piss slit) and that was amazing. I remember him with amusement; he wouldn't cum in my ass because he was poz and I was neg, but he had no issues fucking me raw with a large PA. And once when he pulled out to shoot, the first spurt hit me right in the eye, coating the eyeball. I wasn't in a hurry to clean it up, either...

And my Amsterdam boy has a Jacob's ladder consisting of 5 barbells running up his shaft, at right angles to his urethra - those little fuckers are fun when they're slipping and snagging your flesh while he's jack-hammering your ass.

The difference between Cumunion at Steamworks and Steamworks by itself is the great question. There's always barebacking, whether it's an event or just another day. I suspect it's just that it's the only East Bay venue available. I do wish they would resurrect Mack Folsom!

Mack is gone, Kok is hot and you can get blown/fucked/pissfucked, etc. in the back (but wear a jock (i.e. you can't be naked in a bar, but a jock suffices and leaves access to everything) - I believe they have a clothes check. The BBRT Cumunion parties are good, although all the glory holes are designed for an average height - not comfortable for really tall men (I'm 6'4"). They have a sling and a medical exam table with stirrups as well...

My boy won a coupon for a free large room at Steamworks during Oakland Pride last weekend, so we'll probably use it to get the huge sling room Sunday afternoon.

Yeah - I was hoping I could pimp one of my boys out in the sling at Mack when he was visiting from Amsterdam. There's not much else quite like Mack in the City, although Kok Bar gets down and dirty in the back, near the bathrooms (my boy sucked me off on a bench there Sunday afternoon, while we watched a threesome fuck and munch butt in their jockstraps). And the BBRT Cumunion parties are good, especially on a festival weekend like Dore and Folsom - they have one in the city, near 5th & Folsom, and a second one at Steamworks. At neither venue did I see any condom use, nor would I expect to, especially at Cumunion.

well heres a question i want to try one of the pills just for shits a giggles cuz i dont need them im 22 should i try them or not?

It would be a waste - your cock probably stay so hard it grows a fingernail... Plus, all of these "performance enhancers" usually have some side effects, such as blue vision and indigestion, which can be a distraction when you just wanna have fun.

Bullshit. I call myself versatile, and I enjoy topping and bottoming in equal measure. I'm also damn good at both. So to say a true 50-50 doesn't exist is incorrect - I'm not the only man around who enjoys both roles in the dance. I also have no problems topping a man who only enjoys being a bottom, as I do being the bottom for a complete top. My pleasure is always focusing on my partner's pleasure, and I can do whatever is needed to provide him with that, because turning him on and fulfilling his needs is doing the same for me.

Flip-fucking with another man who is also versatile is a huge turn-on, because there's the immediate knowledge of the pleasure I'm giving him as his top, and the excitement and anticipation of how he'll be doing the same for me when we switch positions. I'm aggressive as a top, and can be as a bottom as well, if the chemistry is right for that - I can also submit to a top completely and let my own desires be completely subsumed by his.

"Silver Sword", available on eBay or on Shane Frost's web site. They're touted as "100% natural/herbal", but they seem to be knock-off Viagra, and they work very well indeed - even though a regular 100mg Viagra doesn't do much for me. They are also a lot cheaper - $20 plus shipping for 8 doses (one large and one small pill, taken simultaneously).

I pop random boners for about a day after taking them, and combined with a favorite cock ring, my cock is steely the longer I fuck (which, at 56, is a gift, believe me). I made the mistake of taking one before a piss scene, though - drank a pitcher of lukewarm tea, and within an hour had to piss so badly my stomach started to cramp. It took a lot of concentration to get soft enough to remove the cock ring, and even then, I had to piss in the shower, as i couldn't bend my cock enough to aim for the toilet bowl. My piss bottom was disappointed, of course, but I made up for it in other ways...

Taking a muscle relaxant may not help specifically with your sphincter muscles, although the rest of you will feel relaxed. Making sure you stay limber by doing some light stretches beforehand makes sense - you'll be in several positions, some of them for quite a while if your tops aren't too concerned about your comfort and are concentrating on getting off (which is right and proper, and all you should expect).

Or just accept the fact that the first couple of cocks are going to hurt - after you've taken a couple of loads, your hole will be slicked and stretched, and the rest will be easier. It will still be an endurance test, but well worth it.

if your tired and worn out covered in cum and piss and alls you want to do is go home shower and go to bed but there are still cocks waiting to be serviced you stay until the work is done

If only... [sigh]. I have yet to be faced with that type of challenge, although I'd like to believe I'd be capable of handling it.

And an earlier poster brought up the subject of STIs - I have to say that if a top tells me he has gonorrhea, chlamydia or syphilis (or if I suspect it, or see an obvious drip or sore), I'm still going to let him fuck me - I knew the job was dangerous when I took it, and there are clinics within easy reach for me to get tested and treated. I will, however, draw the line at herpes - that's one pain in the ass I do not want.