backdoorjimmy

I have the Auto fuk and I love it. It's not too loud, it's light and compact enough to take with me whenever I travel, and it's hits all the right spots when I'm on all fours. I got mine on sale at Eden Fantasys for under a hundred dollars and thought it wouldn't last, but I've had mine for about 2 years and haven't had any issues.

I got mad enough to call off a hookup once when I was about 19 or 20. I got to this guy's place and he was all over me, kissing me, eating my ass, rubbing my back and stomach with his hands and just all in all turning me on. He pushed me to my knees so I could suck him off and I felt like the vibe was established. But when I came up for a kiss, he kinda pushed me away and said he never gave me consent to kiss him.

That was it. I got dressed and left while he started apologizing and begging me to change my mind. But it was too weird and honestly, I felt like I was being accused of being a sex pest. So I left and blocked him.

7 hours ago, blkoraltm said:

I need help. I have a hole that sucks up lube like a vacuum and I end up dry very quick... Any lube suggestions to prevent this or other tips?!

 

I know cum is the best lube but can't get them loads when I have a tight dry hole!

Have you tried Vaseline? It was my go to lube for years when I was younger, and it's still what I use when I leave a plug in all day.

On 10/7/2023 at 6:27 PM, DallasPozzible said:

I would like to read the entire analysis of how Clinton and Obama moved the Overton window to the right because it doesn’t sound plausible in the least. Moral Majority,  Reagan, Gingrich/Contract with America, BushJr., and Trump were all dramatic pulls to the right.

I looked for it but haven't been able to find it. I want to say it was an opinion piece written by David Sirota. It cited some of Clinton's actions such as signing off on the repeal of Glass-Steagall and declaring that the era of big government was over.

As for Obama, he cited his monetary policies like quantitative easing and near zero interest rates. He also mentioned that under Obama, 3 million undocumented immigrants were deported which was a record at the time.

On 10/5/2023 at 12:00 PM, hntnhole said:

Sinema seems to have at least semi-cogent answers to why she votes the way she does, which doesn't make her crazy.  What does make her somewhat questionable though, is her taste in clothing.  Maybe one of her commercial sponsors is Ringling Bros/Barnum & Bailey ..... 

Her clothes are.... something.

On the craziness of the republicans, though, I read somewhere that the insanity began because Bill Clinton moved the Overton window to the right while he was president. Then Obama moved it some more, and now the democrats exist in the same political box that the republicans occupied in for decades. That left the republicans with nowhere to go but further to the right. Then they fell off the cliff into insanity.

I don't know how true that is, but I thought it was a fascinating hypothesis.

I can't say for sure when I started to lose track, but I was about 18 when I realized that the previous 3 years were kind of a blur. It's not necessarily because I had too many partners, though. It was that I just stopped attaching names and faces with encounters. Most of them were guys my age and a little older, but there were a handful of older guys (college aged and older) that I hooked up with in high school.

20 hours ago, Funinncounty said:

Ok, so 99% of the time I’m just a horny insatiable bottom that wants and needs an anonymous fuck. But funny enough I find myself just wanting to eat ass for hours on end. (Not while being topped or giving or receiving head). But just going to a guys house finding him ass up and wanting to dig my face and tongue into hiss ass for long periods of time then leave. And if his ass is pre-loaded even better. Is this common or just me being piggy. 

I don't know how common it is among other bottoms, but I love eating ass and crave it when I'm horny. I've even hooked up with other bottoms just to be able to eat some ass.

38 minutes ago, DallasPozzible said:

What is a rimming butt plug?

As someone else replied, it's a buttplug with a rotating neck. I've got a few, but my all time favorite is my BVibe2 - it's a little pricey, but 100% worth it for what it does. YMMV, but to me there's no better way to warm my hole up for a dildo ride or a later in the day hookup than sliding my plug in and watching some porn.

Here's what it looks like

On 9/17/2023 at 7:24 AM, Junlee said:

So.. reached a point of being way too horny but no matter how desperate, i can't find a way to get fucked.

Jacking off is aight, but meh.. Assplay is they same.. Kinda looking for ways to gget into a raunchy headspace even when im alone.

How y'all do it? Or what do you do when you reach a point of extreme horniness?

That's what my dildo collection is for. If I feel like warming up, I pop in one of my rimming buttplugs first just to get my hole nice and hungry before I mount whichever dildo I've decided on.

On 9/17/2023 at 3:06 PM, brnbk said:

Is it ever moral to out a gay man?

I'd say no, but there are times when people are justified in not following the moral code of never outing someone

On 9/17/2023 at 3:06 PM, brnbk said:

Some cases are easy to judge, say instances where a politician or preacher is having gay sex secretly while preaching or legislating against gay people and homosexuality. However a same person, choose to be closeted, say a politician who is gay or bi and is in a marriage (heterosexual) but his routine  involves mid-week trips to a gay bathhouse, is it ever OK to let the public know. 

I'd definitely say these are about the only times when it's okay to out someone. Or maybe if someone isn't outspoken on the issue, but they're sexually assaulting men. Then it's okay to out them, too.

Outside of the above scenarios, when I think about people being outed against their will it feels like a theft of sorts. They're being robbed of their right to remain private and their decision to come out at a time of their choosing, or not at all. I remember reading that Harvey Milk was one of the people who outed Oliver Sipple, the man who saved the President's life in the 1970's.

It felt like a gut punch just reading about how he begged to not be outed, only to have it happen anyway because these people decided it was more important to showcase a gay hero than for the man to have the choice to remain closeted. It ruined his life in many ways. His family disowned him and he wasn't even allowed to attend his mother's funeral (that's on the family, but again, his choice to prevent this was taken away). I can't imagine his despair - he died alone in his apartment and was so isolated that they didn't find his body for 10 days. 

On 9/10/2023 at 1:29 PM, hntnhole said:

Fuck what he "thinks" ..... he's responsible for his own sexual health, and dealing with the lesser bugs - getting on PrEP, getting tested regularly, getting them treated when they come along - is part of the deal.  

Agreed - the impetus behind my comment was that OP seemed concerned that this person suspected it might be him. I'd want to clear that up if I were in OP's shoes, even though the onus is always on the person to get tested and treated when necessary.

3 hours ago, Bttml00king said:

A guy who I have hooked up with told me months later that I may have given him oral gonorrhea. 

He rimmed and bred me. If I did give him oral gonorrhea, would he also have gotten it in his penis? 

I have never tested positive for oral and anal gonorrhea and I am really puzzled. 

He was fairly cool about it but being told that I might pass something to someone is never a good feeling. 

When was the last time you were tested? It sounds like he got it from someone else but it doesn't hurt to get tested again just to be sure. If the results come back negative, let him know so he doesn't think it was you.

Great question. I think it's subjective based on the individual. I've heard people claim that more than two lovers in a year makes someone a slut, which is ridiculous and prudish in my opinion. I've also heard people say they're in a drought because they only got fucked by 4 different guys in a week.

To me, it boils down to mindset. If someone considers themselves slutty because they sleep with one guy a week, or a different guy every month, who am I to tell them otherwise? If someone calls themselves chaste because they only take unlimited loads in their ass for 5 hours a day and not a minute more, who am I to tell them they're wrong?

Different strokes for different folks.

On 7/5/2023 at 5:04 PM, LetsPOZBreed said:

I've never been into ABDL (still not), but I've always had a fascination of pissing in underwear.  Can't really explain why.  Also, because this isn't the watersports forum, I'll just leave it at that.

Same here. I've never been into ABDL but I've been into pissing in underwear my whole life. Also, I love the smell of drying urine in clothes or in my hair.

As far as fetishes I've developed over time, it's eating ass. Especially chub ass. I've hooked up with guys just so I can eat their ass, then leave without a receipt.

9 hours ago, Cravetoxic22 said:

I recently discovered poppers, but am still relatively new to them. Thinking they might making bottoming a lot more enjoyable for me.

Can you explain how? I'm curious about the way they make people feel compared to not using them. My partner bought me this stuff called Screaming-O Climax cream that makes my ass feel incredible. I mix it with lube and use it all the time - even if all I'm doing is plugging my ass, I add a little bit of the cream and it feels like there are little bursting sensations against the walls of my rectum all day. When I use it before getting fucked, it's almost indescribable.

I'm kinda wondering how if poppers have the same effect or if it's something completely different.

Yes, anytime I can. I'm partnered so I don't get it everyday but I still find anonymous dicks a couple times a week.

As someone who appreciates the male form with all of its nuances and flaws, I don't know if I'd want to improve anything appearance wise. I think guys are sexy even at their most vulnerable moment. If he just woke up and has morning breath, bedhead and crust in his eyes, it's still sexy because it's manly. If he's been working all day and smells like armpit stink or crotch stink, I'll be all over him. It's super arousing to me. The different dick sizes, from smaller to XXL are all sexy for what they bring to the table, too.

If I had the chance to improve anything or make a man with a physical improvement, I'd probably give him a firm, hairy ass for me to admire and eat. And maybe have him be horny 24/7 so I could have sex on demand. But aside from that, I'd probably focus more on the EQ of a man so I could create a harem of lovers without any of the hangups or baggage that come with relationships or even casual hookups.

On 6/15/2023 at 1:13 PM, dadbodcumdump said:

Find it a little difficult to get back to pre-pandemic in being a well-used cumdump?

 I lost a bit of my cumdump mojo over pandemic. Gained a little weight but that won’t stop me from making my holes available for breeding. 
I will take all loads now. 
Hope other cumdumps are getting seeded

I spent most of the lockdown with the same three guys and became very attached to all of them. I ended up in a relationship with one of them, and he shared me with his roommates even after lockdown ended. We opened the relationship once things started to ease with restrictions and he started sharing me with his boys. The first time I hooked up with out him, I was a little bit sad. I know it sounds weird, but it reminded me of starting at a new school and feeling lost.

It took me a little more time to find my stride but once I did, things felt like they went back to normal.

Not sure if the original OP will see this, but I have one of these and it's been great -

Just use it a couple times with mildly warm water. It won't take you too long to clean out at all. As for how deep, I'd say to listen to your body.

Confidence is a turnon for me, and if a top tells me he's good in bed, I tend to want to see what he's got to offer. On the other hand, there's a difference between a guy who says he's good in bed, and one who actually is good in bed. So sometimes I want to ask why they think they're good at it. If they have a track record of satisfying bottoms that they can point to, great.

If they say something like, "Because I'm packing 10 inches" I'll be curious but skeptical. I've had big dicked tops that completely underwhelmed me with their lack of skill. They thought their dick size automatically made them good at sex, but my completely unsatisfied ass said something else.

18 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

To me it feels about how it looks, very textured butt not rough.  That sort of thing is so individual? i won't typically buy expensive stuff like Bad Dragon because i know my toys end up on the island of misfit toys... it's not the toys, i just do not get off on self penetration. But in my opinion, this is just as good as a BD toy. 

Nice - I'm with you on toys that end up being misfits. I have sooooooo many toys that I've used once or twice, then put them away never to use them again. I could probably open an Etsy store and that specializes in used butt toys and make some of my money back 🙂

3 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

one of these, got it to try the texture 🙂

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Has it arrived yet? I'm curious how it feels. I've got a couple Bad Dragon toys but they're so expensive. I'd love to have a more affordable option.

On 6/29/2023 at 3:35 PM, bitbucket said:

I’m not really sure where this belongs, so I’m just putting it in “General”. If there’s a better place, please let me know.

I’ve got silicon anal toys that I really like. After use I always clean them with mild soap and water, but they do tend to retain a distinctive smell.

1. Is it OK to soak silicon toys in a bit of water and bleach to help neutralize the smell? 

2. Are there other oils, e.g. peppermint that I could rub them with? Some lubes smell like clover, but they are usually not silicon friendly.

3. Should I just ignore the smell and move on?

I appreciate any tips here. Thanks!

I wouldn't soak in bleach, as others have said. It can't be good for the silicon, especially as a regular practice. I wash my plugs and other toys with warm water and Dawn. Then I let them air dry. If they still smell, I just give them another wash.

Not too long ago one of my friends slept over and used my favorite plug. When he gave it back washed, it smelled like Tina and I had the worst time getting it out. So I used 91% rubbing alcohol on it and the stink went away.

On 6/5/2023 at 2:23 PM, slaveboi said:

I know I'm probably weird about this but wanted to see what others feel. As a sub bottom I hate it when a top wants me to ride his cock. I want to get fucked not fuck myself.  How does everyone else feel?

I enjoy it, but the degree to which I enjoy it depends on my mood. If I'm extra horned up, I'll happy straddle a dick and aggressively ride it for my own pleasure until the man I'm having sex with cums.

But even when I'm not in that kind of a mood, there's something spiritual about having a man's dick inside me while I slowly work my ass on it. Feeling it touch me everywhere inside while I take my time to enjoy its stiffness and try to feel it stir inside me if I churn my hips.

45 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

Both on the apps and in person. There are a lot of men that identify as "gay" that are really asexual in regard to actually having sex. 

I know someone like this. A couple years ago he asked me to “teach” him how to bottom because he wanted to be a sub slut. To this day, he’s never had sex and can’t figure out why he always backs out when the opportunity is right in front of him.