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On 6/11/2025 at 6:45 PM, bareback-flipflop said:

I have a regular fuckbuddy, he started to have sex with his grandpa. He sucked him many times and later the old fucked him regularly. 

Wow, what a lucky guy. I used to love to sit in my grandpa's lap when I was younger, and would dream about making out with him. Of course, that never materialized but it was a major fantasy for me. When I got older and started getting fucked, he made an off hand joke about my sexual activities even though it was something we'd never discussed. I played it off as funny but deep inside, my ass was yearning for his cock.  

I never experienced it myself, but I'm definitely into it. My first official relationship as an adult was with a guy who's dad doted on him all the time. We were both 18 and 19 at the time. His dad gave him constant hugs, kisses on the cheek and the forehead, and used a lot of pet names. He would dote on me, too, and called me things like "sweetheart" and "buddy" just like he did with my ex-bf. It always made my ass shiver when he'd kiss me on the forehead and ask if I was doing okay. The fantasies I had about them were having sex with each other, and me, were powerful. 

As a bottom, I'm attracted to men who exhibit the qualities of a protector. Someone who's not just confident in their role as the dominant male, but who lives the role. If you want to turn me on, control everything in my life but do it to my liking.

Wrap your arm around my waist and hold me tight while we're walking, and I promise my ass will get hungry for your dick. If we're staying in, snuggle with me on the couch and hold my hand while we're watching TV. I'll have my lips wrapped around the base of your dick in no time flat. When we eat out, order for me but order my favorite dish. Drive the car when we go somewhere and rub my back the whole way. Hold the door open for me and pull out my chair at a restaurant. By the time we make it back to the car, I'll be ready to suck your dick in the parking lot. When we go to bed, fuck me in the missionary position and kiss me the whole time. I'll bring you breakfast in bed the next day and put my ass in the air when you're done eating. 

For me it's always about the fuck. Long fucks, quick fucks, slow and gentle, hard and rough. It doesn't matter. I just love having cocks in my ass, making me feel good. The load is a creamy bonus at the end that I get to enjoy in the afterglow.

This was honestly difficult for me to answer for a lot of reasons. I've never taken the time to consider whether my urge to be fucked is driven by a reproductive instinct. For me, it's always boiled down to pleasure and the desire I have to have anal sex. The thought that it's connected to a natural, evolutionary instinct to reproduce is fascinating but also confusing.

On 1/5/2025 at 12:52 AM, rawinme said:

I'm setting up to meet a top who I've been trying to meet for ages.  I've been hot to connect with him mostly because he has big, fat cock.  But he's hard to chat with and it's difficult to get more than a few words out of him.  Well, he finally agreed to meet me at a motel next week.  In the past he told me that he could fuck for a long time and now he's saying that he can fuck for 4 hours.  

Is that possible for either him or I?  I'm not sure if it's fuck-breed-rest-fuck again over four hours or him pumping away for the 4 hours.  Either way, he'll be fucking me raw which means skin-on-skin which might be better than condom-on-skin which might possibly be a bit irritating.

Does anybody have any experience with a long fuck?  It seems extremely exciting for him to fuck me all over the room in all sorts of positions but it might not be what I imagine.  I'm hoping that he's one of those guys that can cum multiple times, but regardless, I sure as hell want that cock in me. 

My boyfriend can go for an hour or more when he's in the right mood. The first time he fucked me my inner thighs cramped up and I had chafing against my taint, but the sex was off the charts incredible.

The thing I've learned is that vaseline is my best friend when we're about to fuck like that. I love having him stroke my ass out while I lay back and relax, but regular lube just doesn't cut it for me. Also, change positions at least 3 times per hour or you might have a bad cramp that kills the mood. I tend to cramp up the most when I'm being taken missionary for more than 20 minutes. Being on my hands and knees for a long time tests my core strength, but I won't cramp as easily. When he lays flat and lets me ride him, I can go 45 minutes before my thighs cramp up.  Drink some Gatorade ahead of time if you can.

Enjoy that big dick!

On 11/14/2024 at 9:44 AM, Londoncumdump10 said:

When I get like that my hole constantly feels wet, and even when I touch it with my finger it seems loose almost as though it’s a “calling” and anything can go in. 

This is exactly what happens to me. My hole feels like it's wet when I'm feeling the constant urge for anal. It practically blooms when I'm in the presence of any male I'm attracted to.

18 hours ago, Bottom Jim said:

he then said he was nervous but okay

Then at 9:45 he just disappeared 

why go on a site (this was sniffies) if you really don’t want to have sex Stay off site 

Based on this, I'm guessing he wanted to go through with it. But when it hit him that his fantasy was about to become a reality, he panicked and ghosted you. I try not to take it personal when this happens. It used to piss me off (it still kinda does) but I try to remember how nervous I felt when I had my first anonymous hookup.

Sorry you got stood up

I fell in love for the first time when I was 18 - we met at a party I'd been invited to by an FWB. He and I dated for 3 years and had a blast. We did couple things like date nights and cuddling, and we did hot things like hooking up with other couples and finding big dicks to suck together. We finally broke up because we weren't sexually compatible. I'm a total bottom and he's bottom-vers at best. There was a need that I just couldn't fulfill and I totally get it. We're still FWB's and best friends forever.

The next time I fell in love was during the pandemic in 2020. I'd met three amazing guys who all lived together, and grew attached to the oldest. He was in his 40's at the time and was always extra affectionate with me after sex. So I quarantined with them and things blossomed from there. Eventually he claimed me as his bitch and I fell head over heels in love with him. We're still together and I an honestly say I'm the happiest I've ever been. We do all the couple stuff that I used to with my ex, but he's a total top who doesn't yearn for more than I can give him sexually. We both play around on the side, but he's my ride or die and I'm his.

My preference is to leave it in my ass, but if it runs out then I do what I can to gather it up in my hand and slurp it down. If it runs into my undies, I'll find somewhere private to suck on the cumstain when I have a moment.

1 hour ago, Erik62 said:

NO COUNTRY contributes to NATO. NO one is free loading. Trump makes up storie & tells lies. The US pays more INTO US DEFENCE SPENDING because their 2.5% GDP is so much greater than other NATO members.

I did some digging and here's what I found out about NATO funding -

From Wikipedia - (link to article embedded)

NATO (North Atlantic Treaty Organization) funding comes from two primary sources:

National Contributions: Each member country contributes to NATO's budget based on an agreed cost-sharing formula. This budget covers the costs of NATO's operations, infrastructure, and administration. The contributions are generally based on the Gross National Income (GNI) of each member state, with wealthier nations contributing more.

Common Fund: NATO has a common fund that finances certain collective activities, such as military operations, missions, and the maintenance of NATO's headquarters. This fund is supported by the national contributions of member states.

In addition to these sources, NATO also encourages member countries to spend a minimum of 2% of their Gross Domestic Product (GDP) on defense, which helps ensure that the alliance is adequately funded for its collective defense and security initiatives. However, this 2% guideline is not a mandatory requirement, and actual defense spending varies among member states.

From ChatGPT  -

NATO Funding

NATO (North Atlantic Treaty Organization) funding comes from two primary sources:

National Contributions: Each member country contributes to NATO's budget based on an agreed cost-sharing formula. This budget covers the costs of NATO's operations, infrastructure, and administration. The contributions are generally based on the Gross National Income (GNI) of each member state, with wealthier nations contributing more.

Common Fund: NATO has a common fund that finances certain collective activities, such as military operations, missions, and the maintenance of NATO's headquarters. This fund is supported by the national contributions of member states.

In addition to these sources, NATO also encourages member countries to spend a minimum of 2% of their Gross Domestic Product (GDP) on defense, which helps ensure that the alliance is adequately funded for its collective defense and security initiatives. However, this 2% guideline is not a mandatory requirement, and actual defense spending varies among member states.

8 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Sure, "earn our votes", if you think the sole purpose of voting is to feel good about it. If you're going to practice electoral masturbation, at least admit that you don't give a fuck about the results as long as you feel your vote was "earned".

To be clear, I care a lot about the result. That's why I'm casting my ballot for Harris. But I don't think it's unreasonable to expect to want to give my vote to a candidate who's earned my vote. It's not that hard - medicare for all, which would be cheaper than the private healthcare system we have in place now, would be a great place to start. Increasing the federal minimum wage would be another layup. It hasn't moved since I was in elementary school, and I'm 25 now. Doing more to help the un-housed people in our nation find housing would be another way to earn my vote. None of those are unreasonable asks.

I know this thread isn't about those particular issues, but let's not pretend that Harris isn't unpalatable to a lot of people, especially progressives, solely because she's a woman. That's what Obama tried to do, and it was problematic. She's unpalatable because she's second in command of a highly unpopular administration and she's done almost nothing to distance herself from Biden and his policies. And I get it, she's in a tricky position, but it's her job to navigate this moment and convince voters that she's the right person for the job. It's not their job to turn out for her because she won't win without them.

8 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

I believe the point of voting is not to feel "wanted", not to feel my vote was "earned", but to produce the best outcome overall. It's why I voted to re-elect Clinton after he compromised on DOMA and Don't Ask, Don't Tell. I knew a President Dole wasn't going to be better on the issue, I knew that judges Clinton appointed would be more likely to overturn those laws as the abominations they were, and that even tiny, incremental progress is better than massive backsliding.

I think this highlights the problem with our two party system. We have other options (Green, Independent, Libertarian) but for some reason, the voters always default to the democrats or the republicans. The DNC and RNC are a perfect example of corporate capture - two non government organizations that are so ingrained in our political ethos that NOT voting for one or the other is seen as throwing your vote away. Or worse, handing the election to (insert candidate here) because you didn't vote for their opponent.

On 10/11/2024 at 10:50 AM, tallslenderguy said:

Did think it interesting that Obama brought the topic to the surface, though i find it interesting he targeted Black Men instead of just sexism in general. 

This is the issue I take with his stance. If he wants to address sexism, I'm all for it. There are plenty of people who aren't voting for the Vice President because she's a woman. But those people span all races and nationalities. There are even some women who won't vote for her because she's female.

But Obama's approach was problematic from my POV because it assumes the following:

1. Black males that aren't voting for her are doing it because she's a woman
2. Black males would automatically vote for a democrat otherwise
3. The democratic candidate is owed the black vote by default
4. The issues that all Americans are dealing with, including struggling to pay their bills and keep their heads above water, should take a back seat to the expectation that the Democratic candidate will win the overwhelming majority of the black vote

On top of that, there's the issue of democracy shaming. We all have the right to cast our ballot for the candidate of our choice. People who vote third party, and third party candidates, are often blamed for losses on either side. The fact of the matter is that candidates have to earn our votes, and if Harris, Trump or whoever else doesn't appeal to voters, it's their own fault.

I acknowledge that I'm approaching this issue as a white guy, so my perspective might not hold as much weight here. I'm voting for Harris because I think she's slightly less horrible than Donald Trump. But if the election weren't so close here in Virginia, I'd be writing in Cornell West as my pick.

I don't use them, but would never judge others for using them. It's a personal choice for me - drug addiction runs rampant on both sides of my family. My boyfriend and most of his boys smoke pot and drink heavily when they party, and I have no issue with that. To each his own.

But for my own peace of mind, I never partake.

On 9/22/2024 at 1:45 AM, Nowwhat007 said:

Hot AF. Hopefully more stories that you want to share, going behind your partner's back

Thanks. He normally sets something up for me so I don't do this often, but the guy I've been hooking up with is really cute and so sweet.

On 9/21/2024 at 11:06 PM, Willing said:

You're  so sweet 💋should've pushed that load out, a good substitute for mayo😋

Haha! I'd never waste a load like that 🏳️‍🌈  Although I'd be down to substitute mayo on my own sandwich for cum 😄

I had the day off yesterday so I had the house to myself while my boyfriend and our roommate were at work. I've been seeing a cute 20 year old off and on for the last couple months behind my bf's back and decided to have him over. My boyfriend comes home for lunch everyday at 12:15 so we had to be quick.

He came through a little after 11 and I took him to the room, took my sweats off and held onto the dresser while he fucked me. His dick is really nice and I loved feeling him inside me until he nutted. When he pulled out I hiked my sweats, sucked him clean and saw him to the door so I could make my bf a hamburger and tater tots for lunch.

The closest I've ever come to this is when I bumped into a former coworker at the store and hooked up with him at his place. The next day I met him the warehouse where I used to work. It was just him and one other guy there since it was a weekend, so we had privacy and plenty of time to fuck in the men's room.

On 9/17/2024 at 1:45 PM, TomOnHisKnees said:

Unfortunately I don't suck enough dick during the week to join the Century Club.

I get to suck dick about 35 to 40 times a week.

My best friend who I've been sucking for about 40 years gets 3 blowjobs a day from me.

There are regular cocks I suck once or twice a week.

Same here. I don't get to suck 100 different cocks in a month or even two months. I have three regulars and then whoever I manage to get lucky with when my boyfriend sets something up for me.

It depends on my mood. If I'm feeling slutty I call it my cunt or my pussy, but I usually default to calling it my ass. If I'm feeling slutty and trashy, I'll call it my shitter or my fuckhole.

Missionary with my knees pinned against my shoulders while I’m being kissed. There’s nothing hotter to me than taking deep cock strokes and being loaded with hot cum while a strong tongue probes my mouth. 

5 hours ago, Leatherman667 said:

Sucked 11 on Sunday in The Web!  Swallowed 6 loads. Some piss too! More later in the week. 

Hot! I sucked three on Sunday. My boyfriend, our roommate and my boyfriend’s cousin while they watched football. 

I have the Auto fuk and I love it. It's not too loud, it's light and compact enough to take with me whenever I travel, and it's hits all the right spots when I'm on all fours. I got mine on sale at Eden Fantasys for under a hundred dollars and thought it wouldn't last, but I've had mine for about 2 years and haven't had any issues.

I got mad enough to call off a hookup once when I was about 19 or 20. I got to this guy's place and he was all over me, kissing me, eating my ass, rubbing my back and stomach with his hands and just all in all turning me on. He pushed me to my knees so I could suck him off and I felt like the vibe was established. But when I came up for a kiss, he kinda pushed me away and said he never gave me consent to kiss him.

That was it. I got dressed and left while he started apologizing and begging me to change my mind. But it was too weird and honestly, I felt like I was being accused of being a sex pest. So I left and blocked him.

7 hours ago, blkoraltm said:

I need help. I have a hole that sucks up lube like a vacuum and I end up dry very quick... Any lube suggestions to prevent this or other tips?!

 

I know cum is the best lube but can't get them loads when I have a tight dry hole!

Have you tried Vaseline? It was my go to lube for years when I was younger, and it's still what I use when I leave a plug in all day.