TxCowboyCub

I don't know about your city or state but here in Texas Craigslist no longer has a personals section due to safety hazards (from what I understand).  There is doublelist here but if you lose your sign on information or try to authenticate your account with your phone number (at least for me) it does not seem to work.  It is difficult to maneuver and most postings get tagged because of its strict policies on wording...ie like bareback, party, even once just placed a simple ad saying "bareback bottom wanting to get bred"...was flagged and  removed. 

So are there other alternatives? If you know of any other than the normal apps and hookup sites please let me know. Thanks.

On 2/9/2018 at 6:38 AM, mblad99 said:

Craigslist by far has delivered me the best steady stream of guys.   Grindr has the same guys on it that seem to use the app for entertainment, but I have had some minimum luck.   raigslist guys seem to turn into FWB also.

I don't know about the Craigslist in your city, but here in Texas they removed the personals. There is only missed connections now, nothing like men seeking men or any such category like that anymore. Not to many options here anymore.

Hey hot men, thank you for all of your responses, your support and advice. I will try to answer all your questions here in this one response.  Do I take the initiative? Yes most of the time.  If I just log in and wait for someone to contact me first, I will be in my grave before I get any responses! LOL!  Most of the times that I do chat or get a person to play is when I have started the conversation first.  I live in the heart of the city and would love to go to the baths here but unfortunately the bathhouse that Austin had closed and as far as I can see no plans for another one. I find it shocking that the capital of the state of Tx, one of the 4 major cities in Tx does not have a bathhouse.  So you guys that have local access to one are quite lucky. The bar scene here in Austin, well to me ,is less than desired as well.  Overall Austin has approx 4 to 5 gay bars. They are all pretty much designated to certain jaundras. One is a bear/so called leather bar, the other a twink bar, one is a drag bar, and one where daddies go to pick up little boys.  All but one are located in the downtown area of Austin where parking is so very hard to find. You can drive around for an hour trying to get a parking spot.  Eventually you get frustrated and give up. The one bar that was loved by most Hot barebacking leather masculine men closed 5 years ago and  left a giant void for socialization for many gay men.  It was easy to find, good parking and was always packed with hot men and I never had a problem finding fun. So over the years things have really changed as I guess it has in every city.  I try to keep my profile fresh and updated most of the time, swapping out pics, rewording , editing but that seems to make no difference either.  When I lived in Dallas, I never had a problem I could have had fun 3 or 4 times a day if I wanted. But thanks for all of your replies. Location is everything apparently!

On 12/17/2018 at 8:39 AM, FelchingPisser said:

Porn is work.  In my seven shoots I had: 

1)  The "gang" for a gang bang was not vetted properly.  Out of 5 guys who showed up (after they'd arranged for and expected 8 ) one was a total bottom, one said he'd get hard if he could do a specific act (he didn't), one was high and unusable.  So we had a "gang" of two.

2)  The DP looked great in the finished video--it took over an hour to shoot about 6 or 7 minutes as we tried different positions and waited for the bottom who had to do another touch up as we'd gone so deeply.

3)  The producer made a move on the bottom--who became offended and locked himself in the bathroom.  I finally talked him out of it and we filmed--an hour late.

4)  There is a shot of me fucking from underneath.  I love to look at it.  While filming, the light on the camera was so hot, it burned my calf and I felt like the hair on my balls would ignite.

5)  The director ordered me when and how to shoot...which can be a real challenge.  Especially since we were supposedly doing reality porn.

Am I glad I did it?  Yes.  I am very glad to have a record of myself.  I like when guys start an email with "Is that you in...."  I met some terrific guys--and some real losers.

I will have to fully agree with what FelchingPisser had to say about "Porn is work"  The three films I shot were absolutely exhausting.  "The Handyman" took over 8 hours to film a 32 minute video.  The lights were hot, they could not run the air in the hotel room because of the hum it caused . So absolutely dripping wet sex and had to keep drying off.  Also you have to deal with trying to be focused on what you are doing and trying to be in the moment for the action. It can be a tad bit difficult when you have 2 camera men moving all around you and your sex partner. Then there are the times when the top cannot maintain an erection for an 8 hour film shoot.  Am I glad I did it? Of course, I still have guys telling me how much they enjoy watching it, or I will get a message on a site saying, hey, just jerked off to watching you get fucked. wishing I were the top.. So yes it is nice to know that even if I am not in person I can aid somehow in there pleasure! 

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I am a former porn star as well. Someone mentioned Victor Cody, he is the one who contacted me on BBRT and asked if I would do a film.  I was truly flattered. 

I agreed. My porn name is TxHarleyJames.  Did two films (which Victor Cody produced)for Mature Gay Dvd's .   

1.) The handyman (which can be seen on Xhamster)  also here is part of the opening clip below -bareback

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Wow! Thank you for your comments and advice. I really appreciate it. Any more ideas?

Okay, here is the scoop. I have my profiles on several different sites (barebackrt.com/ adam4adam.com/NastyKinkPigs.com/grindr/growlr/scruff) No one is remotely interested in doing anything, chatting, fucking, nothing period.  I even posted an ad on 2 different sites for having fun on my birthday...I am spending it alone. ..No one , not 1 person responded. My ego is becoming shattered here as well as my pride of being a gay man, I am becoming depressed and about to pull and delete all profiles.  I have the same exact profile on each site. Can someone clue me in as to I am doing wrong,? Am I just an ugly / monster/ ogre/ old man/ unattractive/ too honest ? Somebody please tell me what the fuck is up with that!  I am truly starting to  take it personally and it hurts honestly.

Please give me your constructive criticism or advice. I have gone as much as 3 or even 4 months without being with someone for a hook-up .  And a date? try 4 years.  HELP!

Okay, here is the scoop. I have my profiles on several different sites (barebackrt.com/ adam4adam.com/NastyKinkPigs.com/grindr/growlr/scruff) No one is remotely interested in doing anything, chatting, fucking, nothing period.  I even posted an ad on 2 different sites for having fun on my birthday...I am spending it alone. ..No one , not 1 person responded. My ego is becoming shattered here as well as my pride of being a gay man, I am becoming depressed and about to pull and delete all profiles.  I have the same exact profile on each site. Can someone clue me in as to I am doing wrong,? Am I just an ugly / monster/ ogre/ old man/ unattractive/ too honest ? Somebody please tell me what the fuck is up with that!  I am truly starting to  take it personally and it hurts honestly.

Please give me your constructive criticism or advice. I have gone as much as 3 or even 4 months without being with someone for a hook-up .  And a date? try 4 years.  HELP!