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10 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

Honestly, for me there is no such thing as "premature ejaculation" from my Top.  i'm not meaning to be glib either. i have never been disappointed by a Top who was so turned on that He came fast or even as soon as He slid in. Part of my make up as a bottom is wanting to take, not just a Tops cum inside of me, but i am also 'bred' by His mental and emotional pleasure as well. i'm dead serious. The speed at which He releases Himself into me doesn't detract at all. 

Having said that, i understand if You want to prolong the experience because you want to. i wonder how much of the cumming quickly is mental/emotional and how much is physical?

 i'm a total bottom with guys, but have lots of experience as a top from when i was married to a woman (only woman i have ever been with).  Early in my marriage, i learned how to make my wife cum before i did. It took time, but i conditioned myself to not cum until i knew she had been satisfied, didn't matter how long, but it helped me learn how much the mind is employed. Of course, the dynamic between two guys, Top and bottom, is probably usually different than a man and woman?

i do wonder, why is it important to you to go longer?  Are you concerned what the bottom may think?  Is it a form of performance anxiety? Is it always the same or have there been times when you have gone longer without a condom?  

yes i had extremely prolonged sex before, but that was with a bottom who used to enjoy fist fuck. It was totally boring, although bottom did not feel the same. It was fucking loose and puffy. Definitely not my type and hard to keep focus or keeping the heat.

With conodom i could bear till 15-20 minutes, but without it i cum within a minute.

Once there was a bottom who made me cum just by inserting it.

So, i just take it off when i try to cum inside.

One of my friends once recommended lidocine but it was hard to to apply it before i have sex 

If there is any dude like me any tips?

bigger the better even for bottoms 

Although i was top for a long time, but it turned out that i could cum handsfree also. Therefore, i think i could tell on the both side.

I loved them when they cum handsfree, but i  hate bitches who wont let me fuck them after they cum

On 12/8/2018 at 12:09 AM, Upstateguy518 said:

That's how it is sometimes. When I bottom, I like the feeling of getting fucked but I don't really react to it most of the time.

So being dominated is what makes me cum hansfree? haha. Guess i had submissive part inside

 I always that i was a pure top. However several months ago i got drunk and called a vers guy to get sucked.

But he fucked me instead, lucky nothing disastrous happened because i did not empty my stomach.

Anyway he fucked the cum out of me, as a result i came without touching my dick. It was fucking painful, but not that bad.

After that i tried bottom many times, i  cum handsfree 3-4 times in ten . So i thought i was a fucking born slut

But the problem i can't feel the pleasure or any some sort. Topping was much better and easier.

Anyway any advice?