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I prefer New England, where I have retired.  I enjoy stacking the 5 cords of wood which keep me warm in the winter; even if we have 20 inches of snow, we know to stay home for the day (and clear our drives), and the next day the roads will be clear.  Saturday afternoons at the country store for coffee and a muffin provide all sorts of good conversation with people who have lived here for generations.   When I go "south", I prefer southern Quebec in the winter.  The only downside is the interstates tend to be packed on Friday and Sunday evenings when people who realize how great it is here in the winter are on the road from or to  lower New England.  

It also would depend, I should think, on what "detectable" means.  Is it barely detectable (just slight higher than "undetectable"?  "Detectable" could mean everything from "just barely detectable" (i.e., low viral load, but detectable) to "high viral load" (easily detectable).  

My first gay experience was with a man in his 70s when I was in my late 60s.  We corresponded a few times, and then we agreed to meet.  He had a partner who had recently had surgery, so he couldn't play.  We chatted a bit and then went into the front room; we dropped our pants, and he asked me to suck him, which I did, and then he did me.  After a bit, we went up to the play room (complete with swing); he wanted to fuck me (which I wanted as well); he had been tested earlier that week and had the paperwork showing him clean.  I was still anxious and asked him to use a condom, which he willingly did.   I hadn't really expected to be fucked, and so I hadn't cleaned out which showed almost immediately; he said it was no big deal and we went to the bathroom to shower and clean out.  When we came back up to the sling, I told him he didn't need to use the condom, and he was happy to oblige, but when he got close he pulled out and shot over my stomach.

   The first time I was bred was a couple of years later (covid had intervened); we chatted for a bit  one evening on one of the social media sites, and he asked if he could come up; it was already late in the evening, and he arrived around midnight.  We chatted a bit and he showed me his testing; then we went to the bedroom.  Pretty vanilla stuff at first -- sucking, kissing, rimming.  After about a half hour, he asked if could fuck me bare; having seen the testing, I agreed, and he slipped in and began fucking me, at first missionary style, and then he wanted to take me doggy style.  After about 10 minutes, he asked if he could cum in me, and I agreed (I was curious to see what I could feel).  He sped up, and then rammed himself as deep as he could get several times, and stopped.  I could feel his cock pulsing, and the warmth growing in my innards, which I liked very much.   We then fell asleep -- I should have had him do it again in the morning, but he didn't.  I really enjoyed the experience, and especially his courtesy in asking.  Haven't been with anyone I liked as much since then, though I've be bred a few more times by guys with testing. 

Love rimming a nice clean ass, and then being rimmed prior to feeling a nice cock slide in.

On 4/1/2022 at 7:11 PM, funpozbottom said:

I want the cock in my mouth. I've had guys try to shoot at my open mouth and miss it completely. Sort of a waste of a good load, in my opinion.  I also prefer it not so deep that it's in my throat because I like to taste it as it floods my mouth and hold the load in my mouth until he has pulled out. But once he's cum, and before he can pull out, I'll take the cock all the way to my throat again. That usually draws out another moan or two.

I like to feel his cock pulse as it unloads in my mouth -- so in far enough, but not so far that I miss the load. 

3 hours ago, Latinfkhole4U said:

Oh fuck yeahhhh

Nice shaved hole, waiting to be filled!

55 -- not terribly kinky, but satisfied with what I have done.  I haven't done any of the upper value things, and probably never will.  

I didn't start fucking until about 5 years ago (late starter -- well, late admitting to myself that I am gay).  The first time I was fucked, the guy started using a condom and reamed my ass for a while -- things got messy because I hadn't really expected that to happen, and we had to take a shower and get me cleaned out.  As we were drying off, he showed me his testing  from earlier in the week (clear), and he said he wanted to fuck me bare -- I was curious to see if I could feel a difference--I couldn't as the bottom.  He didn't finish inside me though. 

  Several years later, with another guy, we got going with the usual warm ups -- kissing, rimming, sucking; as we got into it, he asked if he could fuck me bare; he had his testing as well, and so I agreed.  He worked his cock in and out of my ass for about 15 minutes and then asked if he could cum inside me -- again, curious to see what I might feel, I agreed -- he sped up, and rammed my ass as he came -- I could feel his cock pulsing, and then a spreading warmth in my ass.  I really appreciated his consideration for me and asking permission (as well as the testing).

I've been fucked a few times since then, always bare - sometimes bred, sometimes not.  I tend to stay with guys around my age and without much experience -- and we are all healthy.  

My sex drive (at 73) is almost totally non-existent.  I read and watch a lot of porn, but it doesn't do anything for me (ED is also an issue, although I recently got a viagra prescription which helps some.  I still enjoy the occasional hook-up, and the feeling of a guy pump my ass and ultimately unloading in it.  But most of my sexual activity these days involves masturbating every day or two, more to keep the prostate in shape and make it easier to piss, than for the erotic sensation.  In other activities I'm still going strong -- cycling, walking (in the winter) -- may get a new set of snow shoes this year).  

I started at age 23 -- crush on cute undergrad in college whom I eventually seduced through massage - after several months of gradually getting his clothes off, I had him naked, working on his buttocks with his legs slightly spread so I could see his balls.  He asked to turn over, and his 4" cock was upright.  I asked if he wanted that massaged, too, and he nodded "yes."  I gave him his first orgasm (at 20 he didn't know how! -- the innocence of pre-internet).  Several weeks later we were playing, and I asked him if he would like his cock sucked -- again, he nodded yes.  I went to work on him, and was rewarded with a nice mouthful.  I did it several more times, and that was the last time until I was 68 when I tried it again.  

On 11/18/2020 at 12:24 PM, cyberdolphnow said:

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

Nice collection -- about the only one that might be a challenge for me is the fist - I use a "duck-billed" fist on myself, but haven't ever had a real fist or something like that dildo.

Looking forward to the continuation of this story. 

On 10/2/2022 at 2:29 AM, Jimmi said:

It really is wonderful writing.  I can’t wait for Brett to meet Luke. 

This has to be one of the most descriptive and erotic evocations of a boy's loss of virginity I have read.  The timing is good, and the descriptions are so good they have my hole twitching!

Very hot story -- hope we get to hear about Saturday night!  

My first time was about 5 years ago.  I had been chatting with a fellow who is several years older than I, and we agreed to get together.  When  arrived, he introduced me to his partner who was recovering from prostate surgery, and then we moved to the front room where we started kissing and feeling each other up.  After about 10 minutes, we moved up to the game room upstairs, complete with sling.  After more naked play, sucking, massaging, and exploring, he asked me if I was ready to be fucked and if I wanted him to use a condom; he had his testing results from earlier in the week, but since it was my first time, I preferred that he use a condom.  He put it on, lubed it up, and slipped into my ass without too much difficulty (I have been playing with it since I was quite young, and routinely use good sized toys on it, so the size was no difficulty for me).   Interesting feelings as he gently moved within me at first and I liked it very much.   I hadn't been expecting to get fucked, and had not cleaned out other than taking a dump before hand.   We took a break and cleaned up and out in the shower, then went back upstairs.  

    We went back upstairs to the play room, and  he asked me to fuck him -- without condom, so I did, which was also a first for me.  After about a half hour of play, he put me in the sling; he asked if I still wanted the condom, but since I wanted to feel the difference and  his testing was clear, I told him he didn't need to use the condom the 2nd time.   Quite frankly, I couldn't really tell much of a difference.  

   We finished up the session, sucking each other off.

    A year later, I was chatting with another guy one evening, and he wanted to come up and meet me -- it was already 9 pm, but I was intrigued and said sure.  When he arrived, we talked for a bit, and then moved to the bedroom where we went through the preliminaries -- kissing, massage, licking, sucking, rimming; while he was rimming me he asked if he could fuck me (I had seen his testing, too), and I agreed.  He slipped in and went to work on me, and after about 15 minutes, he asked if he could cum in me.  I was curious to see if I could feel his cock pulsing, and the cum shooting.  I could feel the pulsing but not the actual ejaculation of cum -- just a pleasant warm feeling spreading through my innards.  

     Then covid hit, and I didn't do anything more for a couple of years.  Looking to do some more now!

Did you agree to meet up with him again and try more?  

On 12/7/2022 at 9:53 PM, ronetbus said:

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://newtumbl.com/x_lrnq6BuGoSdX

Great breeding video - nice pumping action on the cock and taint. 

3 hours ago, NLbear said:

Anyone else a newTumbl user and got nuked? I had been chatting with this guy who told me quite a few regular posters's accounts were deleted. After he told me I realized I hadn't seen some of them posting any new stuff. But I was more a browser and only ocaasionally reblogged a few pics or vids so I wasn't too worried. Until it happened to me. Logged in and saw a message my account was deleted because I had violated the terms & conditions (or something like that). No clue what it was I had done.

Created a new account only to find out I couldn't 'Like' or reblog stuff because of my IP-address. 

Anyone else had this? Anyone know the reason why they purge accounts?

I've been nuked a couple of times on newtumbl -- in my latest form, I can't "like" or "repost" because it can't figure out my IP address -- not a problem for me -- I just download anything I like and put it in a separate file for viewing when I want.   I figure the pix are already there and I don't need to rearrange them.

Great story -- gives those of us who are older hope!

I finally admitted to myself about 10 years ago that I am gay, but didn't actually meet up with a guy for sex until about 3 years ago, when I was fucked for the first time -- he went in with a condom the first time, but later he asked if he could go bare -- he had shown me his testing-- and I agreed, but he said he never came inside of anyone.

   The summer before last, I was chatting with another guy on-line, and we got on very well.  He asked if he could come up for the night (it was about 9 pm at that point), and I said sure.  He arrived about mid-night (gps led him astray), and we chatted a bit more and then went to bed.  We got into it, kissing, sucking, and rimming -- at one point he was rimming my ass and I was enjoying it immensely; he stopped and asked if he could fuck me (he had shown me his testing from that week) and I said yes.  He entered and was giving me a good ride.  Eventually, he asked if he could cum in me, and again (given the testing), I agreed.  I was curious to see if I could feel his cock pulsing and shooting -- I couldn't, but I did feel a nice warmth spreading through my ass as he unloaded in me.    It was a wonderful first experience, and I really appreciated his consideration for me and asking. 

This is a well known phenomenon, captured in the old Latin saying, "post coitum omne animalium triste est."  The advice given by others above is all worth considering to explain it, but it is nothing new.  Thanks for all the responses to this interesting question. 

9 hours ago, HereInLondon said:

That particular video was about having a 'safe' bdsm meet - I don't think there was even any oral during the session, and having my cock in a sheaf, with a condom on, made it more like I was fucking him with a toy rather than me actually fucking him.

The good thing about using the sheaf the most recent time - aye, it stretched his hole, but going from having my cock encased in a sheaf, to then sliding into his gaping arse raw, was a great sensation.

Thank you -- inquiring minds like to know!

On 10/27/2022 at 1:57 PM, HereInLondon said:

Here's the cock sheaf in action - [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.xvideos.com/video69558143/hotel_sub_part_three_of_three_

Not a raw clip, but you'll get the idea what it could do to your hole.

Interesting video -- what purpose does a cock sheaf serve?  I can see that it might be a bigger stretch for the hole, which is always a good thing, but why the condom?