bottomingboy

I have a meet tomorrow that's going to be around 2 hours.

Just wondering if other bottoms have a ritual of some kind to get ready, and also to psych themselves up and get as horny as possible.

6 hours ago, ErosWired said:

@bottomingboy - Before you make a decision, do some background research. Every silver lining is wrapped by a cloud of some sort, and there are risks, disadvantages, downsides and tradeoffs to taking on the Oldest Profession.

Especially if, as others here have indicated, featuring yourself in porn is a component of what you do, realize that that is not something that you can keep secret, and that aspect of your life may resurface in the future when you -inevitably - find that you need to make a living doing something else.

And you will need to plan for a future beyond this time when you are hott and fresh and desirable to other men. Time is implacable, Age is merciless, and there is a horde of younger flesh hot on your heels ready to edge you out the minute you show any sign of wear. When you hit that point, you don’t want to go job-hunting only to be turned away because you have a public record as a pornstar/escort.

There’s also the issue of what would be expected of you by a client who paid you money for your services. When you take Caesar’s coin, you do Caesar’s bidding. Are you prepared to do things you might not want to do, or have done to you, in exchange for that money? Are you prepared to risk men taking what they believe they have paid for whether or not you agree? You’d better be.

 I’m not telling you not to do it, just to be sure you go into it with your eyes wide open and make sure what you give up, and what you risk, is worth the money you get.

Thanks. I'm aware of the risks. Although I'm not sure there much greater than meeting some guy on Grindr.

I'm not planning on going the porn route, or making it a full time thing. Just hoping to make a little extra on the side.

1 hour ago, rawTOP said:

Escorting is the only way I know to monetize being a sub, but you won't earn as much as you would if you were a top. And doing porn is basically the way escorts do publicity. These days you don't have to work for a big studio to do porn and get a name - you can do OnlyFans / JustForFans / RFC Channels.

Thanks to FOSTA/SESTA, not much more can be said here. Maybe DM a sub pornstar on Twitter to learn more. Most of the big names escort.

I'm based in Scotland so unsure if these laws affect me?

3 hours ago, Kimberley said:

Yes you can. i've been fucked for money sometimes. life is hard and the need for money as well

Was that while you're crossdressing?

I'd like to start crossdressing but worry my voice is too deep and my body too masculine

For one, I need the money. I also find the idea of literally whoring myself out to older, desperate men hot.

I'd consider myself hot by most standards, with a slim body and short stature. I'm a total sub.

Just wondering if there are guys who would pay to spend a whole evening with me.

I'm a total sub bottom interested in the idea of chastity. Making it clear my cock doesn't matter for sex, and I'm just there to please tops is a major turn on.

However what is it actually like? Do you still get horny? Does it hurt?

Bottom guy based in UK and really struggling to find any decent Tops!

Where do you guys meet them?

I've tried fabguys and Grindr with very little success

Submitting fully to dominant top men is where I derive most my pleasure.

However there is a degree of shame being a complete slut for real men.

How can you I overcome this and fully accept my place? Do things like Sissy Hypno actually work? Any recommendations?

On 3/17/2019 at 2:40 PM, LittleCumSewer said:

I love everything about sucking cock.i love being down on my knees for men.specially when other men are watching me and seeing how slutty and submissive I am. I love the taste of cock and the smell. I love how cocks feel in my mouth. from the first time I sucked a cock I loved the soft spongy feel of the head in my mouth. I love the feeling of a big hard cock sliding in an out of my throat. I love how it makes me feel like a slut and a faggot. I love how it makes me look like a whore. I love how deepthroating a cock or getting my throat fucked makes me drool all over the cock. I love feeling a guys balls slapping against my chin. I love knowing that guys know me as a cocksucking faggot.i have no gag reflex cause I was truly born to suck cock. it shows how cockhungry and cumthyrsty I am.i don't just suck cock. I AM a cocksucker.

I know what you mean about being born to suck cock. I'd barely sucked any cocks before I was deepthroating and slobbering all over them. Trying to be and look as slutty as possible while sucking a nice dick is euphoric - especially when you get the occasional dose of precum

For me it's a number of things:

I love the manly smell of his cock and balls, the sensation of it slipping in and out my mouth, the sweet taste of his precum, feeling his cock pulsate as his delicious cum fills my mouth. I love the feel of his hand around the back of my neck, or gripping my hair.

I also feel a sense of pride sucking his cock. Pleasuring his cock and receiving his load into my belly is my only purpose in that moment. The more I get into it, the more slutty I want to be. Normally I'll stick my bare ass up as I'm sucking so he has a great view. This sense of purpose makes me feel free. 

I am arranging to meet two guys. No sex, but just to kiss and suck them off and leave. 

Is there any prep I need to do for this? How do I please both guys?

Really just looking for some tips / advice. 

On 3/10/2019 at 5:27 PM, Cuntboyfury said:

Always say, “Yes, Sir”  or Yes, Daddy”

Tell daddy that you want to be a good boy and ask him how you can be one.

 Beg daddy for more (of whatever he’s dishing out)  whether it be sucking, fucking, or following commands.  

Act as if you are ashamed of the sexual pleasure you are getting.  Say that you don’t want to do what he demands of you sexually, but always comply.  Act like it makes you feel degraded (but still do it eagerly).  Act whiny or sullen when you are doing it, but only a little whiny no one wants an irritatingly whiny boy.  

Tell him how much it hurts when he penetrates you.  Beg him to stop when he’s pounding you because it’s too much for you to take.  

I realize this is contradictory to the earlier advice to beg him for more, being a good boy is often contradictory.  You have to mix it up.  Sometimes asking for it and other times pleading for him to stop.  

A boy wants to be masculine and strong (like other boys), but daddy wants you to submit and be a bitch.  A really good daddy will point out that you are not like other boys, that you are more like a girl who needs a man to be in control of you.

after daddy has pounded you hard thank him and tell him he hurt you good with his manly cock deep inside your pussy.  

When he wants to fuck You again tell him you don’t want to (but of course you are going to let him use you again) because it is too sore from the pounding he gave you earlier.  

Always let him know that your pussy is his and his alone.  That you would never let anyone else do these things to you (unless he wants to share you with another man or boy and then only on  his direct orders).  

Alwsys ask daddy if you are doing a good job.  Because you really want to be a good boy more than anything.  

Great advice - thank you. 

I have still yet to meet my "Daddy" but I'm hoping we can arrange something before next month. 

The more I think about it, the hornier I get!

Anyone into father / son roleplay?

I'm arranging to meet a "Daddy" this month (a fantasy of mine) however I have no experience with it.

As far as dirty talk goes, what can I say, or do, during sex to really get my daddy going?