Vancityaladdin

On 1/30/2023 at 4:31 PM, BootmanLA said:

Playing Devil's Advocate: the problem I see there is that (for the most part) this isn't a hookup site, and while personal ads are sort-of tolerated in the regional forums, the truth is that a site like this is always going to be less useful than "the apps" (whichever one might choose to use). At a minimum, sites designed for connecting people need to be able to show who's online, and when, and this one just doesn't. It's a discussion forum.

I can see how that could happen but I mean more of an unbiased collection of tips (locals info for visitors) which are mostly rewritten for whoever inevitably asks everyone what they recommenx regularly 

7 hours ago, garsento said:

Agreed. I am in Ontario, and frankly, the idea that poppers are banned when there are cannabis shops on every corner strikes me as ridiculous. Why not just regulate the quality of poppers as cannabis is regulated?

I only recently heard the ban is related to a politician who was in the closet and partied hard but when they found him passed from OD, family and the conservatives opted to hide what he was doing and blame Poppers.

Yeah, no actual medical support for this ban. Poppers were the sacrificial pawn 

Stealthing without consent should never be done. 

Sucks that the courts aren't repealing the popper Ban despite UBCs paper tying that ban directly to the increase in substance use to fill the void of Poppers 👀

It'd be nice to order jungle juice when it's made in BC

I noticed when I posted in the Fort Lauderdale region forum that it seemed sorta "inappropriate" as outside of vacationers, it's mostly locals. 

A lot of these vacation posts are left unanswered probably cause it's the same questions every time by a new person.

So maybe there should be a section for travelling, gay-cations, how to make a Sexcapade etc, 

Hey I'm coming down In a couple days but since it's mostly for a cruise, I completely forgot to book hotels and have no idea what my options can be for the 2 and 3rd or when the ship gets back for FLL pride. 

The USD-CAD exchange is killing me 😥 I don't want to lose all my money on hotels before pride. 

Any recommendations on what to do?

It could be fungal, get some clotrimazole and it will help tremendously 

Popperzone is a good source 

Any recommendations for the Americas?

Just need to vent for a second. 

I'm exhausted from dealing with guys who say they want to have a good long play session but can't/won't wait for the amount of cleaning that is necessary to do that. Or they complain to me as if I magically turn my body into a perfectly clean sex doll on command. 

I notice this particularly with guys who party so I have a strong suspicion it's the drug induced Narcissism that has them act so entitled but it always puts me in a bad mood.

This is why I'm happy I got myself an early Halloween treat. (The file is too big but it's a Fleshlight Freakz Reaper dildo) 

Trick or Treat, smell my feet, give me some good ass to eat, on your knees, truth or dare, smell my cumstained underwear. 

Deserving men take quality over convenience. 

14 hours ago, BC_Bottom said:

Wondering if it had improved. A couple of years away might have changed things up a bit.

Or maybe that is just wishful thinking.

The theme parks improved, but these are the same old rides at the same prices. Equipment slowly breaks down which wouldn't justify a stagnant price 

9 hours ago, BC_Bottom said:

How is the bathhouse situation these days?
I have not been for a couple of years, for obvious reasons. 

Me neither but it's not because of the pandemic it's because it's always the same. There's never anything "new", I don't think the prices justify what I'm getting there. 

On tom Sawyer's island in Disneyworld 

On 9/21/2022 at 5:34 PM, spunbtm said:

Hosting spun gangbang at hotel downtown Vancouver

Anybody interested? 

Sure

44 minutes ago, BareLover666 said:

Great addition, thanks.

Nice to find that suggesting to look into native-americas culture to someone was a good idea. Respect is infused in every word you write.

 

I'd see it as minority-stress more than as trauma but perhaps we mean the same thing and a sign that I am influenced by the Western religious tradition of exegesis and lesser by a Shamanic tradition of spirituality.

And perhaps a more spiritual approach might also be helpful with mental help and cure problems some of us encounter. But as is, most professionals in that field aren't aware what the original meaning of the word/name Psyche was that gave the name to both psychology and psychiatry. 
Science hasn't progressed that far - for now - they have a satisfactory explanation for our proverbial hearts and minds.

Nice reference to Milton's 'Paradise Lost' btw. Thanks for that. 🙂 

I'm not sure that religion and science ever got along well.

And essential in the literal meaning of the word 'believing' might be that one could be mistaken, while in most to all (Abrahamic) faiths / religions there seems to be a pattern to 'know for sure' which easily turns to absolutism and extremism. 
That's where a rebel, deviant, a Loki or jester plays his (her, them) part.
Or the little boy in Hans Christian Anderson's fairy-tail to shout that the Emperor has no clothes on. Just like science does at times.

I'm humbled by your praise, thank you I'm glad I could accurately translate my perspective in this. Shaman isn't a word that originated from the Americas, the first Shamans were just children born with an open 3rd eye (or equivalent Chakra center expansion)

In western science, that is called "Neurodiversity" add or ADHD. and the spectrum of observation tolerance still has a Russian roulette chance for Clairvoyance or Schizophrenia ( it truly depends on the individual and what they are capable of enduring) 

This is when nature reaches out to us and we are shown how to extract the medicinal essence from the herb, or turn water to wine. This happens with every culture, every species, all around the world. 

Every culture has their unique observations, mine just happens to be scribing divine song. Liturgy that depicts in poetry our celestial story. For example a Midas touch becoming a metaphor for an a toxic obsession to work. 

That insight and clarity is how shamans/priests help the individual realize their true potentials (or Virgil if your name is Dante) 

Demonic exorcisms could be seen as a psychiatric scape goat where pent up stress and behaviour from a closed root Chakra can be given a name from the Goetia, absolving them of sin. 

That being said, can we appreciate how poetic our ancient ancestors were about life? Quite remarkable 

Lol okay guys I think it would be very very helpful if ya'll define your understanding and perception of spiritual concepts before going into your opinions because it sorta looks like everyone interprets this stuff differently. 

Ill clarify that I am a shaman, the way I observe reality aligns with musical philosophy. So to me, everything in reality is made up of vibrations and i as well as many others enjoy the benefits of noticing when some vibrations are in unison or harmony etc.

The Satanic focus and deep dive into Inferno, I have noticed is a rebellion to the Heteronormative identity shaming religious organizations have used to take away the freedom of the individual.

Its a rationalization of opting for the one who would accept their heart rather than the one the community is forcing upon them. 

Which is interesting to me since I've learned that convents and monasteries used to be LGBTQ sanctuaries as in times of harmony, a non hetero child would be considered chosen by the gods to exist as an unbiased arbiter. 

Therefore it could be suggested that if our life were a video game, all LGBTQ are a base priest class simply by having the option to participate in the breeding cycle. 

(That does not give any predation a pass, but it could explain why it's such a consistent abuse of power dynamic ) 

I see how like Lil Nas Call me by your name depicts opting for having control over your own hell rather than never being accepted into their heaven, the infernal fallen angels are symbols of freedom and self actualization.

Do the individuals who agree with this need mental health support? 

Probably to address the damage done from years of abuse and rejection that has led them to seek rationalization of their trauma.

I don't think believing in religion or spirituality is a sign that the individual is mentally underdeveloped. Rather that it's a paradigm achieved through creativity/right side of the brain dominance. 

Religion and science used to get along when they didn't fight for a budget lol 

@Vancityaladdin

Anyone planning anything fun this year? 

Maybe his kink is worshipping your form via essay? 🤣

1 hour ago, nastysubbbbottom said:

are there any gay bb cruises?

I found on bestcumdumps.com a link to 1 gay cruise provider but I doubt that a cruise would advertise unsafe practice if they want to legally operate. 

Given the cruise industry often uses international waters to feign ignorance of all activities happening on them, any BB events would probably be advertised inside the ship during the cruise when they won't get fined for it and can destroy all evidence.

The more I think about it, isn't a gay cruise just a bathhouse boat bed&breakfast?

So It's not a BB, it's a BBBB 🤣

2 hours ago, hntnhole said:

When I saw this post, I sniffed around a bit too.  In my area, both were heavily dependent on public parks/spaces, most of which I'd never heard of because I never go to them.  There were some of the infamous local bars/fuckclubs, which I already know about.  I don't imagine I'll bother with either of these.  It makes me wonder who's behind these. In the fuckjoints, either they're there to fuck or get fucked, with none of the potential risk of arrest.  I know some guys find that risk exciting somehow, but I've never been arrested for fucking in public, and I reckon I'll keep it that way.

I always try to keep out for sites that slip under the SEO. Yeah I know the app stores aren't giving us what we deserve but even Grindr requires you to have a Gmail account because they IP ban anything related to you if they want to ban, and it apparently is happening to more and more guys. 

I found both of these sites from the Twitter gay scene so I was curious if I was the one who was out of the loop or are these guys just trying to slip into the hook up app list as if we wouldn't notice lol.

Finding a gay adult search engine is difficult enough as it is, I just have this gut feeling like there's a really good site with fantastic interface right underneath our noses.

Or maybe that's wet day dreaming.

I'm just honestly frustrated we don't have as many gloryholes as we should. C'mon guys, the CDC recommends gloryhole usage during a pandemic too

Pitt Meadows here

Have you guys used Holehunter.com ?  The site kinda popped up out of no where.

Same with Bestcumdumps.com

Holehunter.com is pretty popular in the states for live cruising updates

Hey boys @vancityaladdin on twitter, lookin to get filled up