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  1. I feel OP wants to stir the pot here, or definitely follows some reactionary content creators. A one second google search and you can find out exactly why they recommend avoiding the word homosexual. And it’s not SGL. The whole list is recommended for use by the media, not the LGBTQ Community:

    This Guide is intended to be used by journalists reporting for mainstream media outlets and media creators who want to tell the stories of LGBTQ people fairly and accurately. It is not intended to be an all-inclusive glossary of language used within the LGBTQ community, nor is it a prescriptive guide for LGBTQ people. There is no one way to be LGBTQ, nor is there one way to describe LGBTQ people. In fact, you will see one practice recommended throughout the Guide: Ask people how they describe themselves, ask people their pronouns, and identify them in your coverage as such.

    [think before following links] https://glaad.org/reference/

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  2. My first fuck was bare. Then was a strict condoms only guy, but when I started visiting saunas, usually slightly intoxicated and still closeted, I went bare again as it made me feel good, slutty and sleazy. But still condoms when doing a ‘proper’ hookup. But started dating an older man/daddy who convinced me to go bare with him, he was undetectable. He showed me it was what I really wanted and he helped me get to be my real sleazy self. 

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  3. There were always complicated guys, lurkers, pic savers etc. But it’s gotten worse after then pandemic. And I don’t even hook up that much anyway and am noticing it. It’s like half the world lost all social skills and they never relearned them. Hell I even get weird interactions now while shopping at Costco.

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  4. On 5/3/2023 at 3:55 PM, FunCheerSlut said:

    Can I please get an AMEN, everyone...seriously.

    Perhaps what I am reading into this is that there used to be in a time in a less social media driven world, where men were mature enough and self-actualized enough to realize that in order to have an orgy that superficial artificial bull-shit could never even enter the equation. That most participants were just eager versatile sexual enthusiasts who were ready prepared and willing to sample the buffet of men known as a sex orgy (without question, without judgment).

    Sadly, I find that in our "modern" world of social media influencers and tik-tok that vanity is at an all-time high. Men have too many apps and too many buckets and tags and filters (and labels and categories) available to use to try and realize the 'hype' of getting that unicorn stud to show up to pound their hole when they are horny and available.

    It's all smoke and mirrors for fucks sake. It almost never actually happens that way because I am reading several posts of how horrible and frustrating it actually is. So, perhaps until we all get over ourselves this isn't going to improve.

    xoxo hugs n kisses to you all, please be kind to one another!!

    You’re right, they are from a different time, but I hope not. Would love to find a group like that again. 

    Maybe apps and social media are making it too easy to look for that next best thing and just move on to the next chat to look for that perfect fuck. I know some guys that while on the way to a hookup are still looking for a better option and sometimes ditch the first one.

  5. Have been without a good regular orgy for a while now.

    But like others said, in the past every regular orgy I frequented was the result of getting invited by a hookup/fuck buddy who knew I’d be into that. They were more or less carefully curated groups of men, always skewing 30+ in age, more older guys. Almost all of us versatile, and no attitude or hangups. Fat, skinny, older, younger, wasn’t an issue. We’re there to swap loads indiscriminately. 
    But they’re hard to find. 

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  6. I’ve had this as well. Get an oink! You respond with a simple question to start the hookup and nothing.  I completely stopped responding to oinks! with messages. Just oink back and see what happens. If they’re interested they usually send a message back. 
     

    But in general it’s so incredibly hard to keep a conversation going to get to a point to hookup on certain platforms nowadays. It’s like conversion skills have gone down hill. 

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