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  1. On 4/21/2023 at 11:06 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

    Interesting account. I’ve never been to Snax, and although I’ve always wanted to see the interior of Berghain in all its glory, I’m not sure I can be bothered with all the aggro. You reach a certain point in life where the idea of standing in a queue for 3 hours, with the very real possibility of being rejected at the end of it, just really doesn’t appeal anymore. I literally have far better things to do with my time. I’m sure it’s “amazing” once you’re inside- if you’re really into music, dancing, and all that shit-  but I’m only in it for the sex, and I’m just as sure I can get the same or better sex elsewhere- hell, in those 3 wasted queueing hours alone I could probably have scored a dozen loads somewhere else.

    Perhaps that’s why the crowd is getting younger- older guys with a bit of life experience just won’t put up with that kind of treatment. I’m sure it’s music to some people’s ears that the oldies are staying away, and who knows? Maybe the chaotic door policy is a deliberate ploy to achieve just that end! I for one am only too happy to leave the young to do their thing- it sounds like an awful way to spend a night in Berlin. I’ll stick to my policy of only visiting that city outside of the main events: there’s always plenty of cock to go round, and it just sounds like it’s a lot less hassle.

     

    If you're still keen on going to Lab/Berghain, plan a trip outside of the big events, i.e, Folsom, BLF, Snax etc. It's worth it.

    I don't think the change in the crowd is intentional, I'm seeing it everywhere on the fetish scene, especially with the increasing popularity of the pup/handler community. Younger non-fetish guys are venturing out to the bigger events for sex, which is fine, but 20 year-old twinks in pink plastic harnesses does nothing for me.

    The older guys were all over Berlin for BLF, just not at Snax, which is a shame as 6-7 years ago, it was much more sleazy.

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  2. On 8/19/2021 at 9:00 AM, AirmaxAndy said:

    I used to visit berlin in the days when I was a lot bigger, and I think it massively depends on the places where you go.  I always study the schedules and have a Plan A and a Plan B just in case. 

    I've never seen or heard of on the door discrimination at Laboratory for their usual parties, although Snaxx has a reputation for stricter door policy we've never had a problem - but I hear the door guy dislikes tourist twinks. Like most places, be prepared than once inside you will be pretty much invisible to most guys if you're not conforming to the ideal type. Biohazardmen at Connection was similar - easy to get in, but tough going in the cruising spots. I (and others) have been turned away from entry to Jaxx (too old when I was 43). The guy on the door of New Action who is the owner of New Action and Slut Club in Hamberg begrudgingly let us in, but was *exceptionally* rude to us. He told my friend he should pay triple entrance fee because of his size. Actually I remember a barman at Slut Club coming on to the same bear-ish friend, only to ask him in the darkroom "I don't want to do anything, I just wanted to know,  how do you even have sex if when you look down you can never see your penis?"

    On the positive side, some of the smaller less commercial clubs and venues are *far* more welcoming... to name a few:  Scheune, Bull Bar, Ajpnia, Woof, Quaelgeist, Bose Buben... 

    We've always avoided the tourist seasons of BLF and Folsom as the city is saturated with ultra competitive bottom guys, and I think a lot of the locals are put off by that. Much better to plan a more relaxed trip during normal times and experience Berlin with real Berliners. 

      

    Interesting.

    I've just returned from BLF an had an ok time - Darklands was MUCH better. The reason echoes some of the points you raised.

    • At Snax on the Saturday night, aside for the usual disorganisation and chaos getting in, the door staff were just outright rude, turning people away with the vague excuse their 'outfits' weren't fetish, which I would agree with, but upon entry you see that half the guys in there are in basic underwear with a harness at a push and probably have no real interest in fetish and are just there for the fun/action. I won't be returning to Snax, a standard night at Lab outside of the major events is much better. Not only that, but in my recent visits to Snax, I've noticed the crowd is becoming younger and younger, which isn't to my taste.
    • Berlin is too hung up on image and I'm noticing this more and more. I know some guys from Cologne who no longer visit Berlin for this reason. When we first discussed this some time ago, I didn't really take much notice to what they were saying - how that's changed!
    • Berlin is more relaxed (door staff included) outside of the major events. Just something to consider.
  3. On 1/13/2023 at 9:14 PM, ellentonboy said:

    I accept the fact that we are all going to pass away at some point.  Death and taxes, two things that are inevitable.    I believe that guys who do porn are just like the rest of us.  However in the advent of the internet and social media, when someone from the adult entertainment industry passes away it may grab 30 seconds on some gay website.  Twenty years ago that was not the case, you may not have heard about someone you recognize passing for weeks or months.

    I try not to make assumptions about why someone has died.  It's a cliche to say "oh another drug overdose".   Not long ago, I believe I watched on U-Tube, a tribute to gay porn stars who have passed away.  You would think AIDS or Drugs were the usual reasons.  What I found surprising were so many who died from things anyone can die from. Car accidents, domestic abuse issues, home invasions, etc.  The reasons can vary.  I don't start researching to look at someone's "body of work" in porn just because they passed away.

    If they come across my computer, or on the screen when I look up at a party, it clicks in my mind that they are no longer with us.  But I certainly don't get aroused or depressed.   These people, just like other people died, and that's  part of the cycle of life.

    Home invasions? Is that something people commonly die from in the U.S?

  4. On 2/2/2023 at 4:08 AM, backpackguy said:

    Too often...most American guys don't like man stink...like feet, sneaks ans sox, it seems more like a European fetish...I'mdoing my best to promote in in the U.S....snif, lick, suck...Nirvana!! Where are U located?🍑🧦👣👟🥾😈🐷😋

    I'm in London, U.K. Yeah, the sneaker and socks thing is big over here.

    I'm heading over to Darklands in Belgium in March for the annual pig fest - i don't shower all weekend, I just clean my hole. By the third day, I'm reeking so good after sweating, being pissed on, pissed in, loaded.  I really get off on the comments I get from guys who get off on the smell. Oink.

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  5. On 1/16/2023 at 8:37 PM, backpackguy said:

    Luv man smells/stink...gets me soooooo horny...sniffing & licking pits, ball sacs, musky asses, feet, soxs, sneaks, boots...better than poppers!!!!! Stopped using deodorants years ago...snif, snif, lick...HEAVEN!!!👅🍑🍆🧦👣👟🥾🔥😈🐷😛😋

    How often do you shower?

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  6. On 1/8/2023 at 6:55 AM, NYBBGUY58 said:

    I have a major fetish for smelling guy's asses, especially, along with balls, dick and armpits. I might give you a run for your money...

    Nice - love ripe hairy muscle hole,sweaty musky balls and cock, sweaty ripe feet...

    Unwashed armpits, sex funk.

     If a guy has all the above and is happy washing twice a week, i'd marry him!

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  7. 16 hours ago, samBE said:

    Hey guys, sorry for my English, it's not my native language.

    I would like to discuss this: I am bottom, and I love BB. But I also have a specific taste in men, for example I don't date openly gay men, I like discreet, straight guys, especially if they are married to women or have girlfriends.

    I often travel around Europe and have noticed that depending on the country BB sex is radically different. For example, in Western Europe and the UK, tops are talk about condoms very often (90%) and almost always demand it. While in Eastern Europe they are not talked about condoms (most often) and simply bringing them to a date.

    But for example in the Balkans there is a policy of "don't tell, don't ask" and BB sex with married guys is the best there.

    I myself never mention condoms before date (in app), but I have never managed to convince a Top to fuck me BB if he specifically asks for it. How to gently persuade / hint to the TOP that I want BB?

    What is your experience? How can I increase the number of BBs in Western Europe and the UK? Where I live (Netherlands) BB only possible with open gays who are on preps. But I'm not interested with this guys at all.

    What can you advise me? or share your opinion about different countries where BB worked best.

    Thank you in advance

    Why don't you date openly gay guys?

  8. On 8/24/2022 at 10:16 PM, PartyFFPig said:

    I sucked TitPig’s dick at an event in Seattle many years ago.  Carl Barnes (BearFilms, TIM) has been a fuckbuddy for a long time, I gave Hank Rivers (TIM) his first double fist, and Dred Scott (Titan) fucked me at Club Z in Seattle a while back.

    Dred Scott? That must have been some years ago!

  9. On 5/31/2022 at 3:08 PM, ellentonboy said:

    Just so you know Jeff Allen is not exactly the nicest of individuals.  I didn't spend a few hours with him, more like three days.   He actually used Yahoo Messenger and broadcast my bf and another guy without their permission.  This was done in my home after I had initially hooked up with him.

    This is the way it played out.  We all met on the ICU II web cam site.  JeffAllen or Jeff AllanXXX as he was known there invited four of us to come to Orlando.  He was in the process of selling a condominium of his late partner.  I did not know him that well, he was friendlier with my partner.  On occasion, when my bf had ICU up and running he would ask him to bring me into camera focus.  Jeff, who living in Long Beach  CA, at the time, would say hello to me and introduce me to his friends.

    So four of us climbed into a car and drove from Tampa to Orlando.   Jeff had a bottom date with him already at the location.  I thought that seemed fine.  Well, Jeff was kind enough to give all of a shot of trimix as "enhancements" were on the menu for the evening.  After I was given the enhancement, I suddenly found Jeff on top of me, and inside me.  What I did not know is that behind a mirror was a camera.  After being somewhat "out of it" I mentioned to another party goer that the mirror and the camera did not match.  Well that was because "moving making" was over, and Jeff had live streamed it.   When I asked an ICU buddy about the whole situation, he said "Don't worry, the video was hot, it's already been burned to DVD.  I was not a happy guy.  Jeff did not speak to my partner that evening, instead going to bed and leaving us with plenty of enhancements, which I declined.

    The next day Jeff and his "date" (who I never saw him have sex with) drove from Orlando back to my place in Tampa and decided to stay.  Jeff was on an east coast swing, so to speak.  He also used "enhancements" to basically immobilize me while my bf and Jeff's date played in a swing and Jeff Allen broadcast that.

    Now, I was in no condition to tell him to stop, he continued to yell at me in my own home, but to make this better he left me PLENTY of free "enhancements" as well as trimix.  Not long after Jeff Allen was BANNED from  Yahoo Messenger and was no longer on ICU ll.  Anyone that doubts my reaccounting of this event please feel free to contact me because it is logged in my brain forever.

    Jeff Allen (Paul actually) is not  a nice guy.  Anyone want to add to that?

    This sounds dodgy as hell.

  10. On 4/25/2022 at 8:14 PM, ellentonboy said:

    I would think that most of the performers from Treasure Island Media are poz, or poz friendly. The question is, how do you track them down and how do you communicate with them??

     

    I know that Jeff Allen from Raging Stallion, (you may know him as JeffAllenXXX) is poz and I have played with him, you can see video clips of him on Raging Stallion's website and he also has appeared in at least one Treasure Island Video.  

    He must be getting on now. He started out with Hot Desert Knights I believe in the late 90s so must be nearing 60 at least...

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